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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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Saw an old lady getting out of a BMW X7 M60i (the high performance version). I asked her what made her choose the M60i and she just said “I dunno, the salesman said it was the best one they had”.

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[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 13 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

When I was 38 I finally able to get that sports car I always wanted and my twit of a neighbor who had 6 kids and pregnant with #7 condescendingly said that it was my mid life crises car.

My response was there is no mid life crises there was always a lack of money crises..

[–] Knoxvomica@lemmy.ca 8 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Just know, on that day, that neighbour wanted nothing more than to trade spots with you for a week.

[–] ramble81@lemmy.zip 1 points 46 minutes ago

Trade for his wife?

[–] leadore@lemmy.world 10 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

The logical correlation would be money is wasted on the rich. Youth --> young : Money --> rich

IOW the idea is about not appreciating what you have ("you don't know what you've got til it's gone"). So young people not appreciating the youth they have is in the same vein as rich people not appreciating the money they have.

[–] NegentropicBoy@lemmy.world 17 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Whoever finds a way to convert money into youth is on a winner.

[–] ramble81@lemmy.zip 7 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

As opposed to the youth into money….

[–] sdfric88@lemmy.sdf.org 15 points 8 hours ago

Labour turns youth into money. The young die in factories so the old can live in luxury

[–] webghost0101@sopuli.xyz 3 points 9 hours ago

Just purchase some blood plasma from young people and inject it.

[–] Protoknuckles@lemmy.world 21 points 10 hours ago

When I was young, I had energy but no money. When I'm older, I'll have money but no energy. It's only now in my 30s and 40s that I have... neither. 😔

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 50 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Two sides of the same coin.
When I was in my 20s I had all the energy and creativity, but couldn't afford the means to put them to good use.

Now in my 40s I have the necessary disposable income, but my energy has been zapped by trying to get on top of this adulting business. I still get a creative burst, but I have to manage my projects so that I can stick to something I'm actually able to complete.

[–] billwashere@lemmy.world 25 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I’m old. What’s money?

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago

I think it's this pink paper that people use in Canada. Most people never see it. Mostly because Canada is cold.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 27 points 12 hours ago (3 children)

Could have fooled me: I’m old and have no money

[–] hesh@quokk.au 13 points 11 hours ago

Why couldn't I have three money and no kids?

[–] Nobody@anarchist.nexus 6 points 11 hours ago

Having disposable income these days comes from having the same luck that made boomers millionaires. Not to say it doesn’t involve hard work, but lots of people work hard. The people who get actual compensation for it are either born into it or get very lucky.

[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 3 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Better to have spent your money in your youth when you enjoyed it properly.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 6 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I didn’t have money then either.

[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 1 points 1 hour ago

It's all relative - if you didn't have enough money then you would have starved or died of exposure, so good thing you spent it on food and shelter instead of dying? (Or, you spent all your free time growing food and making your own clothing and shelter - how did you pay the taxes on the land then?)

[–] morto@piefed.social 15 points 11 hours ago

Money is wasted on the rich and their lavish culture. Don't be ageist about it.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 6 points 9 hours ago

I doubt age has anything to do with it. She likely was not begging in the streets when she was young.

[–] 01189998819991197253 14 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Neither is a waste, but neither is fair.

The young are paid with youth, while the elderly are paid with currency.

[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 4 points 11 hours ago

The elderly who are lucky enough to have money they can spend spend an awful lot of it telling youngsters what to do.

[–] rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio 8 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (2 children)

Yep, never seen a young person with an expensive car before

[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 2 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

Not one that wasn't given to them by a rich daddy or mommy.

[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 1 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

I know many young people with expensive cars and not one was given to them. Not everyone can afford an expensive car but almost anyone can get one if they wish.

[–] baggachipz@sh.itjust.works 1 points 58 minutes ago

It’s technically possible, but an absolutely terrible idea. That mindset will keep them poor in the future. See: $100k truck parked next to trailer home, hemi charger on military base, Range Rover in the hood.

[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 1 points 1 hour ago

Define young. Define expensive.

16 year olds in a new custom Lambo? If you know more than one of those who "earned" the money for that, you've got an outrageously rare set of acquaintances - or a very distorted view of "earned."

I bought a brand new Mazda Miata on credit my first week in my first job after University - was that given to me? Maybe the car wasn't, but the education was.

[–] rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio 2 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Yep, never seen a young person buy something that they can't really afford. Young folks are so wise, patient, and financially literate that it strains my imagination to even entertain the idea of one making poor purchasing decisions.

[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 1 points 1 hour ago

What doesn't strain the imagination is banks making loans to foolish young people who are setting themselves up for decades of debt service.

[–] Lost_My_Mind@lemmy.world 0 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Must be nice to not have been surrounded by trust fund babies....

[–] rudyharrelson@lemmy.radio 2 points 7 hours ago

I was being sarcastic. OP's shower thought is asinine.

[–] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 3 points 10 hours ago

the quote is by George Bernard Shaw

Wisdom is wasted on the old, and youth is wasted on the young

nothing to do with money, everything to do with the accumulated wisdom of years of living and the ignorant confidence of youth.

[–] violentfart@lemmy.world 6 points 12 hours ago (4 children)

If you imagine a line graph, there’s supposed to be a crossover point between the two, a sweet spot.

You are the one who ultimately decides when and how large that sweet spot is.

[–] PiraHxCx@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 9 hours ago

Remember that joke about men’s midlife crisis, that they'd buy a sports car when they are 40?
It would be fun to ask the men in their 40s around here what they could buy... I'm still not there, but currently I can buy a pizza.

[–] tyler@programming.dev 9 points 12 hours ago

Not really if you have things like medical issues or poverty…

[–] gilindoeslemmy@lemmy.world 8 points 12 hours ago

I think the problem is that as we have moved forward from baby boomer generations the overlap in those two lines has gotten smaller and smaller and in Gen Alpha it doesn’t even overlap at all

[–] givesomefucks@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Nah.

Some people had influence on it.

But there's not enough "good" spots left and the nepo babies will always get theirs.

The more wealth inequality worsens, the less social mobility there is. A rich idiot like trump can do literally everything wrong but still wind up on top due to generational inertia.

Meanwhile someone that busts ass their whole life, can barely beat "lifestyle inflation" where they can't provide the same level of lifestyle for their kids despite being in a higher earners bracket than their parents.

That stall can kill an entire civilizations drive.

If there's no reward for work, everyone does just enough to not get in trouble. It doesn't sound like a big deal, because we're living thru it so it's "normal". But it's also undeniable that it's not working out well.

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 1 points 10 hours ago

When I was a kid, My adults told Me that communism is bad because nobody has an incentive to work hard.

My adults had no idea what was going on.

[–] Hegar@fedia.io 2 points 12 hours ago

The purpose of pointless expensive rubbish is to show that you can afford to waste your money on pointless expensive rubbish.

Vehicles like that are wasted on everyone, that's the point.