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I never really liked being in photos...

Shyness???

I have like some family photos in 2005? 2007/2008?

In some drawers somewhere...

I don't think I had any more recent ones besides like maybe aunts/uncles have them on their smartphones... during extended-family gatherings...

I have an ambivalent relationship with parents and never really intentionally asked them to like... pose for a photo... don't think I had any photos of family lol...

I have no selfies and no recordings of myself...

I cant even remember what I used to looked like or sounded like...

Like if my parents die right now... I wouldn't even have a recent photo to mourn lol

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[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 1 points 56 minutes ago

Born in 83.

Lots of photos in albums but as far as I'm aware, except for a video from a primary school event in 1989 there are no recordings of my in existence from prior to 2005ish.

[–] Buffalobuffalo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 6 hours ago

Get some photos and maybe a recording of a well told story from either of them. I wish i had.

[–] FinjaminPoach@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago

I have none because my parents were lazy, bad at organising, constsnty fatigued and didn't have dedicated shelf space to put it in. Wish I had more. We do have photobooks, they basically stopped taking photos from when I was 6/7 onwards though.

I haven't taken phptos of myself in a while because my phones were usually crap and had storage issues. Maybe i'll do it tomorrow bht with my Digital camera

I have an ambivalent relationship with parents and never really intentionally asked them to like… pose for a photo… don’t think I had any photos of family lol…

I think i asked them to take more photos once or twice, didn't amount to anything

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago

Very few photos. And, no video or movies at all.

I don't care, though, I don't think much about the past. I reminisce occasionally, but it's not a big part of my mental landscape. I haven't looked at the photos I do have of family at all in many, many years.

[–] WatDabney@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 9 hours ago

None to speak of.

I'm pretty sure I have some from almost random pointd throughout at least a good part of my life squirreled away somewhere, but I couldn't tell you where.

My favorite ex-girlfriend has a bajillion pictures of me, since she takes photos constantly and always wants people in them, so I was the most common subject for a time. I never even really looked at them then though, and now they're on the other side of the country (though if they were here, I still probably wouldn't look at them).

It's not so much that I dislike them or anything - I've just never really seen the point, and never even really think about it.