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Many of us on platforms like this are introverts, or autistic, or have social anxiety, or for whatever reason, have trouble meeting new people or engaging with strangers. If someone wanted to engage you in conversation, what topic would you be happiest to talk about?

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[–] cepelinas@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 week ago

I know this isn't in the spirit of the post, but currently .I would like for someone to say to me why the hell is my diy soldering station is not working it responds to tempature changes but shows up as 175C but really it is 20C and when it reads 400C really it is 111C. Suspecting that t12 thermcouples really aren't K type, whyyyyyyyyyyyy???

[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago
[–] 58008@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I can't do small talk or general chat, but I can do meta. I can talk about how awkward it is to talk to strangers, for example. That feels like information exchange, as opposed to a complex two-person dance where I don't have rhythm or sufficiently-malleable limbs, which is what small talk feels like to me. The goal of small talk seems to be the process itself. If we're instead 'educating' each other about something, and that information is the ultimate goal, I'm much more comfortable.

[–] cmeu@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago
[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm just happy they want to talk to me. Unless they're drunk. If you're drunk don't talk to me. Drunk people piss me off.

[–] Jerb322@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Depends on how drunk and how well I know them. But yeah, some of them can be a real pain in the ass.

Side note, not related. I did voice to text and it spelled the last three words like ( i* t** a**)

[–] Jerb322@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Animals(pets or nature), woodworking, cars(anything with an engine), communication towers (climbing), fishing, movies,

I'm known to be a pretty good listener too, unless you ask my wife.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I've thought about it a bit. Someone talk to me about WavPack. I fucking love WavPack! It is the best lossless audio codec.

[–] JakoJakoJako13@piefed.social 2 points 1 week ago

Hobbies. Be it music, video games, tabletop games, or even sports.

[–] MojoMcJojo@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Our goodbyes

[–] mybuttnolie@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 week ago

worshipping my rooster

[–] anon_8675309@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Football, weather or politics.

/s

[–] CathyBikesBook@piefed.zip 1 points 1 week ago

Television or music.

[–] El_guapazo@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I would talk about an exit strategy to avoid a meaningful interaction, and just pretend we're having a dialogue.

[–] Brkdncr@lemmy.world -1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Many of us on platforms like this are introverts, or autistic, or have social anxiety, or for whatever reason, have trouble meeting new people or engaging with strangers

Don’t assume that everyone here has those issues.

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