Y'all should check out this great book "The Refrigerator Monologues. Its set in the after life for" copy right distinct" versions of heroines that were harmed for a male characters story. Such as Harley Quinn and Gwen Stacy, It's honestly a fun read despite being such grim commentary. Throughly enjoyed.
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This one particularly bugs me when the woman is shown to be a capable, independent badass in her own right, but just as her story is getting going, as @Lumidaub@feddit.org put it, her story is cut short.
So that the "real hero" can start his.
It is so maddening when it happens, and while it is not exclusively the domain of American superhero comics, it is by far worst right there.
One of my biggest gripes with the Guardians of the Galaxy Gunn-ification. In the comics, the characters are actually competent, if uncouth and often anti-heroes. The movies turn them all into bumbling idiots, and Gamora, a no-bullshit, "will walk through a star, burn her skin off, then knock you out afterwards" badass, is a "soft-on the inside" love interest that gets fridged for not not one, but two guys. That scene with Thanos in Infinity War still pisses me off.
Isn't this just typical 'damsel in distress' shit? Why do you need a new term like 'fridging' to describe it?
It was called fridging after one character literally had his girlfriend murdered and stuffed in a fridge. There was a lovingly rendered discovery scene.
Women dying for male character impetus is very different from "damsel in distress" Btw
Damsel in distress is where the woman needs saving.
Fridging is where the woman has faced near or fully irreparable harm or death and the hero feels a need to avenge her as a result.
That's only half of it. The point is that a woman is killed/harmed and her story cut short, simply to start the male hero's story.
I didn't disagree, I included bodily harm in damsel in distress. Just that it's not the entire focus unlike fridging.
It's a bit of a square/rectangle thing. All of the women who get fridged are/were damsels, but not all damsels get fridged.
Oh, I think it works as a subtrope really well that way
Because in the Green Lantern comic it came from, the hero's girlfriend got dismembered and stuffed in his fridge. Killing off female characters for the sake of easy drama is especially prevalent in superhero comics, extending way before this specific issue (see Gwen Stacy to start). But this incident is what prompted fantastic writer Gail Simone to coin the phenomenon's comic-related incarnation.
Superhero comics are the American cheese product of written entertainment.
I think "fridging" implies more bodily harm (or threat thereof) than the traditional "damsel in distress" which is often a kidnapping or often a form of arranged marriage, though bodily harm is part of both. Either way, tropes change and can get new names over time, so I guess this might be a more modern term for an old trope with some new stuff added?
It reminds me of Mr Freeze from Batman, who is motivated to save his literally fridged wife
Years of media have taught me that damsel-in-distress could easily be a woman tied to train tracks with an oncoming train or about to plunge off a cliff in a run away stagecoach. I disagree that damsel-in-distress is exclusive to non-bodily harm.
Both of these examples are "imminent danger" where she hasn't been harmed yet, and can still be saved. Fridging would be if the hero discovers her already run over or walks in right as she's shot or whatever.
I could see that. But that’s not what the meme says.
True it says facing