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my mom have very smol breast, dad sister also same even after lactation soooo im have same? definitly i have same and im ok with it

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[–] kivihiili@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 hours ago

in order from what we most enjoy to least enjoy genetically, body-wise:

  • legs develop muscle like it's nothing, and fat goes there too with ease
  • very big, uh, rear end
  • quick breast development
    • didn't start HRT super long ago, but breast development was noticed like literally two weeks after starting
    • family has VERY large breasts, to the point size reduction surgery was needed to relieve back pain for an aunt
    • also a bra is a must for us. bike rides without them are uh interesting to say the least (currently C cup size per a chart, more so B in reality)
  • femme looking face/eyelashes/jawline
    • we passed before starting HRT, but still helpful!!
  • long legs compared to torso
    • women's tops still fit us well despite our height, plus sexyyy
    • thigh highs are hard though
  • voice wasn't super deep, not exactly high pitch albeit certainly above average
    • has been very helpful in achieving a passing voice
  • pretty tall stature
  • body metabolizes nutrients insanely quickly
    • estradiol has helped a little, but not too much
    • has led to very low body weight (this can be bad!!!!!)
  • fairly large feet
  • SO much body hair to contend with
    • hormone therapy has helped a crazy amount, making hairs whiter, thinner, and grow slower thankfully
  • on HRT, our body can BARELY regulate temperature
    • our sister actually has to take a medication for this.
  • skin was eating itself alive, estradiol solved that though
[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Women in my family have decently large breasts, and I would say my breasts are small for my frame (I couldn't fill an A-cup in my band size, for example), but large enough that other transfems in my life have expressed jealousy, and I get men staring at my breasts sometimes - so ... I think this tracks the typical wisdom I hear that you will usually be a size or two down from the typical size in your family.

The difference between my band size and my bust size is 7 inches (17.8 cm), which technically means I have DDDD / G sized breasts, but that's using the mainstream cup sizing chart, which assumes an average band size around 34 inches (86.3 cm):

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bra_size#Cup_measurement_methods

In reality, for my actual band size, I struggle to fill even an A cup. It's my damn rib-cage, which is very wide and makes me barrel-chested.

[–] Kayday@lemmy.world 7 points 12 hours ago

I have solid C cups after 1 year, hoping to close the gap with my family members after starting prog soon.