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Women are being abandoned by their partners on hiking trails. What’s behind ‘alpine divorce’? (www.theguardian.com)

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MJ calls what happened to her in Zion national park “small ‘T’ trauma”. She knows women have experienced worse from their partners. But she still feels the anger of being left behind on a hike by her now ex. “It brings up stuff in my body that maybe I have not cleared out yet,” she said.

Five years ago, MJ and a new partner – he was not exactly her boyfriend, and the pair were not exclusive – traveled from Los Angeles to Utah for an adventure getaway. MJ, who is 38 and works in PR, was looking forward to exploring Zion’s striking scenery; its vast sandstone canyon and pristine wading trails were on the list. But on the morning of their big hike, MJ was not feeling well. She could not shake the feeling that something was “off”; indeed, MJ would learn on this trip that her partner was seeing other women.

As they made their way up Angel’s Landing, MJ’s partner started walking faster than her. “I could tell it was getting on his nerves that I was slow,” she said. “I was like, ‘Fuck it, just go ahead of me.’” He did without hesitation.

When she caught up at the top of the mountain, they took a picture together. Then her partner hiked down the mountain with a woman he had met on the way up, leaving MJ to finish by herself. They broke up shortly after that trip. (MJ asked to be referred to by her initials for the sake of speaking openly about a past relationship.)

Last month, MJ opened TikTok and heard the phrase “alpine divorce”, a label she now attaches to her experience in Zion.

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[–] Washedupcynic@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

I know this isn't really the same, but the article struck a chord with me and the experiences I have with my fiance. She convinced me to buy and play Arc Raiders. (It's an extraction shooter.) This isn't the type of game I normally play. I am not good. She made a run for an extraction point, and didn't wait for me to be in the elevator before pressing the button to extract, leaving me stranded with the enemy everywhere. (She's run way ahead of me in game before and I've taken issue with it and explained I feel abandoned when she runs way ahead without me.) The last time we played, I happened to make it to the elevator before her, and I made a point to say, "are you in the elevator," before pressing the god damned button.

Obviously, I wasn't in real danger, but those experiences have made me wary of depending on her.

[–] HulkSmashBurgers@reddthat.com 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

As you said no danger in your situation but it seems like your fiancee had the same mindset as the hikers (inpatience and disregard for other persons wellbeing).

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[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 8 points 2 weeks ago

Exactly why I started refusing to play video games with my ex-husband.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

Nothing is behind it. It's another dramatized thing that people are using for social media clout to score points, and people lap it up. This is manufactured rage bait.

We are also only getting one side of the story. I know for a fact a few of my breakups where the other party completely warped the story to make me into a villain. I had one incident where I was teaching my gf to snowboard and she broke her wrist on the bunny slope, a super common injury. I spent all day with her in the hospital etc. We broke up 6 months later and started telling people I had shoved her to the ground and broke her wrist on purpose because I was jealous of her success as a pianist or something and was trying to sabotage her life . It was insane and her story got worse as time went on post-breakup.

90% of these are probably just unhappy people on a bad day who are re-writing the story into some elaborate narrative of evil and abuse because they know it will do well on social media. And a lot of tiktok/social media people are very unhappy people. And unhappy people do a lot of lying and exaggerating for attention. well-adjusted people aren't making teary faced videos on tiktok about their breakups.

[–] webadict@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

Well, no. Your post is ragebait. What's behind it is the same thing it always was. It's just, ya know, a trend of men not respecting their partners. It's not new. It's not dramatized. It's just that typically men do not put in the same level of thought, care, and compassion for their partners as women typically do.

These stories are pretty standard abuse, honestly. I've heard similar types of things about shitty partners abandoning someone at amusement parks, concerts, and other venues because they got pushed into something and then didn't "fulfill their end of the bargain" or keep up to the level that the first person wanted. Yeah, it is usually men that do this, but it's not exclusively men. Just, ya know, most of the time.

Like, I don't really understand how your bad breakup experience covers for this. You are downplaying the event without knowing both sides as well. Why is it okay to do that, but it isn't okay for some to potentially dramatize it? You're not even involved, so I think it's worse to do this weird defending, because it sorta feels like you might be misogynist. Like, them's the vibes.

I don't know why you think it's 90% of people making this up, but, uh, okay, buddy. There's definitely no potential abusive behaviors here that a partner should look out for, it's just 90% chance it was a bad day or a liar or something, and not shitty or abusive partners.

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[–] HellsBelle@sh.itjust.works 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Do you have proof of any of that or is it simply your opinion?

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