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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/royalbluefireworks1 on 2026-03-08 16:23:11+00:00.
29 year old tech guy here. Been on dating apps just a few weeks after not dating for years so I am inexperienced here. Was supposed to meet an Asian girl, let’s call her Sally, (I’m also Asian) yesterday afternoon at 3 at a coffee shop from Hinge. At 3 an Asian girl, let’s call herMichelle, walks in and waves at me. We sit down and I pay for her coffee.
Michelle looks different from the photos but they are both software engineers and works at the exact same company as the girl I was supposed to meet (Sally) so I thought it was just makeup.
We chat for an hour before I check my phone and see 5 missed calls from Sally and an angry text that she saw me with another girl at the shop. I get confused and ask Michelle if her name is Sally and she says no, and my heart sinks.
Turns out Michelle thought I was a guy named Kevin and we were both talking to the wrong person at the same time. I apologize explain the situation to Sally but she says she’s not interested in a follow up date. I ask Michelle if she’s interested in a follow up date but she also says no because the situation is too awkward.
We both happened to arrange dates at the exact same time at the same coffee shop.
So now I fucked up with 2 girls in one afternoon and wasted my time lol.
TLDR: Met wrong girl at a coffee shop, neither want follow up dates, RIP. This is my 4th failed date so far. Failed a second date with a girl a few days ago lol. Dating on the Pacific Northwest sucks lol.