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Don't get me wrong, I'm all for privacy. But between setting up the birthdate when creating my children's local account on their computers, and having to send a copy of their ID to every platform under the sun, I'd easily chose the former.

I'd even agree to a simple protocol (HTTP X-Over-18 / X-Over-21 headers?) to that.

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[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 166 points 2 weeks ago (12 children)

You aren't setting up your childrens accounts. You're setting up your accounts to show that you're not a child. And suddenly, every single thing you use, from apps to websites, is gatekept behind an API that is controlled by the government. If checking age on social media is all it ever does, then sure, whatever. But that isn't all it will ever do. It will creep further and further, and the details you need to provide will increase, one shitty government term at a time. And then one day, they'll able able to decide that people in your country shouldn't be able to see safe sex information, or abortion information, and the framework to deny the whole country access is already there, and just one small tweak away from locking you out of information that is deemed inappropriate.

[–] cobysev@lemmy.world 79 points 2 weeks ago (18 children)

If checking age on social media is all it ever does, then sure, whatever.

You're forgetting an important detail: you submitted an official ID to prove your age. Which means your face, address, and legal name are also on record. So every time you get age-verified, you're basically checking in with your full legal identity, leaving a breadcrumb path across the Internet of everything you do. That data can be used to track your online activities and build a database on who you are as a person, based on the things you access.

THIS is why age verification is a terrifying thing for computer access. It's a form of government tracking that should be illegal. Cops can't legally barge into your home anytime they want and go through your stuff. They can't take your computer and scan it for data collection. Not without a court order.

With age verification embedded within your OS, it won't matter if there's a court order or not. If your computer is connected to the Internet, you've just publicly broadcast all your data to the world, and anyone - cops or not - can tap into that data and build a profile on you. You don't even need to be browsing the Internet; if your OS is verifying your age, it could also be broadcasting that verification for every program you use locally on your computer. None of your data is safe; it's all tied to your legal identity and trackable.

[–] ada@piefed.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 weeks ago

You’re forgetting an important detail

I wasn't forgetting it. As it stands, at the OS level, you aren't supplying anything to prove your age. It's just a data field that software can read. And my point was that if that field, and social media was all it ever was, then, it's not great, but I can understand why the OP isn't too upset by it.

My point was more that it will never be just that.

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[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Yep. This is pretty much it. Require having popular operating systems to have child accounts as an option would be reasonably ok. But regular accounts shouldn't need any verification. ID checks wouldn't need to be anywhere near this either. Its on the parents, they didn't setup a child account? They are to blame.

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[–] cerebralhawks@lemmy.dbzer0.com 65 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Because they don't care about your age. They want to tie you to your ID, so everything you say and do online can be tracked and tied to you as a person.

Meanwhile the leader of one of their countries has raped women and teenagers and even a couple of children, but they don't do anything about it. But you can be jailed for decades for seeing a picture or video of it. But the actual act? They don't care about that. (I'm saying you can be jailed for simply seeing CSAM online, but if you're a billionaire actually doing the things, you won't be tried for the actual CSA being recorded.)

So as you can see, it's not your age, but your identity.

Most people think the Nazis only locked up Jews. Some realise they also locked up minorities. Historians know it was also anyone who disagreed with them. Anyone who spoke out against them. Anyone who wouldn't wear the armband. And they're afraid history will repeat. And they're right to be afraid.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 15 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Most people think the Nazis only locked up Jews. Some realise they also locked up minorities.

They started with the impoverished, queer, and disabled.

[–] VitoRobles@lemmy.today 50 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

But between setting up the birthdate when creating my children's local account on their computers, and having to send a copy of their ID to every platform under the sun, I'd easily chose the former.

This is how they move the goalpost. They changed the argument.

You currently can just create a local account - period. It's yours. No tracking. No personal info.

But now you're accepting that you're willing to give a third party information, even just a little.

The next argument is: "If giving your age is okay, why not your home address?"

This is what police do to fish information out of you.

I'd even agree to a simple protocol (HTTP X-Over-18 / X-Over-21 headers?) to that.

In a era where privacy conscious people don't even connect their TV to the internet... This is okay to you?


You went from "Why do they want my information?"

To

"I'm not concerned with sharing my age. But how should we do it?"

And that itself is the root issue.

[–] BrianTheeBiscuiteer@lemmy.world 26 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Also this goalpost will move almost immediately. What if the parent doesn't understand why the OS is asking for a DOB and they type whatever? What if the parent doesn't log out and the kids use the adult account? What if the kid is really smart and bypasses the check (I think this could actually get bypassed easily)?

