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Until recently, I really didn’t know how to cook properly.

One of the things I used to make often was spaghetti bolognese. It was high in protein, fit my diet well, it was reasonably healthy, and so I made it about twice a week. The recipe was very simple: mince, onions, spaghetti, and a bottle of pasta sauce from the store.

Over time I started experimenting. I tried different recipes, added more ingredients, cooked parts separately, and let the sauce simmer longer. Bit by bit it evolved.

Now I make the sauce from scratch, cook the mince in a separate pan, add finely diced carrots and a do a bunch of extra steps I never used to, as well as letting everything simmer for a two hours.

The result is honestly fucking delicious and better than any spaghetti bolognese I've had in restaurants.

The problem is that it went from being my easy go-to meal to something that actually takes effort. I used to make it multiple times a week, but now I barely do.

And the worst part is I can’t go back to the old version anymore, because it just tastes disappointing.

I just wanted to rant, I'm frustrated because I want the dish more, but don't want all of the added effort.

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[–] Godnroc@lemmy.world 67 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Make a bunch and freeze it, now you have premade meals of the good shit whenever you want.

This is the way. I’ve got little frozen containers of spag bol and Mexican beans and mince sitting in the freezer ready for dinner when ever. The trick is to get a giant ass fry pan and just make up a fuck ton of what ever you happen to be cooking and have a bunch of freezer safe containers.

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 49 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

PS. I'm heading to the shop now to buy all the ingredients I need to make this, gota start soon else I'll eat way too late.
Can't not make it at least once a week.

[–] normanwall@lemmy.world 36 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Can you make a big batch and save some leftovers in the fridge or freezer? I think it's great that you have perfected it, I'm happy for you.

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 16 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

I'll try that once, but I doubt it will be the same. My oven & microwave have been broken for like 3 months so I've been learning to cook a lot!!

It's also pretty good for my mental health to have to run to the shop every day and make food, else I just end up on the computer all day.

So I kinda force myself to cook and go to the shops most days

[–] null@piefed.nullspace.lol 13 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Being in the same situation, I ended up getting some big, silicon "ice cube" trays (if you used them for ice cubes the cubes would be huge). Each slot holds ~a serving of pasta sauce.

We'll make up batches of sauce and freeze them in these trays. Then you can pop a cube into a saucepan, add some cream (or other liquid base that makes sense for the sauce) and heat it up while you make the pasta.

In my experience it works and tastes great, and makes it super easy for when you don't have time or energy to cook.

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 8 points 2 weeks ago

That sounds great, I'll give that a try

[–] AnotherMadHatter@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

We do that with home made sloppy joe sauce. A muffin cup is perfect for one sloppy joe serving.

[–] rants_unnecessarily@piefed.social 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

You can reheat the sauce in a pan and just boil up some fresh pasta.

Of course it won't be 100%, but it'll be 100 times better than your old go-to and just as easy.

[–] Tarquinn2049@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

When you do the leftovers, pan-fried spaghetti feels very different and is also super delicious. Let it dry out a bit as it cooks, seems like bad instructions, but it's so good.

Edit: I should note, this starts with the sauce and noodles already mixed. Ideally when put away, so the noodles absorb the sauce over a few days. If your diet allows for it, adding your cooking fat of choice is of course very much recommended for frying in a pan.

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[–] tomiant@piefed.social 2 points 2 weeks ago

I usually make a massive batch and by morning it is always all gone. You can't not eat it all. Impossible.

[–] xtr0n@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 weeks ago

Could you make a double or quadruple sauce recipe and freeze it? Making a bigger batch of bolognese doesn’t take significantly more time and then you can quickly reheat portions and boil the pasta for a quick weeknight meal. If you brown the meat then that would add extra time since you would need to brown one portion of meat at a time, since it will steam rather than brown if you overcrowd the pan.

[–] AnotherMadHatter@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

My wife and I make spaghetti sauce a couple of times a year, but we make it in 2 giant stock pots and start with giant institutional cans of tomato puree and diced tomatoes, then cook and add the ground beef and Italian sausages and seasonings and then measure out portions into vacuum bags and freeze them. It takes twice as long to do those two stock pots compared to maybe two meals worth, but we get 12 meals out of that.

