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Body hair (infosec.pub)
submitted 17 hours ago by remilia@lemmy.cyberia9.org to c/femcelmemes@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 34 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (7 children)

Alright, now that it’s been brought up, can I just ask whether anyone else is tired of this obsession with shaving? I’m on the other side of the aisle and I can’t understand how hairlessness is meant to be attractive, pleasant to maintain, or (and this is the weirdest one) tactful. Women have body hair. Why it in vogue to pretend they don’t?

I shave my foot hair, but only because it catches on my socks. I’ve heard exactly one woman complaining about groin hair catching on fabric and that was because it had been shaved recently.

Women deserve body hair and large pants pockets, but that’s just my political opinion.

[–] shani66@ani.social 3 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

Feels better, both to have smooth skin and to feel smooth skin. Just looks better too ¯_(ツ)_/¯

same goes for men, too, society just doesn't pressure men the way it does women

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 1 points 4 hours ago

It's very subjective. There's plenty of people who enjoy the look of natural hair on bodies.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 4 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I grew so tired of the obsession, I stopped shaving completely. I’m a woman for the record.

It hasn’t affected my ability to get laid at all. No one noticed while I was on a beach vacation. It’s generally way over hyped.

[–] Crackhappy@lemmy.world 36 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

I don't shave for aesthetics, personally, I shave because I hate having body hair, it bothers me.

[–] Gullible@sh.itjust.works 11 points 15 hours ago

I sorta get it, but it’s really not for me to understand. I just don’t care for the ambient social pressure in the US.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 11 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Lots of men shave/wax, too. Most "hot" male hollywood stars are showing up with a completely hairless upper body to their shirtless scenes. There's definitely more pressure on women IRL, though.

[–] MML@sh.itjust.works 9 points 12 hours ago

Don't shave, trim

[–] gegil@sopuli.xyz 2 points 11 hours ago

I usually shave my body hair in summer when i wear lighter clothes with more open skin. Its just easier to apply sun protecting cream to bare skin compared to hairy skin.

[–] Damaskox@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

As a man, my experience with women's hair down there is positive generally. When it comes to oral pleasure however, it gets challenging to me personally.

[–] Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

The only real issue with oral is that some hairs stay in your mouth.

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 1 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Goes both ways, too lol. Trimming down below can be helpful for either gender if oral is involved.

[–] Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Sadly cannot confirm if it goes both ways

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

No worries, I can lol

[–] Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

I believe you, it makes total sense. Just a little self pitty here

[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 1 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Aw sorry, I wasn't trying to rub it in either! Life is too short to not try to put someone's genitals in your mouth haha

You never know what tomorrow will bring!

[–] Wizard_Pope@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Oh it's the other way around. I've had them in my mouth though not as ofren as I'd like. I have not had my genjtals in someone else's mouth.

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 28 points 16 hours ago (3 children)

Honestly starting to shave more and more areas has made me hate body hair more and more. Idk why, but any hair that isnt my eyebrows or on top of head drives me absolutely insane now. It gets to be much to shave everything all the time, i do it in cycles. If i never grew it again, id be a happy girl

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago) (1 children)

Protip from a formerly hairy woman - get waxed every month for at least a year (I did it for 2 years), and the hair grows back much softer ... now I shave my legs once a week, and it's quick and easy :-)

Edit: get it waxed by a pro, don't try and do it at home

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 10 hours ago

Ill look into this, thank you!

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 5 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

I even got some kind of "razor burn" from professional waxing, and I kinda hate having all this body hair. FML

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

OMG i have the most sensitive skin ive ever seen on anyone. Waxing and hair remover is a nogo, especially because the hair that grows from that skin is also very thick. Ive used hair remover and managed burning my skin before all the hair would come.

Ive tried waxing too but no matter how i do it it doesnt actually pull the hair. Maybe i dont let it grow enough? Idk

[–] SharkWeek@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 11 hours ago

Get a pro to do your waxing - 1000% less painful, quicker, and more successful

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 3 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago) (1 children)

AFAIK you do need to grow it out a bit, especially when it's your first time (the finer hairs that grow from well-waxed skin should offer less resistance). That was one of the issues when I went to a professional waxing one time. The chemical hair remover I've tried has been useless, too. At this point, about the only thing I haven't tried is brazilian waxing (supposedly more skin-friendly) and laser hair removal, but both are beyond my financial means...

[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 13 hours ago

I appreciate the reply! Imma try the waxing after longer hair, even if it makes my skin hate me. I hope it helps, because i literally have to shave some areas twice a day if i wanna be hairless lol

[–] remilia@lemmy.cyberia9.org 9 points 16 hours ago

Honestly that's me as well anymore. I used to be more ambivalent about it.

[–] Sanctus@anarchist.nexus 18 points 16 hours ago

There goes my hero

Watch her as she goes

(Its hard out here for hairy mfuckers)

[–] redbrick@lemmy.world 11 points 17 hours ago (2 children)

Very interesting...can they reach down that far??? I mean that distance looks almost a full body length from this perspective.

[–] sem@piefed.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 hours ago

Ive watched these mosquitos. They land on top of the body hair, and then quickly climb down to the skin level, maybe taking a split second to do so.

Sometimes that's enough of a delay to detect and swat them.

[–] remilia@lemmy.cyberia9.org 7 points 17 hours ago (3 children)

Well... I've never had a bite on my scalp or my crotch, so I'm guessing they can't.

[–] sundray@lemmus.org 9 points 16 hours ago

never had a bite on my scalp or my crotch

Same. (Well... mosquito bites, at least.)

[–] Ziglin@lemmy.world 4 points 13 hours ago

Lucky

[–] diffaldo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

What about bedbugs, can they reach there 🤔

[–] remilia@lemmy.cyberia9.org 3 points 10 hours ago

...probably? I think? Never experienced them.