Rather than rolling back this rule they'll just go even further and say the OS must analyze every action and utilize every input (e.g. microphone, camera) to determine the age of the current user and that controls need to be at the hardware level and OSes need to get state certified, etc. Before long only Windows, Apple, Google, and maybe RedHat can comply. An entire community of Linux enthusiasts destroyed. And as some bills have stated, rather vaguely, this can apply to something as simple as a calculator!

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 weeks ago

Also this goalpost will move almost immediately. What if the parent doesn't understand why the OS is asking for a DOB and they type whatever?

Which we have already seen with content ratings. Instead of using the rating to inform themselves on what content to allow their child, they basically relied on the retailers/theatres not selling access to people below the age.

[–] INeedANewUserName@piefed.social 41 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

My calculator doesn't need to know how old anyone is. Nor does my refrigerator. I suppose a case could be made for a router if you are all onboard for age gating everything privacy and freedom be damned. An OS isn't just Mac or Windows... the CA law is just so so dumb as written that I have zero faith in anything from Silicon valley.

[–] MareOfNights@discuss.tchncs.de 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

At least my printer already has a scanner I can put my ID into. How am I going to tell my smart fridge, that I'm not too old for the snacks with cartoon characters on the wrapper?

[–] Gork@sopuli.xyz 6 points 2 weeks ago

Voice recognition with the latest brainrot phrases built in, grouped by generation.

"That's gnarly, bro" - Millennial

"Skibidi Ohio Toilet brah" - Gen Z

"6 7 6 7” - Gen Alpha

[–] ambitiousslab@feddit.uk 36 points 2 weeks ago (32 children)

Will you be allowed to lie about the age? If yes, then it's a pointless law. If no, then whoever is checking needs to have more control over your device than you do, DRM style. That's gives them an entry point through which they can put whatever they want without you being able to control it.

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[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 29 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (14 children)

But between setting up the birthdate when creating my children’s local account on their computers, and having to send a copy of their ID to every platform under the sun, I’d easily chose the former.

That's your decision. The rest of us shouldn't be forced into it just because you're to lazy to watch what your kids are doing online. If a website thinks they need to my my age they can ask me and I'll decide if I want to provide it or not. I don't want my OS just handing it out to anyone who asks.

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[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 27 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

because its designed to feed surveillance data to Palintir, which allows governments all over the west to monitor any dissident movements, or relatives of "dissidents" against right wing governments. dont know of any computer system requiring your ID/ or birthday, you can always fake a birthday.

right now the biggest threat to conservative governments is anyone "left" of them.

[–] graycube@lemmy.world 23 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

What is a computer? My microwave has a computer in it. My car. My printer. My smartwatch. My TV. My treadmill. My security cameras. Many many things have little embedded systems running linux. Some are Internet connected, some aren't. This feels terribly invasive for something that allegedly protects kids (doubtful). What if i don't have any kids in my household? Would this have stopped Trump and his friends? How about the government focus on real problems instead of requiring cameras be installed on my toaster and a credit card to be able to watch TV.

[–] socsa@piefed.social 20 points 2 weeks ago

Because I don't give a shit what your kids do on the Internet, and there are already plenty of tools for you to curate the experience for them.

[–] 87Six@lemmy.zip 19 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

As others have said

It has nothing to do with age checking, protecting the children, or security. NOTHING.

[–] Katana314@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

That’s one of the main things to me. The argument jumps directly to drivers license / DOB collection, but makes no conclusions about how it would protect children. It is OVERTLY, 100%, about feeding lists of targets to the pedophiles that run the biggest tech companies.

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[–] minorkeys@lemmy.world 18 points 2 weeks ago

Because it has little to do with protecting anyone and is another gross violation of privacy to serve corporate interests.

[–] U7826391786239@piefed.zip 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

the problem is that it's not going to stop there. kids will obviously still get porn, and fascists will say "seeeeee!!??! we need even more personal data to protect the kids!!! OS age verification isn't enough!!!"

steps in the wrong direction are exactly that, and exactly what this OS bullshit is. everyone having to pay the price for parents who can't be assed to raise their own kids

edit: i need to add--it's not actually about the kids. it never was. it's about collecting every 1 and every 0 that exists about you, for profit, but also for surveillance. every dissenting comment, post, photo, etc will be linked to a unique human being via dozens (or hundreds. thousands?) of data points. before you say "no way," remember the ridiculous percentage of 1/6 insurrectionists they rooted out, based on social media posts. and that was before AI blew up

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[–] lmmarsano@group.lt 16 points 2 weeks ago

Wrong technical solution to a made up problem.

