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Have you already forgotten when the exact same people wanted to know why prices were going up but absolutely didn't tolerate that anyone mentionned tariffs in their reply?
For the Maga faithful its because they put so much of their identity into Trump and ignoring the othersides list of monsterous things him and his admin are doing.
For the rest of us its a matter of being informed and actually doing something. I find its better to focus on what you really know and care about and are willing to be invloved with, then trying to consume content about EVERY issue in the world.
Thats because Americans tend to be lazy, apathetic, and generally quite privileged. Most Americans dont want to think about their privilege nor about the suffering needed to perpetuate American dominance. They just want to live in comfort and thinking about these things make them deeply uncomfortable so most choose not to at all.
I think you put it perfectly
They're like the rabbits in Watership Down who know they're being farmed, but can't admit it to themselves
I haven’t watched cnn for years but this weekend they started talking about “enemies of our country like Iran ….” where their starting assumption was that bombing Iran was a normal thing to do, so the rest of the newscast wasn’t worth listening to
They're MAGA, and want to keep pretending that they haven't broken the entire fucking world.
Trump is the kid that would come to your house to visit, and break YOUR toys.
The 1/3rd of eligible voters who didn't vote in 2024 aren't MAGA . They're just some combination of dissolutioned and ignorant. They're also not up to the task of navigating the pathetic state of the modern information environment.
If you didn't vote, then you might as well be MAGA. American Democracy is literally on the line, no excuses accepted.
Because they are directly responsible for it.
Republicans want whatever trump wants.
Centrist democrats want whatever netanyahu wants.
I'm on the left. What I want doesn't matter and I'm tired of getting blamed because centrists have to pretend they don't love everything turmp is doing.
they are in denial and don’t want to admit they made a mistake voting for trump.
As a foreigner witnessing my own people voting for some representatives that spread nothing but a desire to destroy all they can, here in France, the real question is: knowing what's happening and if given a chance to travel back in time to change their vote, how many of them would still vote for the same candidate because they hate the other side more than they hate hurting themselves?
Too many, is the answer.
It's about time we start having a war that affects us negatively even in a limited capacity. Honestly, I think the fact most USA citizens haven't experienced war, especially as the being invaded side, makes them complacent and just war happy.
Because don't look up wasn't about covid.
Congrats, now you know the situation in Russia regarding the Ukraine war.
People feel powerless, are swamped by trying to make a living (which is by design), and at the same time feel like this is all wrong and someone ought to do something about it, which leads to a sense of guilt and shame.
So they shield themselves from it and wait for it to pass.
they also can't do anything about it.
just like, you can't do anything about your loved ones getting cancer or other misfortunes of life. And presuming that you can... is just going to destroy you emotionally. All you can do when subjected to forces beyond your control is just keep on moving on and accept it that you have no control over it.
They don't want to be confronted with the point that their own vote for Trump caused this whole mess.
There's a lot of evidence suggesting this presidency was stolen. What would you say if you learned that the majority of America didn't want him back in the oval office?
It is not just the last election. The downfall of US politics is coming for decades now, and is not only caused by the recklessness of the Republicans, but also by the infighting and lethargy of the Democrats.
I mean, who are you talking to...? The ones I talk to are going to protests. But also, I'm not hearing much about it because people are busy with their lives and are generally not very interested in talking about things they cant do anything about. Instead we talk about each others lives and goals, relationships, jobs, projects, hobbies, music.
If somebody came up to me and started trying to get me riled up about Iran, I would say "Yep, sure does suck. Can't wait til somebody assassinates that sumbitch." And that would be the end of the conversation.
Because Americans are idiots
A reporter for the New York Times went to a bar during the Watergate hearings and asked if they could put it on the TV and he was kicked out
I mean, if I was at a bar and trying to relax, I’d consider kicking out whichever cunt decided to put on something stressful like that. Imagine going to a yoga class and insisting that they change their binaural tone background soundscape to death metal instead. If I want to watch the news, I’ll tune into it. I get enough doom and gloom in my daily life, I don’t need it shoved in my face when I’m trying to relax.