Want spaghetti? Grab a vacuum pack out of the freezer and put it in water to boil on the stove. When it's defrosted and warmed up, cook the noodles and dinner is ready.

[–] GammaGames@beehaw.org 22 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Why not make it in bulk once a week, enough for a few servings? And I probably don’t need to tell you this… but keep it in the fridge/freezer

Also please share the recipe, I’m interested!

[–] new_world_odor@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

Excellent work, that just means you need a new dish to iterate on! And the cycle can continue.

Maybe in future experimentation try to prioritize timeliness? That's easier said than done though. Your journey with bolognese is similar to mine with shakshuka, so I feel I understand. It's impossible to turn off my desire to improve things and resulting brainstorms on the topic.

[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Does it freeze well? When I used to be extra as hell with Bolognese, I would do batch cooking and it went pretty well, especially if I wasn't super lazy with how I defrosted it.

[–] mnemonicmonkeys@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 weeks ago

Or can it be canned easily?

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 4 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Probably, but I think it just won't be the same again

[–] Killer57@lemmy.ca 4 points 2 weeks ago

You are correct, putting something in the fridge/ freezer will deepen the flavor, freezing it for later may in fact, work better and you might just end up with something tastier in the long run.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

You can go further. I also make my sauce from scratch, but then pressure cook some beef chuck or shanks in it with red wine. Then I make my own pasta to go with.

And it’s good it takes so long because I would be too fat to make it otherwise.

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I've once made pasta with a friend who had her own pasta roller (not sure what it's called), it was a lot of fun. I'm definitely keen of getting one, one day. Adding more effort lol

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My own mother cursed me by getting me one for Christmas. Now I can’t stand the stuff from the store.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Its also nice because you get to make stuffed pastas that just don't exist in normal stores! Love it.

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

And lasagna with fresh pasta. It’s sooo much better

[–] BlameTheAntifa@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Make a big batch once per week on the weekend and portion it out into easy, freezable individual servings. It can still be your easy go-to meal if you make a week or two worth of sauce all at once. Cook the pasta fresh, reheat your frozen sauce in a microwave, combine and enjoy.

[–] Redfox8@mander.xyz 2 points 2 weeks ago

This! Batch cook & enjoy!

Making my own tortillas has done this to tacos for me. It doesn't add a ton of complexity, but the extra time takes what was a super fast zero effort process, and now makes it about as involved as any other simple dish to cook. But it's SO much better that I can never go back.

[–] Eq0@literature.cafe 5 points 2 weeks ago

I hear you, but you might be able to decouple the lazy version and the fancy one. I love pasta al pesto. I have the lazy version (sauce from the store, chuck it in) and the fancy version (start with basil…). One is a comfort food in rough times, the other a delicacy I can only savor a handful of times a year. Both are great in their respective roles.

[–] 0ops@piefed.zip 5 points 2 weeks ago
[–] davidgro@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I'm blursed with a weak sense of smell/taste. This can't happen to me, I would barely be able to tell the two recipes apart. But on the other hand, I'm pretty sure I'm missing a lot of the enjoyment people have with really good food.

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[–] DagwoodIII@piefed.social 4 points 2 weeks ago

Simple solution.

Get a big, big pot and make a f%%k ton of sauce once a month.

Get containers and freeze them.

I make chili and lentil soup this way; I've got plenty of each sitting in the freezer. I mostly keep it for days I am sick or just don't feel like cooking.

If you don't have a good sized freezer check online. You can find one that's about as much floor space as a chair that holds plenty.

[–] TLGA@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Sounds nice, I personally like taking time to cook good food. Can we have the recipe?

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 2 points 2 weeks ago

It's essentially this: https://youtu.be/HZctds20DfA

I add some chilli because I like it spicy

[–] dumples@piefed.social 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Take what you learned about your Bolognese and then make a simpler pasta dish. I love being able to whip up something delicious based on a can of tomatoes and what is in the fridge. Go practice that as your new easy dish..

