A fair warning that drunk people really dislike other people around them also not drinking. It might be a good idea to talk to a bartender ahead of time and ask if someone wants shots/drinks for the group that they'll give you something non-alcoholic. Bartenders are typically very cool with that sort of thing
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I'll make a note of this, but if I'm being honest, I'm not really looking into making friends with people who aren't chill with me not consuming a dangerous, addictive drug anyway. I got enough peer pressure in high school and college for a lifetime. I'll drink mocktails with them, but I'd probably take my leave (from the group) if I got guilted for not drinking alcohol.
It sounds like a cliche, but relax
Nobody is thinking about you as much as you are!
I hope you have a blast
Okay but, I'm highly autistic, so I'm gonna be worried abt even the tiniest, most casual social interaction in the world simply bc socializing does not come naturally to me lol
I'll try my best to have fun, though!
Depending on the gay bar there might be a significant neurodivergent contingent. Don't freak out. Also if you don't have a good time, there's nothing saying you have to stay till closing
Yeah, I've been told to expect that. I understand I'm probably overthinking, meeting new people is just something I really struggle with (but I'm making an active effort to get better at it)
Do you have anyone you could go with? Perhaps just one friend might help out.
I do, and I'm planning on going there with them when they have the time, but they've been really busy lately, so I was considering going by myself