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[–] doug@lemmy.today 10 points 4 days ago (5 children)

My blood pressure goes through the roof when I play Dead by Daylight and go up against a toxic killer.

Similarly, it goes through the roof when I see a Trump flag up at my neighbor’s house.

My blood pressure ain’t doin’ so well these days.

On top of that, you have any idea how hard it is to stay under the advised daily value of sodium? It’s less than a teaspoon! Tortilla? 20% of your sodium. Bagel? 20%. Any veggie patty substitute? Vegetable bouillon? Tamari or soy sauce?

Ye gods man I’m gonna burst!

…exercise I got on lock tho, so that’s nice.

…and don’t tell me to stop playing Dead by Daylight. It’s the only multiplayer game I can play where I have more than a coin toss’s chance of winning.

…though maybe I should just switch to something chill like an mmo 😔

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Gah, do I feel this. One of the reasons I really like my new neighborhood is that I never see any of those fucking flags. I see Ukraine flags, Palestine flags, rainbow flags, and signs that say "Black Lives Matter" and "Fascists not welcome." A walk around the neighborhood makes me happier now than it did when I lived in the suburbs, even though my mom worries about me being in the sCaRy CiTy.

One glance around, and I know my neighbors are all right. I'm home.

[–] doug@lemmy.today 2 points 4 days ago

tbf the Trump neighbor is flanked on all sides by LGBTQ+ and other progressive flags, he’s just very loud about his with a flag pole and everything. It’s the burbs of PDX, so it’s a little purple, but not by much.

[–] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 days ago (2 children)

The recommended levels of sodium are trash, newer evidence is showing that 2000mg is perfectly fine. More if you sweat

[–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It's fine for me, with a much lower blood pressure. I actually require separate salt intake sometimes (apart from the salt I add when cooking), if I am cycling for a little longer.

[–] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Not sure who downvoted you, I drink at least 2000mg supplemental sodium daily, more if I'm sweating. When I go out for a big day I'll go through 3 liquid IV and as many bottles of plain water.

[–] ulterno@programming.dev 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Not sure who downvoted you,

Noone did.


While my supplemental sodium is less than 2g, my overall Sodium intake is easily more than that.
I add enough salt to my food that it enhances the taste of whatever is being cooked. Specially, the diced tomato stays with ~ 0.5g of salt for the ~15 minutes it is kept before adding it to the pan. Then if I am going out and cycling a bit, depending upon my level of fatigue, I might use 1/2 a packet of ORS at a time, with a max total of 1.5 whole packets (and that is pushing it) if I am needing it more than once a day. If I need more, I go with lemonade with black-salt.

[–] JoeBigelow@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 days ago

I have upvoted both of your comments back to 1. I can't be bothered to check the modlog

[–] doug@lemmy.today 2 points 4 days ago

well my blood pressure is a little high and I’m trying to get it back down to healthy levels ‘cause I’d rather not let it get away from me.

I’m also trying to get back into mediation, but it’s just so boring.

[–] kindnesskills@literature.cafe 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Try reframing what constitutes toxicity in DBD. I know it really helped me when i started voice acting as the killer with a goofy voice. I don't know what you consider toxic, but some suggestions: killer voice being all lovey-dovey when hitting on hook and face camping, celebratory like a kid someone let win in cards when ground humping, "excuse me maam, you dropped your wallet, hello hello, excuse me!" increasingly desperately when tunneling, etc.

And close end game chat before reading it.

[–] doug@lemmy.today 1 points 4 days ago

That’s a great suggestion, thanks.

My other option has been to play as the killer, which to me is much less upsetting because it feels like I’m in charge of the experience. Sure there can be toxic survivors, but they’re much more ignorable, and I’m good enough at the game without having to tunnel or camp that they rarely complain when I win.

…plus uh, I play a lot and I take notes on the toxic ones, so I know what to expect and how to treat them.

[–] The_Hideous_Orgalorg@sh.itjust.works 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Have you tried Factorio or Satisfactory?

[–] doug@lemmy.today 1 points 4 days ago

No, but they’re on my wishlist.

I like multiplayer games where I’m playing with strangers and maybe some competition. My buddies are trying to get me into Arc Raiders, so I might try that.

If I could just play Skyrim or something like it and there be a 2% chance of running into someone— but the game doesn’t tell me a stranger has joined— I think that’d do it for me.

I was fortunate enough to play Journey on launch day and that’s bar none my most treasured multiplayer memory.

That DbD thing is extremely relatable.

That just got me diagnosed with BPD ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[–] Zugyuk@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I had/have this bad. I was only diagnosed recently, and looking back i can see clearly when i was being nutty. I have used this to help others i see with a similar reaction 😅. It's all i can do to help

[–] NotJohnSmith@feddit.uk 2 points 3 days ago

Not been diagnosed but absolutely lost my shit recently when friends mugged me off playing tennis, I don't even care about the result.

I need to go get help

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[–] Routhinator@startrek.website 5 points 4 days ago

2025 was exhausting... 2026 moreso. This is why, right here.

[–] aturtlesdream@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Following rules generally for me. There is a parking lot near me where people insist on parking the wrong way (people park opposite the way if traffic on both side of the lane way think parking the wrong way on a one way street) and it makes me so angry every time I shop in the area. I even tried to mention it in a community Facebook group and was told to shut up and mind my own buisness

[–] mic_check_one_two@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I feel this. My job is surrounded by one-way streets, with angled back-in parking everywhere. So you don’t even need to parallel park, you just back into the spots to park, and then pull straight out (matching the direction of traffic on the one-way street) when you leave. It’s literally all the best parts of parallel parking, with none of the downsides.

We regularly have people pull u-turns on the one-way streets to park nose-in. No amount of signs have helped, because you can’t make people read. It’s a ticketable offense, (same as if you had parallel parked facing the wrong direction on a one-way street) and the local PD regularly makes sweeps every few hours to check… And they’ll easily ticket 10-20 people on busy days. There have even been instances where the cop was standing there writing a ticket for it, when someone pulled in right next to them. And then they’d argue with the cop that they should be allowed to park however they want.

At first, seeing people swing super wide to pull into the spots would piss me off. Then for a while it was amusing, because I knew I’d get to see them rage about the ticket on their windshield while I sit in my office. But now it’s just disappointing. Like every time I see it, I lose a little more faith in humanity. The old joke about “make something idiot-proof and they’ll invent a better idiot” always rings true.

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[–] obinice@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Here's looking at you, Odo

[–] mycodesucks@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago
[–] Angelevo@feddit.nl 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Piercing through the veil.

Understanding the rules/laws/customs are created to protect the few and control the many. Part of this includes ethics that do indeed protect everyone. However, there are deliberate faults to make sure some can live outside the same framework.

Most people do not have/take the time/focus/perspective/intelligence/capability to think all of it through, outside their box/bubble.

And then there are those blessed with the curse. Next part is more difficult: turning it into actionable change. Working on that one myself; will take time.

[–] Goldholz@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 days ago

All my life here. The litteral reason why i am going into politics! That plus my love to law texts, if only it werent for standardised texts, i would have become a laywer

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 1 points 4 days ago

Maybe for some things, but not entirely true for me.

[–] mavu@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 4 days ago

Yes, please, thank you.

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