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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/Razegames_123 on 2026-02-05 04:45:24+00:00.
It's my first time dating someone. My first everything, first kiss, first time touching a woman intimately, everything. We had agreed that for date 3 she would come over this saturday to watch a movie and get to know each other better (fyi we havent slept together yet), so I've been preparing for "saturday" until then.
Today we hung out, we ate some food then I took her to the park as the sun was going down and things got hot, we started making out. We started going back to my car and she suggested that she wanted to come to my place. My place is a FUGGING mess. A MESS. Absolutely no way I could let her see my apartment in this condition so I told her that it can’t be tonight, I wanna clean up a bit. She got upset, saying I was hiding a girl or something.
Lesson learned. If you are in the dating game, your place should always be "ready to go". I'm sure you guys already know that. As someone inexperienced I did not expect women would actually want to come to my place. Just a month or two ago and for the rest of my prior life I was a kissless, virgin who never touched a woman. Whats obvious to others wasnt obvious to me.
TL:DR woman im seeing wanted to come over but my place was not "guest ready"