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Title basically. I was here at the very start of it all and really enjoyed it. However I felt it lost its uniqueness within a few months of mass migration and started turning a bit like reddit again so I deleted my old account. However Reddit has only gotten much much worse since, and Lemmy has stayed about the same. So here again.

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[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago

Way higher volume of politic related posts.
Also reduced post volume on other topics

[–] sydd@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago

Less lurkers and more people making comments over time. This thread is a great example.

[–] Damarus@feddit.org 170 points 3 days ago (8 children)

Diversity has increased by a lot. It's not just circlejerking about Linux anymore. Only positives in my book.

[–] ChexMax@lemmy.world 93 points 3 days ago (6 children)

Yeah, I feel like when I first came here every third post was about Linux and every third post was about star trek. A lot of the remaining third was beans. Now only every tenth post is Linux and trek.

[–] CMDR_Horn@lemmy.world 46 points 3 days ago (1 children)
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[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] Fmstrat@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Feels about the same but bigger, niche communities have a bit more content. If you feel like the uniqueness disappeared in a few months, social aggregators are not for you.

[–] StayDoomed@lemmy.world 67 points 3 days ago (3 children)

It feels more like reddit now, but still is populated by a certain type of person that would seek out Lemmy. Mostly techy, left of center+, over age 30+, etc. I enjoy it.

[–] crawancon@piefed.social 15 points 2 days ago

techy ✔️

left of center✔️

over 30✔️

oh no. incoming targeted marketing

[–] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 20 points 3 days ago

Heyy! Im not old ye...ahhh, who am I kidding, you're right.

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[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 8 points 2 days ago
  1. It has gotten bigger. More active. More posts, more new content. When i first came over i would check the All page, sorted by eitber Active or Hot, and only find a couple of new posts per day. It is still nowhere near as active as Reddit was back then (probably a goos thing), but it has enough content to help me procrastinate at work now.

  2. LemmyNSFW died and has been replaced by FediNSFW recently. I am sure that it will be better in the long-term, but it still doesn't seem to be back to where it was yet. I think a lot of the old posters were bots, largely re-posting from Reddit, and not all of those have been rebuilt yet. I have mixed feelings about that.

  3. The Connect app has gotten better and better. Love it.

  4. For the past year or so, Lemmy has been of a size big enougj for patterns to ripple and promulgate through it bht small enough to notice them. For example, almost immediately after New Years several different communities on different instances started to see a drastix influx of webcomic posts. Usually 4-panel ones. Usually low-fidelity ones (XKCD-style, not Girl Genius for example). And usually oned with some sort of error or controversy. Rage bait to get the comments going, but nothing controversial enough to get banned or removed.

There would be new accounts made that just posted a handful of these comics quickly, and sometimes argue with people in the comments. Once people like me started pointing out the pattern they started deleting the posts and accounts after a couple days. I'm not sure when it stopped, but i have not noticed one for probably a month.

[–] Underwaterbob@sh.itjust.works 12 points 2 days ago

The biggest change for me was losing Lemm.ee. That was a blow. I had probably the most thriving (not by much) synthesizer community. I haven't had the heart to try and start it back up elsewhere.

[–] SlippiHUD@lemmy.world 12 points 2 days ago

I arrived during the API debacle.

Some things are better, content and activity.

Some things are worse, spammers, AI proponents who harrass you despite the clear community-wide dislike of the plagarism machine, fascist chuds trying to mainstream rascism, misogyny, and ableism.

Basically each new wave is another usenet September equivalent, and it feels like we're approaching the eternal september epoch as lemmy becomes more widely used. Soon we'll have to deal with state actor bot-nets if we aren't already.

[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 27 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (8 children)

there are increasingly a greater number of nutjobs, spammers, and hostile/miserable/angry people. my block list is like 300+ now. 6-9 month ago it was like 12 people.

2 years ago it was mostly super nerds just nerding about.

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[–] drmoose@lemmy.world 17 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

It has gotten much better. More content and general activity and nutjobs at .ml and similar got mostly isolated from the rest of the network.