Governments have commissioned enough studies to know that education, training, and parental controls filtering content at the receiving end are more effective & less infringing of civil rights than laws imposing restrictions & penalties on website operators to comply with online age verification. Laws could instead allocate resources to promote the former in a major way, setup independent evaluations reporting the effectiveness of child protection technologies to the public, promote standards & the development of better standards in the industry. Laws of the latter kind simply aren't needed & also suffer technical defects.

The most fatal technical defect is they lack enforceability on websites outside their jurisdiction. They're limited to HTTP (or successor). They practically rule out dynamic content (chat, fora) for minors unless that content is dynamically prescreened. Parental control filters lack all these defects, and they don't adversely impact privacy, fundamental rights, and law enforcement.

Governments know better & choose worse, because it's not about promoting the public good, it's about imposing control.

[–] CaptainBasculin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 16 points 2 weeks ago

Having a gatekeeper behind what you can use on your own hardware is always bad.

[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 14 points 2 weeks ago

On the one hand, it is a privacy nightmare.

On the other hand, those laws are so badly written, they will apply to things you would never consider an issue. E.g. a security camera, a router, a NAS. For each of them, the law applies, because they have an OS, they are attached to a network, and they have logins. Think about it, and it basically applies to any network enabled device.

[–] corsicanguppy@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago

So

  1. Unenforceable
  2. Inaccurate
  3. Over-reaching
  4. PII not protected

What's wrong with it then? By the numbers, it seems everything is wrong with it.

When you go order something from Amazon, you're using about 15-20 computers in a row; probably more. PROVE you have the right. Yes, the server farm you're using to make an order is included, and it's a lot of machines.

Who pays to make sure Ticketmaster server farm is 'used' by age-appropriate customers and the code to check that is installed and maintained? Why, you, of course. The order panel at the burger joint? You, eventually. Toll ticket at Airport Parking? You're gonna love this. Guess what's in your cable box? Guess how often you'll have to have your face scanned just to turn on the TV? TV too. Fancy thermostat? There's a computer Nesting in there. Scan that face, bucko; on the new unit you have to buy because, dude, that and your microwave just became e-waste.

The list is unending. The implementation is shit. The data leak has already been shown with .. discord, right?

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 2 weeks ago (13 children)

Because parents are responsible for stuff their off-spring does and the government should not be needed to do that.
At the very most, provide tools to help parents (e.g. on device filtering etc. or require companies to provide APIs to facilitate the same goal)

Other than that: Fuck off of my phone.

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[–] chunes@lemmy.world 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Show us your ID, then. Or even just your age. Now your children too.

Don't want to? That's why.

[–] tryll1980@lemmy.world 12 points 2 weeks ago

No. As soon as you're sending in your official ID your entire online presence will be tracked to your ID by the government, Google, Meta and the likes. Privacy is totally gone by then...

[–] AverageEarthling@feddit.online 12 points 2 weeks ago

Lots of people are about to be born on 01-01-1900. I guess 01-01-2000 works now though. Man, I'm old.

[–] melsaskca@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

While an international cabal of rich white men participate in a pedophile club run by america/israeli rich white other men, we need to ensure that the youth of today don't prematurely access "racy" pictures. Make it make sense.

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[–] a_gee_dizzle@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (9 children)

OS age verification would effectively make some, if not most, linux distributions (or other less-popular operating systems) illegal. Because many linux distributions are made by small team of volunteers. In some cases a linux distribution might be maintained by literally one person. So these people likely do not have the time or money to include something like age verification into the operating system.

That said, there are some technically possible ways where this could be done to reduce the load on developers (perhaps with access codes, and a government maintained database) but the way age verification had is being done right now (face scanning, etc) would be a real headache to implement and quite possibly cost or time prohibitive.

It would be a shame if age verification laws effectively made open source operating systems illegal. It would suck if these laws inadvertently made it legally required that we need to support big tech companies like Apple or Microsoft in order to use a computer.

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[–] redwattlebird@thelemmy.club 10 points 2 weeks ago

Tools should be provided if you want to do that but shouldn't be standard. People should have freedom of choice on how to use their own property, in terms of computers, and how they manage/raise their children.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 9 points 2 weeks ago

Because I should not have to. Im fine with them selling specially child computers that are listed as under 18 you can buy for your kids but I don't want that crap on mine.

[–] kunaltyagi@programming.dev 9 points 2 weeks ago

This is a bad idea for privacy: Slippery Slope. @VitoRobbles@lemmy.today has explained this perfectly. It also gives you more data that you can use to fingerprint your users. 1 new data point that might enable better targeting and deanonymization

This is also a bad idea for security: The mere presence of this signal exists allows it to be used for nefarious purposes, such as giving u-18 or u-21 signal to enter "protected space".

