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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/Feisty-Ad276 on 2026-03-08 10:13:58+00:00.
TIFUpdate 3
Hi everyone
Firstly I’m not American and I’ve never watched The Pitt so I had no idea that was a story line, BUT I did just google it and it looks good so I will probably start watching it now ✌🏼
Secondly I had the crashout of all crashouts yesterday but am feeling much better today. Also I’m not a writer, I’m a receptionist from rural Australia.
I ended up flat out asking my fiancée to see his scans and all medical docs he has under the guise of concern for our future and he showed me everything.
I asked him if he ever confirmed any personality changes with his surgeon/doctor and there was no medical confirmation or notes. But he asked if it was possible at one of his follow up appointments and was told it was possible but not confirmable.
He has another follow up in 2 weeks which I’ll be going with him to ask all the questions I now have. And more importantly what to look for in future to tell if any tumour is returning or generally anything to look out for.
I think I’m done with posting on reddit forever now, but don’t quote me on that because I love outside opinions that aren’t just my/his friends. The brutal honesty helps and hurts at the same time.
We’re still engaged, still in love, still cat parents and will be getting married eventually.
I still love you too reddit ❤️
TLDR: had a huge crashout, spoke to my fiancée, saw his medical records and will be going to his next appointment. Love is still real and we’re still engaged