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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.blahaj.zone/post/40659926

happy trans day of visibility y'all, its been a journey to say the least! ive never felt so comfortable in my body, despite the shit that the world throws our way always remember that you are loved and we will prevail.

keep your chin up and fight the good fight, see you folks around :)

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[–] brookedSmile@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 18 hours ago

Only 5 months is craaazyy. Im glad its going well for you girly

[–] shellington@piefed.zip 3 points 20 hours ago

Looking great and happy.

[–] erin@quokk.au 3 points 22 hours ago

omg so cool! i need also make my timeline

[–] anothercatgirl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 day ago (2 children)

the caption isn't making sense to my chronological expectations. Is the picture comparing 1 person or 2 different people?

[–] Catoblepas@piefed.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Those are negative symbols, not bullet points; ie, 5.5 years before HRT. Took me a second too.

[–] Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 day ago

lol appreciate the compliment I suppose :)

but yeah as catoblepas said the left is 3 years before transition and right is 3 after, same with the hrt times

[–] erin@quokk.au 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

what lens on the glasses that make face more smaller?(on the sides)

[–] Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

that just happens cus my prescription is really strong and the frames are big

[–] erin@quokk.au 3 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

oh, i want glasses because stylish and doc A LONG TIME AGO said i should wear special glasses for astigmatism what she found(idk i have GOOD vision so weak astigmatism but worried what if it become worse)

interesting how the lens for astigmatism look

[–] Nikki@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 20 hours ago

worth it IMO, glasses help shape your face so well! and honestly if I had 20/20 vision I'd still wear glasses just because they look so good on me

A joyful smile a cute chonky glasses. Looking great girl!

[–] Una@europe.pub 7 points 1 day ago