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A little maybe, but not much.

I've seen people say they left reddit to join Lemmy because of the toxic users. To each their own, but I personally think Lemmings aren't much better. Some people over here can't understand that sensitive questions can be asked without bad intent. People are way too defensive about their opinions.

It is disappointing, but it's the better option.

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[–] hoch@lemmy.world 1 points 10 minutes ago

Less bots, more tankies.

I'm not sure which is worse.

I've only encountered the occasional RWNJ that gets banned quickly on Lemmy's various communities. There's still a strong contingent of neo-liberals here because Reddit is hostile to anyone not far right enough. I usually label them if I think they might have a modicum to discuss or label then mute them so I know what for.

I question what sensitive inquiries you make exactly.

The caveat if you run into nothing but assholes rule also applies. I only show hostility if someone does first or they're evident arguing in bad faith or keep pushing a flawed opinion. On Reddit, you could say "I like pancakes" and get even the pancake lovers mad at you for not liking waffles enough.

[–] Arachnidbrilliant@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

If you use the word toxic, you’re probably the problem. You might be more comfortable on Reddit

[–] GuyIncognito@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 minutes ago

am i a toxic pershun?

[–] wpb@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Some people over here can’t understand that sensitive questions can be asked without bad intent.

This just screams mott and bailey fallacy. It is very reminiscent, for example, of transphobes complaining that they get attacked for having the gall of claiming "sex is real". And that's basically what happened here. You said some upsetting shitty things in the thread about the two child policy, and now you're whining about people getting upset about it. Go touch some grass.

[–] hateisreality@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

I am going to push back a bit here, I've never been banned on Lemmy.... Reddit permabanned me 3 or 4 years ago, then lost so many users they unbanned my account randomly.

[–] HrabiaVulpes@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

If you want to have a really bad opinion on people in general, engage with them on social media.

[–] mlg@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Just the fact that your comments and posts aren't nuked by mods and admins for existing is what puts lemmy well above any popular social media platform.

I think the average user is still wayyyyyy better than reddit because you will actually get a decent chunk of normal responses here, as opposed to an entire thread being filled with completely useless text or karma farming addicts.

And thanks to federation, if you ever do find yourself in a dumb instance like hexbear or feddit (lol), you can just swap to a new instance with no problem, and often users will naturally follow to the better instances where you don't have content censorship .

[–] lmmarsano@group.lt 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

To each their own, but I personally think Lemmings aren’t much better. Some people over here can’t understand that sensitive questions can be asked without bad intent. People are way too defensive about their opinions.

Yep, they can get awfully histrionic, prematurely judgmental, self-indulgent with the recreational outrage, vainly uncritical in their ideological thinking, and generally unchill. Nonetheless, better to deal with that than the utter shitfest of Reddit moderators.

[–] FirmDistribution@lemmy.world 13 points 4 hours ago

Idk I kinda like it here. Everybody uses linux in this place.

[–] kreskin@lemmy.world 10 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (15 children)

I disagree, Karl. Zionists are out of effing control on reddit today, and they pollute threads with denials of whats clearly shown in the news, or else make wild claims without evidence.

You are of course, wle come to your opinion, but what you are saying makes no sense to me.

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[–] doodledup@lemmy.world 12 points 6 hours ago

It's just another bubble. Choose the bubble that fits you.

[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 32 points 8 hours ago (4 children)

I think you're missing the point.

People are people everywhere you go. Nowhere is free of people unless you want to be by yourself.

Lemmy and the Fediverse is not about only being around people that are exactly perfect for you to associate with.

It's about not giving your thoughts, your mental energy, and your time to build an empire for someone else to profit off of.

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[–] HeroHelck@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 7 hours ago (1 children)
[–] BlushedPotatoPlayers@sopuli.xyz 3 points 4 hours ago

A priest explained us that hell is like a huge dinner party, lots of great food, but people have only long spoons, so they can't eat the food no matter how much they try. Heaven, well, it's the same stuff because God loves everyone, but people care and feed others with their spoon. Not really buying into the whole church business, but I always liked this picture.

[–] CactusEcho@piefed.social 24 points 8 hours ago (3 children)

I'm doing my part!

PSA: you can block users. Don't be afraid to do it. There's nothing you can say that will convince flat earthers or similar stupid people.

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[–] Sir_Simon_Spamalot@lemmy.world 7 points 7 hours ago (4 children)

I'm with you. Try having anything with "religion can be good" or "vegan has its flaws" and you're guaranteed to be downvoted to oblivion.

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[–] taiyang@lemmy.world 14 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

It's kinda like the founding of Australia - we get a ton of exiles who were wrongfully prosecuted by the Reddit government, but we also get a fair share of degenerates and murderers who also got banned and ended up here. There's even a native Lemmy group who was here before Reddit shed users and they really don't appreciate it to say the least.

[–] stylusmobilus@aussie.zone 2 points 2 hours ago

really don’t appreciate it to say the least

Hahaha what’s this? Come on bust open the story

[–] BananaIsABerry@lemmy.zip 11 points 8 hours ago

Lemmy is filled with people who are too principled and too adamant about their stance to use Reddit because of the enshittification. If you put a bunch of highly opinionated and stubborn people in one place, you get this.

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