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submitted 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by hayyy@thelemmy.club to c/goodoffmychest@lemmy.world

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There are two kinds of men that make me feel whole/that I’m a fool for.

The flashy man with the charisma and charm and money and who’s probably unavailable and constantly busy. Older. Is a Pinnochio playboy. He satisfies me with his things.

And then the quiet but confident man who is fit and has that anime build and who I feel safe around and who is actually available and emotionally attentive to me. He satisfies me with his bod.

I want to be good enough for the first because if I’m valid to him that means I’m beautiful and unstoppable and safe but I feel I have to prove myself to him and he’d probably just trigger my bpd. And the second guy probably thinks low of me and we probably wouldn’t really cross paths but if he sees me then I’m kind and taking care of me.

I won’t end up with either though. I’ll just be sad old ugly and die alone.

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[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Is anime build the same as twink?

[–] hayyy@thelemmy.club 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Nope. Like a warrior.

[–] Iconoclast@feddit.uk 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I see. I don't watch anime but that term made me thing of someone tall, fit and slender.

[–] hayyy@thelemmy.club 1 points 3 days ago

Me neither tbh. But Yh that’s kinda what I meant. I thought twinks are shorter and not really fit…