This is also a bad idea for the non mega corps. It allows the platforms (like FB, YT, Twitch, etc.) to throw away their moderation teams and ask for OS level fixes because of the age reporting mechanism worked, then this would have never happened.

[–] DFX4509B@lemmy.wtf 9 points 2 weeks ago

It's a slippery slope and also regulatory capture as the only ones with the means to actually pull this off are the Big Tech companies.

[–] Ardyvee@europe.pub 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

The issue with "children" local accounts (assuming they ever remained 100% local anyway) is that for it to be effective, you would have to control who install the OS for it to be effective.

I have been managing my own OS install since I was a teen, so I could have just created an adult account for me. But, okay, you could say that you could just regularly check your child hasn't reinstalled the machine.

Well, see, they could just install a Virtual Machine. There is plenty of Virtual Machine software out there, and then we're back at whoever installs it being responsible for filling in that information. And Virtual Machines are very useful for a bunch of things: from running software not made for your hardware (see Android emulators, WSL), to being safer around dodgy software.

You could counter that by not letting them install things with your permissions... but there are portable versions of software that people make for a bunch of reasons which don't recall an installation. And I am not talking about hypotheticals: back when I was in school people would carry portable versions of games in USB sticks to copy around school machines so they could play video games during IT class.

Never mind that it means that whenever they want to install something, they will poke you about it, and now you're on the hook for reviewing that. Which you should already be doing because you care about what your child does and they don't have the years of experience to not break their OS.

But if you are doing that, why not use proper parental control software that let's you have much finer-grained control over what they can see or not online, along with other controls around how much time they can spend on the machine and a few nicer things?

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[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

There is a difference between providing the capability, and requiring that capability.

Under this law, something as simple as sharing a Google Drive could make you an "app store" and potentially liable for penalties.

These laws are specifically designed to be broadly interpreted. We have no idea just how widely the nets will be cast, either tomorrow, or 10 years from now. It is prudent to assume the absolute worst case.

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[–] daggermoon@piefed.world 8 points 2 weeks ago

It's techno-fascism

[–] bluGill@fedia.io 7 points 2 weeks ago

most homes don't run their computers in multi-user mode. Even when they do most kids will learn the admin password because parents don't select good passwords.

Kids are not stupid. Even if some are, there are many kids in school and so any bypass will spread kid to kid fast. For each of the following reread this paraghraph to remind yourself all kids will know this.

kids can install linux /bsd on a raspberry pi or old/cheap computer - this is something I want to encourage. that of course means they are root and can claim whatever age. They can likewise do it in a vm.

if there is any security flaw kids can use it to change their age.

many programs will not check when they should. Kids will install/use these instead. this is a likely exploit vector of actors (in foriegn counties) that target kids - release a new program that does what the kids wants while also doing what they want. (Websites have done bitcoin in javascript while you read them)

who will check? onlyfans probably will, but small web sites spring up all the time, and they won't bother - many are already illegal (either copyright or illegal content).

Meanwhile many programs that we want kids to use won't bother to check. why would things autocad check - they target professionals but kids can use them and may even have to.

the above is not a complete list!

Age is useful for 'buy cigerettes' that is illegal for kids in some way.

However most of what parents care about isn't automatically bad and I know plenty of panents who are frusterated because we can't controll things how we need to without being a helicopter parent (bad). Playing video games is fine in moderation - AFTER YOUR HOMEWORK IS DONE - but we don't get an easy way to enforce that. My teens are old enough to stay home alone and do homework - but they will not do their homework when they can do something else (this problem has been around since school)

my kids phones have parental controls that I turn on. However they lack a way to enforce homework vs play vs sleep time. There is likely more, this is just what frusterated me yesterday. some things are not gated - my kids have got up at 3am, and connected their school device (under school control not me) to their phone hotspot (turned on who knows when - I can't block that at all) to play a game that the school will block next week when they figure out it is one kids are playing but they shouldn't.

people are proposing age verification because they have no idea what else they can do and are frusterated at how bad things are.

[–] bad1080@piefed.social 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

let's follow the argument this is to protect children: why does is seem like a good idea to let everybody on the internet know what age your child is?

so if it is not to protect the children, what else could it be?

[–] Libb@piefed.social 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

What would you say if, to be allowed to open your fridge (the one you own and purchased with your money) in order to pick something to eat out of it, you were required to make a blood test (say through some mechanism included in the door handle) to prove that you don't have any serious disease preventing you from, say, eating a slice of that delicious cake, or whatever?

The idea might not be completely stupid (one with some serious disease should not not eat what can harm them) but the implementation is not right. It's considering 100% of the population as suspects by default; just because they exist and have a fridge.

Replace 'fridge' with computer, 'cake' with online content, and 'disease' with 'being a minor'. That's how sad that is.

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