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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/ImMiraVela on 2026-03-17 17:26:05+00:00.
Hey!! So, it's me again. I have an update on the most embarrasing moment of my life.
So, I recently asked a girl I like out, right. Stupid me got so embarrased about it, I ran away before she could answer. I wanted to disappear, but thanks to all your support and encouragement, we finally talked properly.
She actually ended up reaching out to me first. But since I had her personal socmed account blocked from mine right (because I tried to get over her before I asked her out and forgot about it), she reached out to me through her work account. She was really confused because 1. she didn't know i was into women (I'm a bi, but i dress feminine) 2. I put her in an awkward situation in public (there wasn't a lot of people who could've overheard us, but that was still awkward and that was on me so i apologized for this as well) 3. why couldn't she find my socials through her personal account (๐ญ)
So I officially apologized for all the trouble I did and she actually laughed (not in a mean way). I also told her I had a crush on her for a while now and had a sudden burst of confidence that time. She said she was glad I did, otherwise, she would've just admired me from afar because she never thought i was gay. She said she liked me for a while now too and always tried to make our paths cross just to see me. I was like OH MY GOD!!
Anyway, she asked me again if I can add her on her personal socials and I did. I also explained that I blocked her there before because I was trying to move on from her. She found it cute, I don't know why. I found it cringy.
Anyway, we had our first date last weekend. It was super awkward lol. Like we talked a lot on chats and stuff. We even call each other at night sometimes and we talk nonstop. But when we had our first physical date, we barely spoke any words. When we were having coffee, she had a pastry with it right. So, I tried to reach for her hand and I kid you not, it was right next to her food, so she quickly moved the food away. It was like those memes and I didn't know there are some people who really did that. Like I had my own food ๐ญ, I wouldn't take hers. We were both shocked at what she did and she immediately apologized. She said she just had brothers growing up and she moved on instinct lol. I wouldn't know because I only have a sister.
I guess it was her turn to be awkward now. Maybe we'll make this into a routine now lol. We laughed about it though and then we finally held hands ๐๐๐
Anyway, thank you so much for all your support and encouragement. I was ready to be eaten by the ground but your comments really uplifted me (and a lot of them made me laugh too lol).
TL;DR: My crush and I finally went on a official date after the awkward and embarrasing encounter I had when I first asked her out