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I haven’t had a TV in my bedroom in over 20 years. I had an ex who always wanted it on all the time, even to sleep to, and it drove me crazy.

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[–] ZoteTheMighty@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 hour ago

I had a TV in the bedroom, but removing it was one of the best choices I made. I liked the idea of creating TV-free spaces so much that I moved the TV out of the living room too. The living room is a social space, the TV room is a dedicated room to watch the TV. There is no context where "the TV is just on".

[–] XeroxCool@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I don't now, not for any "screen rules", but because we have the space to spread out. I think that's an underlying factor to this thread. We have ownership of the living space and have a slight excess if you count occupants vs rooms with TVs or laptop areas. Between living with my parents later than I'd like and then having shared apartments, I always had a TV in the bedroom from ~10 on because that was my bedroom, my office, my game space, etc. But now, if the SO and I decide our house isn't crowded enough and add kids, I can certainly see adding a TV back to the bedroom.I wouldn't want them to feel confined with all their entertainment in one room like I felt growing up.

[–] chatokun@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 1 hour ago

I have a TV in both my living room and my room. I haven't used either in months, but I sometimes use it. My roommate uses the living room one a few times a month but uses the one in her room a lot.

My entertainment choices vary and currently it's covered by my tablet and pc, but I'll use the TV again when I want to play on switch or steamdeck(some games I prefer the deck).

[–] mechoman444@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

I think the better question and the one that would get more yes or no answers is do you have any screens in your bedroom? Not necessarily televisions.

I think significantly more people watch their phones in bed than they do large TVs.

[–] LoafedBurrito@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Always. I watch something before I go to sleep. It's a routine. Whether it was a free TV or a nice LED tv, I always had something in my room.

[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 1 points 2 hours ago

we have a TV in the living room, it only goes on once or twice a week, has a n Nvida box connected. I'm retired, so there's not enough time to watch much TV.

[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 1 points 2 hours ago

no

bedroom is for quality sleep. if I want poor quality sleep, I'll sleep on the couch in front of the TV

looking at backlit screens before bed is terrible for my sleep quality

[–] WoodScientist@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

My husband and I don't have a TV in our bedroom. We'll go to bed at different times, and a TV going is just too much light and noise. If one of us wants to fall asleep to a TV show, there's a very comfortable couch in the living room.

I think it might be different if we had kids. In that case, having a TV in the bedroom can be useful, in case you want to watch something kids aren't old enough for yet. But it's just the two of us, so we keep a TV out of the bedroom. The bedroom is for sleeping and other activities.

[–] Ryanmiller70@lemmy.zip 1 points 3 hours ago

I sleep better with a YouTube video playing as I fall asleep (specifically something from Vinny Vinesauce's Fullsauce channel).

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 10 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Ew no. Absolutely not. TV in the bedroom is the antithesis of sleep hygiene.

[–] Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works 7 points 6 hours ago

Me nodding sagely to this comment as I scroll in bed

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

Yes and no.

Occasionally I like to fall asleep to SNL or a football game in the fall, but my bedroom is also haunted and the ghost like to turn the TV on at weird times, so I leave it unplugged the vast majority of the time.

[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

No.

TV in a bedroom is just a bad idea for overall health.

[–] brewery@feddit.uk 1 points 4 hours ago

Yes because it's another room we are able to chill in separately and it was my very old TV before I decided to upgrade to 4k. We have a living room but on some occasions we want to watch our own shows. It gets used about once a week. It's not used before bed. I don't see the issue if you're able to use it without fucking up your life. We don't have a TV in the children's rooms. We have a kitchen with a small dining table - no mobile devices allowed so makes sense not to have a tv. We don't have any other rooms.

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 7 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

For heavens sake, no. There is a TV in the living room, and a small one in the studio. A TV does not belong in any bedroom.

Especially not a modern "smart" TV with built-in microphones...

[–] ramble81@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 hours ago

Embarrassed to let it hear you wanking?

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 3 points 5 hours ago

No bedroom TV. As an ADHD person, that's just a 'never-going-to-sleep' trap. I do have a list of youtube channels I put on my phone at lowest volume and screen off for background noise. It can't be too interesting or I won't sleep; it just needs to keep my mind from wandering in bad directions.

