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[–] Shirow@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I was like wait is that a JoJo pose? And then I saw #jojopose.

Awesome!

[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yes!! 😌 step one: pose, step two: convince my gf to watch it with me

[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

just start them on Steel Ball Run and when they inevitably realize it's peak you can be like "well it's an alternate universe but if you liked that there's a ton more"

[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 week ago

that is a good plan and maybe I can take advantage of our pizza date tonight and give her a little intro

[–] autumn64@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 weeks ago

That means a lot, thank you

[–] SpaceBunnie@piefed.social 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 5 points 2 weeks ago
[–] deacon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You can never go wrong with a little black dress, but the boots are a killer combo move. You look beautiful.

[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago

Thank you, I felt really good in this outfit, I found the boots this morning at the very back of my closet

[–] ordnance_qf_17_pounder@reddthat.com 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 weeks ago

Just a tiny bit, I have my moments

[–] SquishedFly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I rarely get envy just because of how happy I am with myself but man, I have never found a dress that would me even remotely as well as this does you ;-;

[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 weeks ago

You’re really sweet! I got lucky with this one, but I’m sure you’ll find yours too 🫰🏼

[–] Entertainmeonly@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 weeks ago

πŸ’ƒπŸ½

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

As an old cis woman (with daughters ) for whom this popped up in Top Six Hours, I have a couple comments/questions.

  1. That's a great dress! Mind telling the label?

  2. And you look great in it! Love the whole vibe.

  3. In my area we'd use "I've" differently, like we'd say "I have a new dress and I'm so happy I've been striking Jojo poses in it." So I'm just wondering what part of the world you are going around looking glorious in.

[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)
  1. The dress is from Torrid, I found it at a thrift store.
  2. Thank you, I really loved today’s outfit too.
  3. I’m Mexican, English isn’t my first language, so I might have gotten that contraction a bit off πŸ€”

That tracks, because the place I've seen a lot of it ( 've ) was in the English subtitles for El Ministerio Del Tiempo, translating from Spanish. Fun show btw.

[–] psycotica0@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

As for 3, in my part of the world (Canada) we only contract "I have" into "I've" when the "have" is grammatical. So "I've been thinking", "I've seen you before", and "I've got that at home". But when it's the main verb we usually don't contract it, so "I have a new dress", "I have to go to court", "I have something to say", etc.

It's understandable, though, and I've probably even seen it in poetry or lyrics, but it isn't typical.

Oh, and it's not impossible to use a structure like "I've not seen it", but again it has a very formal and dramatic feeling, whereas "I haven't see it" feels much more natural to me.

Hot dress πŸ˜‰

[–] Domi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Irish people use the contraction when the "have" is possessive. "I've a new dress" is a perfectly usual thing to say in Ireland.

[–] MoonrootWitch@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago

That’s really interesting, I really like learning about languages and those kinds of differences. And thank you for the compliment on the dress!