I think fediverse is really shaping up as a strong reddit alternative. Most pop subjects are mirrored here and the vibe is very similar to early reddit so there no real reason to go to reddit other than super niche communities like of a tv show or something.

Most props go to the lemmy.world team as it kept a consistent big sane network running that keeps the project stable! If .world never happened I think Lemmy would have remained cess pool of social rejects like most reddit alternatives like Voat or lemmy.ml

[–] INHALE_VEGETABLES@aussie.zone 4 points 2 days ago (6 children)

lemmy.ml is like a degenerate wading pool of piss and misinformation.

If you haven't been banned there you have not truly lived. Let us come together in our detest.

[–] Bazell@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 days ago (1 children)

It is actually sad that some good comunities try to occur there and are forced to deal with the consequences of whole instance's fame.

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[–] Zomg@piefed.world 52 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I like it here, I only lurked on reddit. There isn't much reason to comment when it seems that everyone was in a competition for "who can post the best zinger comment first"

[–] Brunbrun6766@lemmy.world 18 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Zinger? I hardly know her!

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[–] whaleross@lemmy.world 68 points 3 days ago (2 children)

My main gripe with mainstream Reddit now is the engagement baiting that people are falling for all the time. "What are you thoughts on [Controversial Topic]?" If there is a new exodus from Reddit coming, I really really really wish all the baiting to be left behind and moderators to remove it on the Fediverse.

[–] Grail@multiverse.soulism.net 26 points 3 days ago (1 children)

If you join an Opinionated instance (think blahaj, slrpnk, dbzer0, multiverse) then those posts are funny because it's mostly everyone agreeing on Controversial Topic and congratulating each other.

[–] W98BSoD@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 days ago (1 children)
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[–] AskewLord@piefed.social 11 points 2 days ago (4 children)

there has been a huge uptick in engagement bait here since the new year. i have had to block people who post it on almost a daily basis the past two months.

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[–] Fizz@lemmy.nz 19 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Its gotten significantly less optimistic and more cynical. Its in my opinion more of a reflection of the state of the world than a Lemmy specific issue but it affects Lemmy users more because this isnt a space that allows people to live in ignorant bliss.

[–] FosterMolasses@leminal.space 4 points 2 days ago

I run on another reddit alternative that was apparently an offshoot refuge after Squabbler shit hit the fan (so extremely niche yet somewhat active community) with a completely different demographic of users to Lemmy (mostly middle-aged centrists/liberals that couldn't tell apart a Linux distro from a macbook), and I can tell you.

It's universal.

I posted something the other day about how nice it was to wake up and have your feet hit a warm rug that's been baked in a sunbeam first thing in the morning, and shityounot the replies I immediately got ranged from "Why even bother getting out of bed" and a list of things that are "far superior" to a warm rug. Just blatant whataboutism all the way down, and almost made me consider that if I had posted the opposite, about how much I dislike that sort of thing, if people would have then flipflopped and disagreed lol

Then I came to Lemmy for a break, and the first post I saw was a photo of someone's pet bunny next to some food they'd ordered, and every single comment was about how OP was a bad person and should be ashamed of themselves for using a delivery app. It was fucking wild.

I think it's genuinely just the state of the world right now. Everyone's enraged as hell and seemingly have zero real world outlets for it. So it all just gets funneled into stranger interactions online.

I just try not to read replies and generally move on with my day rather than absorb all that insanity. If people really need an outlet or whatever that badly they can go scream at ChatGPT for an hour lmao

[–] happydoors@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Same for the most part. There was a period of time where it seemed like every post and comment was angry. Silly fights over semantics. That still happens but it seems like less. I see more and more English speaking European influence. Still lots of angry Linux guys but Linux seems to be in a winning season so it’s chill.

Significantly, and for the better. The is significant engagement, a large increase in new communities, and we have even had our very own memorable, memeable instances!

[–] MapleEngineer@lemmy.world 24 points 3 days ago (6 children)

The extremists are a bit much but otherwise I like it here.