Fatigue. There's just been so much and it's kinda fucking draining if you stay plugged in to it all. It's not like doomscrolling will make the situation any better either.
Also like, that was kind of the point of Don't Look Up. People do just shut these things out. If you understood the movie you should know the answer to your question.
Because I’ve been hearing about wars and chaos for decades now. I hear about this stuff literally everywhere. I’m aware of it. I don’t need it shoved in my face 24/7. It’s exhausting.
It’s also addictive for a lot of people. They get so engaged with this stuff online that they neglect their real lives. That’s not healthy.
This encapsulates why it’s so hard to get the majority of Americans to care. The cycle of war, price increases, dwindling quality of life, crumbling infrastructure, growing wealth inequality, racism, misogyny, bigotry; it’s all normalized over decades. Americans don’t get shocked by anything unless it happens directly to them. And not “oh gas prices are up again, that sucks”, but “a cop gunned down my child”. Without having to suffer personally a lot of us will continue to abide the suffering of others and act like being made aware of it is an affront to our right to blissful ignorance.
That’s not what makes it hard for them to care.
What makes it hard for them to care is none of the proposed solutions have been more than barely slowing the decline, and eventually you have to accept that it’s not stopping.
It’s not that it’s constant, it’s that there’s no hope.
At least that’s why I stopped caring.
Because they can't bear the fact that they Fucked Around and are now at the Finding Out. Accepting blame has never been a cultural touchstone for the United States.
As someone looking from outside, it feels like a lot of this could be minimized if the US fixed their electoral system.
It's an arcane system that makes the votes of the middle states more valuable than the outer states. Which means deeply conservative states get to say who runs the country.
So you end up with a religion driven police state, fueled by technofeudalism. Not unlike the regimes you keep overthrowing.
it feels like a lot of this could be minimized if the US fixed their electoral system
Yup, which is why they fight so hard to prevent any change to this system!
Americans have a bit of a reputation abroad for ignoring the fact non-Americans exist and are people. This sounds like an example.
If you never need anything from the outside world and the outside world makes you feel unsure or bad about yourself, it makes emotional sense. I hear China tends to be the same way.
It's not a 'Don't Look Up' moment.
People don't want to hear about it because they're working 2-3 jobs and 100 hours a week to afford rent on a roach-infested studio and food is becoming cost-prohibitive, on top of education, health care, and yes, fuel too. Both parties have gaslit them about it within the last two years to try and get elected.
And they don't have any power to do anything about it.
IIRC Don't Look Up had poor people in it, too.
It's been a long decade, I'm tired, boss... what's that? WHAT? It's only been just over a year? You're shitting me? Get the fuck out of here...
I suspect this is because the U.S.’s ruthless actions contradict the country’s self-image, which has been cemented by decades of propaganda: the narrative that the U.S. is the good guy, spreading freedom and democracy wherever it intervenes, the proud nation that protects the world and punishes dictators for their cruelty - all that bogus.
Reality simply doesn’t fit this propagandistic narrative: after all, in violation of international law, the U.S. is waging a war of aggression alongside genocidal mass murders and committing the most heinous war crimes in the process - crimes so repugnant that they immediately expose the fairy tales of the freedom-loving, friendly world police as obvious lies.
So I consider this to be denial of reality. People simply prefer to live in a flattering lie rather than face reality: for many, their misguided pride in their nation is apparently so important that they refuse to acknowledge that there is absolutely nothing to be proud of anymore - on the contrary, they should be ashamed of their country, but they simply won’t accept that, which is why they prefer to close their eyes to reality.
I'll read the news about it, I'll go protest about it, but I don't want to hear some shitkicker complaining about it — especially if I didn't see that fucker at the protests.
In Russia there's long been a sort of "social contract" between the oligarch elites and the general population. As long as the general population "stayed out of politics" and let the oligarchs stay rich and powerful, the oligarchs wouldn't interfere with their lives. The classic bread-and-circuses thing.
I guess the US could have a similar dynamic developing.