[–] BandDad@lemmy.zip 1 points 4 hours ago

Yes, but we never watch anything on it unless we are sick in bed. Screen time happens elsewhere in the house to separate the sleep from the family time.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 4 hours ago

I don't have those things and I don't have a TV in my bedroom. I do have my PC in there though and I watch shit on that. It's off when I'm going to sleep though.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 5 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

where else am I supposed to watch my pornos?

ofc there's a TV in the bedroom. one in the bathroom, the kitchen, the laundry room, the family room, the living room, the dining room, the breakfast nook, all the bedrooms, the office, the garage, the patio.

[–] turdburglar@piefed.social 2 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

so what you’re saying is that you live in a one room shack?

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

I don't own a TV. I'd rather be on my computer approximately 100% of the time.

[–] Monster96@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

I do. It keeps me off my phone and I can watch the shows I have on my list. And, when I suffer from nightmares, it provides me some comfort. But, then again, I still technically sleep with a night light despite my age so maybe I'm an exception.

[–] XeroxCool@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Lol I use a nightlight at home and travel with one. Not because I'm scared, but so I can navigate the room quickly in the middle of the night. Usually just to pee. I already wake up confused enough about my location at home if I happen to wake, no need to be further confused in a new place.

[–] jerebear39@slrpnk.net 1 points 5 hours ago

I feel big screen is slightly better than looking at my phone all the time. Like putting on a movie or show makes me focus on one thing at a time, and when I want to go bed, the sounds of the natural doc I have on make me go to sleep fast. I know people recommend no blue light at all, but for me, it's better to pick something slightly less bad, imo. I'm all for TV in the bedroom.

[–] bdonvr@thelemmy.club 2 points 6 hours ago

I've got one but really basically never use it

It's just the old one from the living room though I'd never buy a bedroom TV

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

No TV in the bedroom. Bedroom is for other activities.

[–] Trashboat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 hours ago

Like sitting on your phone or crying!

Nope, because as you said it'd be a distraction and can affect people's ability to sleep as the blue light messes with circadian rhythm.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 35 points 13 hours ago (4 children)

No TV in my bedroom. The only time we spend in there is sleeping.

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[–] bridgeenjoyer@sh.itjust.works 3 points 7 hours ago

No. No TVs in living room or bedroom. I have a separate gaming room for that. I hate TVs as center pieces unless its a gaming crt

[–] waterore@lemmy.world 27 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

"No screens in the bedroom" was supposed to to help me sleep better years ago, it didn't really matter if they're in there or not but I still keep to the rule.

[–] Bakkoda@lemmy.world 11 points 11 hours ago

We listen to music, read, has the sexes and other things but no TV in the bedroom. Always a rule for us.

[–] btsax@reddthat.com 3 points 7 hours ago

Hell yeah dude, because the bed is comfy. Favorite place to watch shows or game

[–] Voidian@lemmy.dbzer0.com 35 points 13 hours ago

I already have a magical rectangle my dumb ass likes to look at already. I don't want another.

[–] karpintero@lemmy.world 5 points 9 hours ago

No TV but the more pernicious thing now is anything connected to the internet. Feels like "no TV in the bedroom" should be updated to "no screens in the bedroom" since a lot of folks end up doom scrolling instead of going to bed.

[–] Professorozone@lemmy.world 1 points 6 hours ago

Personally I'm not a huge fan. We only have one and it's in the living room. I do stream quite a bit but I just don't want it in my bedroom.

[–] Libb@piefed.social 19 points 12 hours ago

We have no tv. None.

[–] djdarren@piefed.social 1 points 6 hours ago

Yes, but it's not currently hooked up to anything because we don't actually use it.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 12 points 11 hours ago

No TV in the bedroom! That's for rich people, like people who have ice makers in the fridge and the whiring blades in the sink!

[–] Echolynx@lemmy.zip 1 points 6 hours ago

I have a bedsit apartment, so I don't even have a TV.

[–] Wytch@lemmy.zip 20 points 13 hours ago

No TV in the bedroom, just the living room. I do find comfort at times from a soft livestream, but I normally sleep better in quiet darkness.

I understand the hard-line approach, but for me it's situational. A laptop for those times is sufficient.

[–] RampantParanoia2365@lemmy.world 2 points 7 hours ago

I live by myself in a 1br. I have 1 tv.

[–] vortexal@sopuli.xyz 1 points 6 hours ago

I do, I've mostly been using it as computer monitor though.

[–] BurgerBaron@piefed.social 6 points 10 hours ago

I don't need a TV in a bedroom, I got screens all over the house and garage, but not in there lol.

[–] mesamunefire@piefed.social 8 points 11 hours ago

In smaller places, yes. It was the video game window.

In bigger places later on no. Bedroom is for sleeping.

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