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[–] db0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I feel it's changing positively, as instance admins and our tool-sets mature, and more and more people are becoming permanent residents as they're either permabanned on reddit (so they have no alternative) or they recognize the value of a system that is not and cannot be controlled by a corporate entity and they US billionaire interests behind it.

However I'm also concerned that our yet small size has protected us from truly existential issues like dedicated spam and propaganda orgs, especially those who would utilize GenAI to be more covert. I've already published tools like the fediseer to help prepare for this, but I really hope to see more people per-emptively getting ready for this. I see way too many doe-eyed admins firing up instances without a care in the world, open registration, no captchas, no botnet protections etc and they either burn out and close shop after a few months of firefighting, or get defederated, or they have to re-learn a painful lesson the rest of us did.

This does give me an idea, we do need a more holistic "So you want to open a threadiverse instance" guide to give such pointers to new admins and way to get support from others. Hmmm....

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[–] YarrMatey@lemmy.dbzer0.com 34 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Lemmy didn't have much content at first so you would run out of things to read after a while. It felt friendly at first, but certain topics still set off people at lemmy to the point I thought about leaving. Then lemmy seemed to improve and I could talk about those topics again, but now there are more trolls (even ones that seem to follow you around since they troll each post or comment talking about something) and spam bots that weren't there before. I think a lot of conflict on forums like this has to do with miscommunication, but sometimes people are just mean and there isn't a fix.

[–] snoons@lemmy.ca 17 points 3 days ago

I fart in your general direction. >:(

[–] Bazell@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 days ago

Amounts of political propaganda are wild in some comunities and instances. But, I guess that this thing will eventually occur in any social media.

[–] Regrettable_incident@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Doesn't actually seem much different to me. Would be nice to have a few more people for the niche communities - but I do kinda worry that Lemmy becoming popular will lead to an influx of bots.

[–] DrDickHandler@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

The bots are already here. They are the ones posting all the news articles. Also, it's not that much different because both bases share the same users.

[–] irate944@piefed.social 27 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I’ve been in fediverse since API debacle, I feel the same vibes as I do on Reddit, both the good parts and bad.

For example, same controversies on Reddit also exist here, and have the same talking points and flamewar nature. I had an opinion about Pitbulls (that an owner should be far more responsible than the average owner - I know, controversial take), which got me banned from that sub and several other furry related subs. Which is something that also happens on Reddit when you tick off a moderator of several subs

So for the most part, I’m just a lurker that comes here to get some memes. Sometimes I share my opinion if I feel like it. But I don’t necessarily feel that it’s an upgrade from Reddit in terms of communities.

[–] tacosanonymous@mander.xyz 26 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Getting banned in communities you’ve never been to bc the admin disagreed with you in a public channel is keeping the Reddit pettiness alive.

Also, the lack of nuance is the same. If you have an opinion in a political comm, you basically have to write a novel describing your stance or people will take your brevity as an opening to attack you.

Still, there are some really great communities that respect diversity, are truly supportive, and kind that make me feel ok about the world.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 26 points 3 days ago

Lemmy or Reddit?

Lemmy hasn't changed much at all.

Reddit OTOH is pretty unrecognizable now.

(and before you ask: This is a different account than what I initially joined with because my old instance shut down)

[–] 0oWow@lemmy.world 11 points 2 days ago

I've been here since. I've noticed very recently big improvements, I think mostly due to a few bot accounts sharing a lot of stuff all over. Also though, I recently switched to default the "All" channel and just filtering out the communities I don't want. It's so much more stuff I've discovered that way. Sometimes I feel like dropping reddit entirely and it likely wouldn't hurt.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago (3 children)

A bunch more assholes who take any and every opportunity to be an asshole, and tripping mods who can't be bothered and apply blanket bans because you said a thing they didn't agree with. What's new.

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[–] ColeSloth@discuss.tchncs.de 15 points 3 days ago (4 children)

It's gotten a bit busier as far as new posts showing up go (been here since reddit api debacle) but we need like 4,000,000 more users, and then if we just held right there, we'd all be able to live happy little lives. There's still just not enough people to support smaller, more niche instances.

