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I've been posting a lot lately But I seem like I'm controversial no matter what I post. I came from Reddit with over 2 million karma during the API controversy. Should I keep posting or give up on Lemmy?

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[–] drmoose@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

More content is good in a system like Lemmy which is designed around filtering. So continue posting!

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Lemmy is VERY hateful. In some cases more than Reddit because we have less people but more radical. the amount of hate one can get just because it mentioned specific words is insane. There is no debate here, if you mention a couple of specific topics and trigger words you are sent to hell.

And I'm not even talking about .ml, that place is psychotic.

[–] Paulemeister@feddit.org 7 points 1 day ago

I think Lemmy (or the Fediverse in a broader sense) really benefits from everyone in it to just output as much as possible. More interaction, more content, more people coming for that content. If somebody does not like what you have to say they can just block you (or if it's really hateful be banned)

[–] M137@lemmy.world 20 points 1 day ago

What you should do is stop caring about "karma", it has no value (even more so here, it's not even a thing). Don't do things to get likes, do them because you like doing them and/or think they can help others.

Over 2 million karma. Ooh La La dork jk

[–] G00d4y0u@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

All posting here is useful at this point

[–] fartographer@lemmy.world 17 points 1 day ago (3 children)

None of us are useful to Lemmy because Lemmy is not "useful." Lemmy is a shit-pile of all of our combined thoughts and efforts. So, while no social media site is "useful," Lemmy brings us a place to be entertained and informed/misinformed.

Most of your posts are shit. Most of my posts are shit. While we each usually shit in our own corners, we occasionally look at each other's shit and say, "hmmm... This shit stinks." Or, "this shit is a little nutty and I like that!" And even less frequently, we cross paths while shitting and our shit combines to create a new type of shit that other people can enjoy.

So, don't try to measure your Lemmy "usefulness" based on karma, and instead focus on the shit. I often appreciate your shit, and your username always gives me a chuckle. Whether anyone likes it or not, all of our shit makes Lemmy's shit the shit it is.

[–] jeffep@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

There is is, listen to uncle/auntie fartographer.

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago

Well that was shitty. I like it. Thank you Sir or Madame Fartographer.

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have you at +10, so you’re at least posting things I find meaningful. That being said, you post a lot of political things, so expect to bring many sides of the conversation to light. The fediverse has more types than Reddit.

[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

how do you score another person? I didn't know that was a feature

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

On the voyager app there is a feature that shows the upvotes you’ve given someone (as a green number next to their name). Unless they are a troll, in which case it would probably be a negative number and red.

[–] Test_Tickles@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

It's nothing crazy. He just spends a couple of weeks following you around and going through your stuff when you aren't home.

[–] TomArrr@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Can ya tell 'em to stop moving my bloody remote then!

[–] Kissaki@feddit.org 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Ok, I'll start removing the batteries instead and place it where it was then.

[–] TomArrr@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Ghngrhnggrhn.

Always finding more diabolical ways. 😉

[–] Test_Tickles@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You have to remember to keep your remote clean. Some people never clean their remotes and he ends up pushing them all over the house trying to lick the remotes clean.

[–] TomArrr@lemmy.world 2 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

But once licked, are they not clean?

[–] Test_Tickles@lemmy.world 1 points 45 minutes ago

Well, you know... I never thought about that... That son of bitch!

[–] GreenShimada@lemmy.world 173 points 2 days ago

The question isn't if you're useful to Lemmy or not. We don't deserve to exert any weight on your heart with opinions and upvotes.

Are you doing something you think is worth your time, with or without external validation? Is this something you would do if you thought it was basically the internet version of putting messages in a bottle?

When you are old and on your death bed, what will the value of your reddit karma be? What is the value of it now?

Do things that matter to you. Do things that help you grow and be a better person.

[–] BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

A screenshot from the Voyager app showing that I have upvoted return2ozma over 600 times.

I appreciate you, @return2ozma@lemmy.world and if you left us it would be a major loss.

I pay no attention to down-voters. The growing popularity of the fediverse brings as many bad people with it as good ones.

The Rick and Morty meme where Rick says “Your boos mean nothing, I’ve seen what makes you cheer!”

[–] aeharding@vger.social 3 points 1 day ago

608? That’s my area code 😆

@return2ozma@lemmy.world you are appreciated!!

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[–] FaceDeer@fedia.io 99 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Do you enjoy posting? That's all that really matters in the end. Karma is pointless.

Controversy can actually be good, as long as you're not saying stuff simply to provoke it for its own sake. If I wanted to only speak to something that agreed with everything I said I could just go tell an AI to act that way and waste my time there. Should communities be insular bubbles where everyone believes the exact same things?

[–] MissJinx@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

No. But here people are not worried about debating. A long time ago I posted something I thought it was cute but i didn't know it was a trigger for Lemmy. No joke I got 5 dms hating on me. One of them really heavy.

