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Starting in early March, the platform will place every account into a default "teen-appropriate" experience unless it has proof that users are adults.

The move has brought widespread criticism from Discord users, who are citing privacy and security concerns following a recent breach of a third-party vendor that ended up exposing around 70,000 government ID images used to verify the age of Discord users.

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[–] gwl@lemmy.blahaj.zone 30 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Sadly I think the end result of this won't be people leaving discord, but people giving up liberties because it's easier than fighting it

And they're banking on that, it's part of why they intentionally gave zero warning...1 month is nothing.

With more time a dedicated set of people could pull the alternatives up into solid real options

Or kick up such a huge ruckus that discord back down and undo it.

This was a very intentional and malicious choice to go "oh, yeah we're doing this next month, kthnxbye"

[–] Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 3 points 2 days ago

Fundamentally the problem with leaving discord is no other platform has fucking remotely any kind of quality of life close to discord. Matrix is a flaming pile of shit that basically is an insult the very concept of user friendlyness. It also is missing about 70% of the features your avg gamer/internet deweller actually wants.

Teamspeak 6 is a barely functional trash heap that still doesn't have a bunch of quality of life your avg normie expects. There's been open feature requests for years that are unlikely to ever manifest.

Stoat is a half finished poorly managed train wreck that would be good if the devs actually had anything resembling a decent pace of development. Feels like Wayland moves faster then them for basic functions they should have had two years ago.

Discord is basically 5 apps in one and you can't convert people to go from 1 universal app back to like 5. It just won't happen.

You need actual cross platform support for voice chat on desktop ios and android, text chat, screen and window sharing, gifs, emojis, dms, group chats and THEY HAVE TO BE SIMPLE AND UNDERSTANDABLE to computer illiterate normies.

And that's just the basics. People expect customization and personalization. You need to be able to jump around, colab, hop in and out of calls and basically have digital mobility. Which while it sucks from the outside. Inside discords walled gardens it's a VERY open space.

Matrix gets close but it's just so user unfriendly and 90% of clients have one or the other half of the feature set people expect.

It's just a mess.

Anyone with sense saw this coming when they did the same thing in Australia and the UK but I otherwise agree with your point. I think this is a very calculated move.

When the deadline gets here in a month, 80% of the group that would’ve migrated out of disgust won’t be affected because they just use Discord for group voice chats anyway, and the competition isn’t ready. The rest have been trained to put their personal info out there to anyone who asks for it. And, when (not if) they eventually roll out “IDs for Everyone”, the outrage won’t be nearly as detrimental to their bottom line because it’s already happened before.

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[–] bearboiblake@pawb.social 236 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (12 children)

Discord age restrictions prevent an underage user from viewing - but not sending - nude pictures.

This isn't to protect kids. It's to enforce increasingly authoritarian control over the web.

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[–] radau@lemmy.dbzer0.com 49 points 3 days ago (7 children)

Maybe people will finally realize discord isn't the place for your projects documentation to exist

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[–] Cantaloupe877@lemmy.world 23 points 3 days ago (6 children)

I could just be me being a doomer, but I doubt any significant exodus will happen. People really about to drop discord? Right…

[–] imetators@lemmy.dbzer0.com 9 points 3 days ago

I'm with you.

Considering that age verification will only be mandatory to browse NSFW content, and that without it you can still join servers and keep calling during gameplay as per usual, my bet is that exodus won't happen. There is going to be part of people who will verify, and the unverified half either gonna leave or keep using discord just without NSFW.

Reddit exodus, unfortunately, barely had any impact. Bluesky had a good influx of new users, but it didnt kill xitter. Doubt that there anything going to happen with discord.

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[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

This is the part, young-but-becoming-wise friends, where the company doesn't give a shit about you and starts to prey on children, who, for a while, become very lucrative.

The chances of discord pushing ahead anyway, even with this very public outcry, is still 50/50.

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[–] absquatulate@lemmy.world 124 points 4 days ago (17 children)

Discord probably did the math and are willing to take a hit to the user counts (much like reddit did when they closed the apis), as the vast majority will stay and keep "threatening" to leave. There's at least the hope that the ones who quit now will establish communities elsewhere, on a (hopefully) better server platform.

[–] random_character_a@lemmy.world 95 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Enshittification is not single step. It's more a "boiling a frog"-kinda process.

[–] dukemirage@lemmy.world 55 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Discord itself was a big step of enshittification from the very start when communities moved from individual platforms to Discord servers.

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[–] vikinghoarder 41 points 4 days ago (2 children)

It probably also says something of the ones that stay: they can keep getting further exploited. And these are the ones they want.

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[–] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 49 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Why do adults have to suffer because parents don’t know how to control their kids?

[–] NotMyOldRedditName@lemmy.world 78 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Because it's not actually about the kids, the kids are just the excuse. That's all they ever are.

[–] spicehoarder@lemmy.zip 30 points 3 days ago

Do it, pussies. I remember when sites would actually topple when they made poor decisions.

[–] MalReynolds@slrpnk.net 79 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Here's hoping this gets more software off the discord support teat. No, you do not need real time chat, you need searchable, permanent presence. Discord support is such a red flag I immediately move on even if it's OSS. If you can't do real doco and you can't stand up a forum (Discourse is nice I hear) then what chance do you have of being competent.

Also, IPO incoming, expect it to get worse.

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[–] NewNewAugustEast@lemmy.zip 40 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] Scrollone@feddit.it 24 points 3 days ago

Yeah, I agree. I hope Discord both fails as a company and as a concept.

Information siloed inside a non-easily searchable interface? No thank you.

[–] anomnom@sh.itjust.works 47 points 3 days ago (21 children)

Good! locking away potentially helpful Q&A, discussions, and guides on Discord is fucking stupid.

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[–] LifeLikeLady@lemmy.world 35 points 3 days ago (5 children)

TIL people actually pay for nitro lol.

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Im currently at the point where I have such a presence on Matrix that I could genuinely delete my discord account

[–] Swemg@lemmy.world 52 points 4 days ago

Account deleted. Fuck em. Was already pissed with their restrictions with nitro.

[–] Babalugats@feddit.uk 41 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (12 children)

Worried about the children while protecting thousands of paedophiles that raped children. (The governments, not discord)

Regardless, fuck discord and instead of "threatening" an exodus, why doesn't everybody register with xmpp or mumble and figure it out from there. Crazy staying on discord from here on.

[–] CardboardVictim@piefed.social 35 points 4 days ago (4 children)

The problem is finding a good alternative immediately. I don't mind to hop and check out multiple services, but some of my friends wants to just install one thing and be done.

My checklist is not too much either, but for some reason video calling is not something included with the lot of them.

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[–] muhyb@programming.dev 30 points 3 days ago (8 children)
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