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[–] asteriskeverything@lemmy.world 143 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

It's funny I've had interactions on dating sites that would be unspeakably vulgar in person but somehow come across as gallant in that context.

[–] asteriskeverything@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Honestly it's the rare exchanges like this that make me wish I was on the dating scene in this era cuz damn that was not a thing in my day. But the rest of it sucks so much, no matter the era lol

[–] eestileib@sh.itjust.works 1 points 2 years ago

The getting laid part is the best part imo, but you have to want it badly enough to wade through some shit.

[–] Draegur@lemm.ee 118 points 2 years ago (1 children)

at least they aren't discriminatory...?

[–] norbert@kbin.social 173 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Yeah this might be a green flag. Person is being upfront about their needs, they're trying to fuck. It's fine if that's not what you're looking for but if you are, it's fine (imo) to be completely upfront about it.

[–] littlecolt@lemm.ee 40 points 2 years ago

Homeboy is tryna fuck and is communicating clearly and asking for interest/consent. Vulgar? Sure, but still a class act. I hope he got to hit it.

[–] ShaunaTheDead@kbin.social 28 points 2 years ago

Yesss! Oh my god, just be up front about what you want! I hate when people lie about their intentions on dating sites.

[–] IntrepidIceIgloo@lemmy.world 66 points 2 years ago (2 children)

That would work with me lol

[–] bbpolterGAYst@lemmy.blahaj.zone 52 points 2 years ago

aww, this is what true allyship looks like 😊 😊 😊

[–] Jolteon@lemmy.zip 31 points 2 years ago

Hey, clear expectations were set from the very beginning.

[–] ThatFembyWho@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Complete lack of imagination. Just want I want, a brainless meatsack on top of me for 5 minutes.

Is this the tinder experience? Might be looking at trans friendly dating apps soon.

[–] Agent641@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Well, give us more to work with, then! What exactly are you tryna get pounded?

[–] ThatFembyWho@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago

First misstep... I generally do the pounding, friend :* just cuz I'm a girl doesnt mean I'm a bottom xD

Unless you're offering to do housework for me. In that case I suppose a number of things could benefit from a good pounding.

[–] Kit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago

I had good luck with a site called Taimi. Not sure if it's still around but it was much better for dating versus the hookup culture of Tinder. I met my partner there and we've been together for years.

[–] gon@lemm.ee 6 points 2 years ago

Have no words

[–] Franzia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago

Me and who?