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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/Even_Syrup_2779 on 2026-04-03 03:11:51+00:00.
recently was asking about raises because I’ve been due for one with my promotion, but finance has been stopping everyone on raises. Boss then asked if I was actively looking for a new job.
thought about not answering, but a non-answer would have been an answer. I’m big on honesty (but I read the room first, and craft my words wisely). I’ve been looking in recent weeks, but haven’t applied…. Ive had that feeling for weeks the company is being ultra cheap.
did I mess up by telling my boss I’m looking for a new job? he’s very understanding, and knows the position I’ve been put in. plus I know it’s not his fault, he’s been trying to get me a raise.
TLDR; i started a discussion with my boss about a raise for my promotion almost a year ago. He asked if I’ve been looking for a new job and I said yes.
edit: adding boss’ lead-up to question. He mentioned the impact I’ve been making and how everybody is saying good things about my work. He was worried about me getting burnt out and wanting to leave. Then he asked if that was true, and if I’d been looking for a New job.
I said yes, due to cost of living