If you wanna talk for an hour, sure.
If you want to avoid a paper trail, absolutely not.
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Funny.. in my experience, the people who ask are the people who don't have to. They are always welcome because they understand.
Tbh people not asking (particularly discord calls for some reason) bugs me. Like I need a second to get into the right headspace for it and I don't like being surprised by a call
This is pretty close to being the new standard etiquette, and I'm all for it.
I'll take calling over receiving 10+ texts in a row any day though
You get 10+ texts in a row?
I usually respond in paragraph form and then as they're typing a reply, I panic and ghost them for another day.
If you are one of the people that asks this, please add the reason for the call.
I mean, of course you call me, any time day or night. My phone won't ring and I definitely won't answer, but you do you and call call call all you want, sweetie! How's your mama doing?
You need to give me a reason why you need to speak with me. There's very few people I actually want to talk to.
I ask to call even if the other side is one that never going to and will call with another no. after I save their no.