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The Fediverse is huge and overwhelming to a newcomer, with many different types and each with servers to pick from. Which ones would you suggest checking out or avoiding?

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[–] InTheNameOfScheddi@lemmy.world 4 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

Anyone know why the recent spike? That's not negligible.

[–] how_we_burned@lemmy.zip 1 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

Because reddit moderation has become utterly unbearable, insufferable bad.

I've been using BBSs, newsgroups, MIRC, ICQ, a million ass forums and social media for almost 40 years now.

I've never been banned from anywhere on the net (and before).

And yet in the last three months I've been temp banned 3 times on reddit. All for their AI moderation systems misunderstanding Australian colloquialisms as threatening violence.

It's utter bullshit.

People are leaving reddit as a result.

[–] NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 1 points 5 hours ago

"Toss some shrimp on the barbie"

What? Is this Aussie for kill CEOs?? Banned.

[–] Cantaloupe877@lemmy.world 3 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago)

https://lemmy.world/post/43035743/22099833 Apparently old forum software was updated to use the federation and all the old users got tallied up and added. Also people flocking from Reddit and X too.

[–] Eh_I@lemmy.world 4 points 21 hours ago
[–] Lor@mander.xyz 8 points 1 day ago

One that is not blocked by a lot of other instances....

[–] epicshepich@programming.dev 12 points 1 day ago

Even for things we're excited about, truncating the y-axis is never okay 😕

[–] Corporal_Punishment@feddit.uk 8 points 1 day ago (3 children)

For someone entirely new to this, please ELI5 why it matters?

Entirely at random I signed up at feddit.uk

Does it mean I'm walled off from specific content? Am I in a dead part of the fediverse? And how do I change if I am.

It doesn't. Pick whatever instance and if another catches your eye make an account there as well. You don't have to limit yourself to one account on one instance. I started on feddit.de, then lemm.ee now hexbear and use this account to see some posts I wouldn't from hexbear since they have more of a safe space mentality than this instance

[–] Skavau@piefed.social 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Okay, so it matters for a few reasons.

  1. Instances have different rules. So you can banned by your own instances local admins for things you might not get banned for on other instances.

  2. If you wanted to make your own community, you'd automatically be hosting it on feddit.uk, so that matters to a degree when it comes to the local culture there.

  3. Instances have their own blocklists. So your instance might be blocking (defederating) another instance that has a lot of users. Or it might just as likely be blocked by another instance. This isn't the case for feddit.uk, which maintains wide federation.

Feddit.uk specifically is a UK based lemmy. If you look up the local communities, you can see that is the geographical/cultural focus.

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[–] nutsack@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I joined this one because the main one was defederating a whole bunch of pirate ones and that makes no goddamn sense. thanks 👍

mods will be like hey let's make it so our users can't access stuff. that makes sense. I bet that's what they want. they want to not have access to things. they think it's good

smart and federal

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago

.world is squeamish about upsetting corpos because they're the biggest instance.

[–] timestatic@feddit.org 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Why are there so many people coming here allegedly from this chart starting with this year

[–] The_Almighty_Walrus@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

For me at least, reddits ban bot has gotten way too sensitive and the reviewers don't actually read the appeal. I got a permaban for "threatening violence" just saying the word "kill" in context of a cat hunting birds, tried to appeal and immediately got a notification that the ban won't be reversed, because they obviously didn't read the comment that triggered the ban.

So now I'm here

[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 1 day ago (9 children)

Blahaj.zone we're chill AF here

[–] Psythik@lemmy.world 15 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I don't like that you can't downvote, though.

OHHH THAT'S why Voyager gives me an error.

Sigh, these are the things rhat might drive people away from Lemmy and Piefed. Lemmy devs are tankies, Piefed devs are weirdly puritanical, and instances won't tell you they don't allow downvotes.

[–] Flames5123@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Exactly. I look at downvotes on articles as a kind of fact curator. If an article has 50/50, you know it’s gotta be wrong.

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Ah, well that would explain why Voyager kept giving errors every time I tried

[–] Inkstainthebat@pawb.social 3 points 1 day ago

Wait what that's not a thing on blahaj??

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[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 52 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (2 children)

Just FYI everyone, this spike is sort of a glitch and its quite obvious just from looking at how steep the curve is. It all comes from nodebb which is a forum software and i guess they switched on federation on 11.01.2026 which gave us this magical bump.

They are real users probably, but what i mean is that this wasnt a rush of new users, but just old (mostly inactive) users that were never considered part of the fediverse until now.

https://nodebb.fediverse.observer/dailystats

[–] spaduf@slrpnk.net 2 points 22 hours ago

On a slightly different note NodeBB is very cool and worth checking out. Did those unaware it's a Goodreads, Letterboxd, Steam Reviews, etc all rolled into one.

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