I like different opinions but lemmy does not

[–] OwOarchist@pawb.social 73 points 2 days ago

Ask not if you are useful to Lemmy. Ask if Lemmy is useful to you.

[–] TORFdot0@lemmy.world 30 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Every person that logs in and interacts in good faith in some way is useful to Lemmy.

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[–] toynbee@piefed.social 6 points 1 day ago

Are you useful? How would I get to Ozma without you?

[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Let go of the thought that updoots matter and you will find harmony.

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[–] MerryJaneDoe@lemmy.world 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Seems like a bit of a "pickme" post. You do you, don't worry about your 2 million updoots on reddit.

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I might have posted after a night out drinking. Oops

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[–] sad_detective_man@sopuli.xyz 51 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I don't see most of your posts in the wild but the one I did was good. Glancing at your profile, you post quality which is just going to get a different kind if engagement than what we're used to on reddit

Stand tall, king. Numbers just scale a little different here and things move slow. You'll notice your posts will continue to get engagement for a long time after a reddit post would normally die down too.

[–] gurty@lemmy.world 24 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Don’t stress about it. I think reddit gives people an unhealthy mindset about how internet forums are.

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[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I generally appreciate what you're doing

[–] Libb@piefed.social 33 points 2 days ago

I’ve been posting a lot lately But I seem like I’m controversial no matter what I post. I came from Reddit with over 2 million karma trying the API controversy.

Forget about karma and algorithm: votes don't mean much around here.

What's not different from reddit, as already mentioned, is that some people only seem to enoiy acting like jerks. The right answer to that is to 1) ignore them 2) to block them. They will still be able to (meaninglessly) vote but they won’t get a chance to annoy you directly anymore.

Should I keep posting or give up on Lemmy?

Should you keep on posting?

The Fediverse (lemmy being a small part of it, I'm from Piefed another and even smaller part of it) severely lacks active users so, from the Fediverse’s perspective the answer is obviously: yes, you should!

But one should never do something only because they think or because ethey’re being told they should do it. Even posting content on a forum. So, if you don't enjoy doing it, it's probably not worth your time.

I do participate as regularly as I can because I think most of the discussions are enriching and done with a correct mindset. I would stop participating if that was not the case. Like I quit using reddit the day I realized I could not agree with their latest policy changes (that was a couple years ago).

So, do you enjoy participating? If so, by all means keep on doing it as I have no doubt other people do appreciate your contributions too.

[–] Hermit_Lailoken@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Only you can answer that.

[–] Deceptichum@quokk.au 21 points 2 days ago

You’re controversial? First time I’m hearing of it.

If you like doing what you’re doing, keep doing it. The threadiverse will die without content so you’re doing vital work imo.

[–] red_tomato@lemmy.world 26 points 2 days ago

Judging by your recent post history, it looks like you’re doing a good job at attracting positive engagement. Many upvotes and comments on your posts. Of course, with that you also attract some negative engagement, but that’s inevitable when posting about politics.

You’re useful.

[–] NottaLottaOcelot@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 days ago

You know what I have enjoyed about Lemmy? Compared to Reddit, I get fewer replies if I make a comment, and fewer upvotes. Yet the comments I do get are generally more interesting and more likely to be human. As I’ve grown more accustomed to Lemmy, I’ve begun to wonder what percentage of Reddit interactions were bots.

However, I’d love to see this grow some more. The large communities are taking off, but I will still use Reddit for more niche subjects (area-specific gardening, following a local sports team) because they haven’t taken off on Lemmy yet and I’d be talking to myself. And that means that you are useful, because a community needs members to thrive.

[–] FritzApollo@lemmy.today 3 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I for one am deeply offended by this post. Deeply offended. It has ruined my day. I am now crying.

[–] Furbag@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I see people complain about you a lot, but I've never felt like anything you've contributed to Lemmy has been negative or harmful.

Let the haters hate. Block exists for a reason. If those losers blocked you and every other superposter who provides content they'd complain that nobody posts anything.

As you said, you can't make everyone happy no matter what you do. Just do what you feel like you want to do right now.

[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 23 points 2 days ago

Don't feel like you need to be useful, but thanks for contributing.

[–] aGlassDarkly@piefed.zip 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I disagree with your takes sometimes (although not since I switched to PieFed), but you always have an argument and I’ve never seen you have one I couldn’t see any merit in. As good as it gets, imo.

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[–] Contramuffin@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago

I haven't heard of any controversy, but I think you do important work. May not be glamorous work, but having a consistent flow of news on Lemmy helps me keep up to date on the goings-on of the world. I assume most people think similarly

[–] king_comrade@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I appreciate you mate 🫂

[–] return2ozma@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago
[–] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 21 points 2 days ago (1 children)

For what it's worth, I appreciate your contributions. 👍

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