On a side note: Doubly fuck reddit again. I don't get on there to use it, but occasionally I'll hop into an old sub looking for info. Got a notification that /humor deleted my post of a funny poem thing from 15 friggin years ago. One of only 2 posting I ever made that still occasionally got comments on.

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[–] spacemanspiffy@lemmy.world 6 points 2 days ago

A lot less beans nowadays

[–] EtnaAtsume@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Fewer people marveling about Lemmy itself, which is fine.

There are a couple of people who are now a constant presence. For better or worse. Some of y'all need help that Lemmy can't provide. I won't name a name but if you have to ask...

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[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 7 points 2 days ago

It has changed a bunch, but I don't mind it. It has gotten larger, and with that comes a greater number of trolls and spammers. I don't see as much tankie discourse nowadays. There seems to be more political content, but that's likely a reflection of the world.

Communities have become more concentrated — after the Reddit APi debacle, it was common to find the same community across many instances, and these were often inactive or sparsely used. Now many of these have been consolidated into fewer, more active communities.

Some communities are niche enough that you can easily read over a week's worth of posts in one small burst, but remain active due to the dedication of moderators who do things like weekly threads.

There are frequently recurring big names who post frequently. These people aren't necessarily the same as at the beginning, because there are still a few individuals who make up a majority of posts. I worry for these people sometimes, because it must be a lot of pressure to know that if you stopped posting, the community may wither away. Some of these communities are just silly little meme comms, but I imagine people still feel a sense of ethical duty towards these things.

The rules pages for communities are much better now. It's easier to know where you stand in different communities, especially in areas where there may be overlap between the communities' scopes — there has been gradual iteration that has helped people to understand how things relate to each other

When I first got here, I was struck by how much it reminded me of my early time with Reddit. It was much easier to have productive conversations with people. I felt sad because it highlighted how bad Reddit had become. It has always been a bit of a toxic cesspit of a site, in some ways (when people ask me what pseudonymous social media site I used most as a teenager, I am often embarrassed to admit that it was Reddit), it had a lot of good going for it — people engaging in genuine conversation despite everything. I can get that a lot more reliably here.

Things have changed, but Lemmy is still capable of fulfilling my desire for genuine conversations with random internet people. I often write long comments, and I often feel that my time was well spent. Sometimes I non-judgmentally call out people for being unpleasant in their comments, and it leads to productive conversations. I honestly live for that shit, and Lemmy reliably helps me to scratch it. I am better able to navigate the site to find what I am craving.

I wish there were more posts and comments sometimes, but I recognise that this is a bit of a monkeys paw wish, in that a greater userbase will degrade the experience further. Nothing lasts forever though. When Lemmy dies, whenever that ends up being, I will have been glad for my time here

[–] MimicJar@lemmy.world 20 points 3 days ago (5 children)

Lemmy feels about the same, but Reddit seems much worse.

Now to be fair I don't know if Reddit is actually worse, because when I browse Reddit now it's while I'm logged out and via a browser (force old.reddit.com and OldLander extensions). So the site is A) harder to navigate than it used to be and B) my experience is less curated and I see more crap and C) because my experience is less curated I've lost access to many of the niche communities.

As an example if I want to read some discussion about the recent Game of Thrones prequel series "A Knight of the Seven Kingdoms" I can find a small community here on Lemmy. Nice people, but too few of us.

So I go to Reddit. If I search I find r/AKOTSKTV which is fine, and I find r/GameOfThrones which is fine. But I have to know, as a previous Reddit user, that maybe r/ASOIAF is also a great choice. Or if I want some real shit r/freefolk is where the glory lives.

So for that universe I know where to go. But for a new series? For a new niche? For a new community? I don't know shit. I've found some of the more niche communities by luck. That's what I would have been subscribed to in the past. I would have been in the community and in the comments and discovery was natural.

But nowadays I just get the front page of Reddit, and the front page kinda sucks.

But Lemmy? Yeah it sucks sometimes too, but at least there is a community.

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[–] hesh@quokk.au 20 points 3 days ago

Basically the same. But with more users and communities over time

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