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I think I’m a lesbian (thelemmy.club)

submitted 2 days ago by may_be@thelemmy.club to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone

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It’d make sense why I only date women and enbies and why I only attract them, and why men don’t really appeal to me but most people I know are straight so I was convinced I “needed” a man and adopted their attitude.

The only people I really find attractive are nonbinary people and women

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[–] dis_da_mor@anarchist.nexus 15 points 2 days ago

hi lesbian i'm-

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago

If you are attracted to women and are a woman, then there's a pretty good chance you're a lesbian. I'm not sure of the nomenclature where NBs are concerned.

[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Do you mean feminine nonbinary people? Because if you're attracted to masc/androgynous nonbinary people that would be a bit confusing in this context :p

[–] Gladaed@feddit.org 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)

While I agree that this would make them not a straight gay, you can be attracted to women and that guy in particular, too. If sexuality is a spectrum you don't need to be a gold star lesbian to be a real lesbian.

If you are attracted to fembies and enbies and think of them as woman that are different that would be problematic.

[–] may_be@thelemmy.club 4 points 2 days ago

Yeah, my BF is nonbinary and masc but he said I could still be a lesbian as he’s enby

[–] may_be@thelemmy.club 7 points 2 days ago

Huh, maybe I am bi then