You can do the same thing with other dishes you enjoy. Find a simple one and perfect it even if it becomes complex and work on doing simple meals.

[–] Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.world 2 points 2 weeks ago

Aglio e olio is one of the most famous pasta dishes for a reason.

[–] thagoat@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 weeks ago

This is meal prep. Lots of people devote one day a week to cooking all their meals for the coming week. They portion it, freeze it and eat those meals all week. That's great for busy folks or those who need a reginented meal plan. Not so great for people like me who say, I don't want to eat any of this shit.. Lol

That might be up your alley.

[–] RamRabbit@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Make a big-ass batch once every month or three. Freeze 90% of it to eat later. Cooking 10x as much is not much more effort than cooking 1x.

[–] amio@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I know what you mean, but there's hope yet. If you specifically don't want advice... ignore quite a lot of this, I guess, I'm just grabbing the excuse to nerd out

If you have a freezer, you're good, bolognese is decent freezer food, you can prep a silly amount and "flatpack", and be set for ages.

Browning the meat doesn't sound like a huge part of the overall effort, but if it's a pain, halfass or skip it. You don't need a separate pot, just do it in your main one. Depends on how set you are on the browned flavors, one upside to browning less of it is that it'll be more tender since the meat structure seizes up on aggressive heating.

Mincing veg, maybe especially the carrot, is a fucking pain, but you can grate or process them instead, or conceivably just skip the carrots at least. Especially with the processor it's stupid quick and you can freeze that too, since it goes in a wet cook and the texture isn't important.

Anything you do skip, there's probably a way to "cheat" and at least partially make up for it. Beef fond, soy, Maggi and/or fish sauce, sugar, onion/garlic granules, maybe a careful pinch of some warming spices or cocoa. Adds "complexity" and whatnot from shelf stable stuff that doesn't need prepping

(Since you mentioned fiber, I can endorse lentils with/besides/instead of the meat too. Red split lentils stew down really easily and add body)

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 2 points 2 weeks ago

I bought one of these, and it's amazing!! It saves a TON of time and has now halved the effort. image

It still has to simmer for a long time, but that's fairly chilled

[–] MrsDoyle@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 weeks ago

Spag bol is one of my faves too, and like yours has evolved into pure deliciousness. To mix it up one time I made the mince into meatballs, fried them while the sauce simmered, then added them to the sauce for more simmering while the spaghetti cooked. That was incredible, but too many extra steps to do regularly.

[–] teft@piefed.social 2 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Tomato sauce is one of those things that freezes well. Make a bunch of your sauce in a big stock pot and freeze what you don't need portioned out in ziplocs or other freezable containers. Then even though it's a process to make you'll only have to do it once a fortnight or so depending how much you prep and how much you eat.

[–] tomiant@piefed.social 1 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

By far my favorite dish in the world, and it's fucking expensive and takes TIME.

Use only fresh tomatoes, the best you can find, at least 1,5-2 kg, the more the better. Halve them, put in a whachu call, glass oven pan, pour over some olive oil and salt and maybe a clove of garlic stuck inside one of the tomatoes (so it don't burn), and into the oven at around 175-180 degrees C. Point is you want to lightly roast the skin, so it caramelizes. Once it does you can lower the temperature to 125 or lower, even 100 or 80, and it can simmer and stew forever, the longer the better. Just keep reducing until it's thick. If it gets too thick just add water or wine.

Tomatoes need LONG TIME to really release flavor. Thats why the sauce always tastes better the next day. This is for the tomatoes only, not even talking the rest of the sauce but that's the foundation for sure. White or red wine helps a lot. Onions are non negotiable, but there's a point of dininishing returns of adding ingredients and spices.

One secret trick also is to mix- hear me out, filet of sardine, I don't know what they're called, it's like these very salty very thin fish filets that come in a jar and usually sunflower oil.

They release a ton of umami and melt into the sauce without a trace, and it doesn't taste like fish at all.

There's a bunch of other things obv but those are the spechal tacticks for the connoisseurs already in here.

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