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From bouncing around my favorite corners of the Internet, I get the impression that large numbers of people have "a guy" (of any gender), akin to a weed dealer in furtiveness and legality, who is hooking them up with an underground, probably Plex-based (but increasingly moving to Jellyfin), streaming service. I get the impression that there are hundreds to thousands of these little "Plex server" operations, each serving a couple dozen to a hundred or so users out of the goodness/vileness of each "guy"'s heart and the hobby budget of that "guy"'s homelab. This isn't all Plex gets used for or even necessarily the main use case, but I think they're out there.

Obviously no "guy" will admit to doing this, but my "Plex Server Guy Theory" neatly explains this post announcing that general discussions of piracy are allowed in the Lemmy.ml Plex community and this post by someone apparently serving enough new Plex user volume that a webhook would be convenient to have. I've also seen people discussing Plex refer to "my users", as if they have a user base of friends and trusted or semi-trustred acquaintances rather than just a household or family.

I personally neither have nor am a "Plex Server Guy", nor do I know anyone who has admitted to me that they do have or are one, so I can't be sure they really exist. But I have suspicions.

Are "Plex Server Guys" as I imagine them real and common and I am just too square to have ever been invited to do crimes with everyone else? Are they rare in real life but enriched in the dubious/cool corners of the Internet? Does it depend on your country? What's the deal?

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[–] Zedd00@lemmy.dbzer0.com 80 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

I am that guy. I got pissed off that there was no way to buy all of the episodes of Good Eats legally. Next thing I knew, I had a dual xeon server and 60TB of hard drives. Of the 50 or so people using my server I think 6 have servers of their own.

[–] Know_not_Scotty_does@lemmy.world 25 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Good Eats radicalized me too. Not for plex but for cooking.

[–] Zedd00@lemmy.dbzer0.com 10 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah, everyone in my family has cooked professionally for at least a few years. My wife's family lived off of microwaved food. As I was teaching her that food could have flavor, she started asking questions about cooking that were easier to answer with a clip from good eats. Eventually, I went looking for a boxed set of it, and one hadn't been released. So I spent the $600 I was willing to spend on it on a server.

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[–] Twinklebreeze@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

Did you find a good source for good eats? The only one I found was low quality TV rips.

[–] kieron115@startrek.website 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

For me it was buying star trek the next generation on blu-ray and getting annoyed with having to flip through fifty disks to watch an episode.

[–] Retro_unlimited@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

I spent forever looking for Mythbusters on DVDs, the only 2 DVDs I ever found were “collections” and not seasons. So weird they don’t want my money.

[–] deranger@sh.itjust.works 55 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

I’m a Plex server guy for friends and family, I have about a dozen users and maybe 3-4 at a time at the peaks. I charge nothing, it’s just a hobby. We’re out there.

I’d switch to Jellyfin but my users need transcoding and Plexamp is my favorite audio player since Winamp.

[–] kandykarter@lemmy.ca 32 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I'm a Jellyfin Server Guy, and same deal. Around a dozen friends & fam, no charge.

I'm not sure why needing transcoding would keep you off Jellyfin though, Jellyfin transcodes just fine.

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[–] hperrin@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Does Jellyfin not do transcoding? I’ve been using it with transcoding for almost two years, so if it doesn’t, man that’s gonna be quite the shock.

[–] db2@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago

It definitely does do transcoding.

[–] deranger@sh.itjust.works 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I dunno, maybe it didn’t when I was first setting up my server a few years back. It doesn’t have Plexamp though and that’s a deal breaker.

[–] Buffalobuffalo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

It has finamp though right

[–] deranger@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Doesn’t have the excellent Plexamp automix nor ability to add all my friends shares to my radio stations.

I appreciate the efforts but I’m very happy with my current setup. It works, it’s almost zero maintenance, and I got lifetime plex pass for like $50 years ago.

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[–] thermal_shock@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

I'm that guy as well, but can't get family to use it. So when they complain they can't stream something, I just ignore them. I do it for myself, they just get it because. But I'm not going to keep offering, fuck it. Go spend your money on shitty streaming services. I've got 7000 movies now and almost 300 series.

[–] deranger@sh.itjust.works 17 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

I’m specifically doing this to get family and friends to cancel their streaming subscriptions. Not to save them money, to hurt the corporations more than I can do just myself.

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[–] owenfromcanada@lemmy.ca 21 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I can't say how many people are trying to make money on it, but there are plenty of folks running Plex or Jellyfin servers that they'll allow friends and family to access. And I would estimate that a fairly low percentage of those have no pirated content on them. So even for the small-group servers, discussions of piracy are often relevant.

I do run a Jellyfin server, but only locally on my own network.

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[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 18 points 2 weeks ago

Depends what industry you're in, I guess

I'm in tech and there are more Plex guys than people looking for Plex guys

[–] BigDaddySlim@lemmy.world 17 points 1 week ago

I am Plex Guy, my friend is Plex Guy, between the 2 of us we share our servers to over a dozen people. My mom and grandma use my server in another state, I don't charge anyone access. In total I have 8 users on my server, my friend has probably the same on his, with both of us giving access to a different friend meaning he has access to double the amount of content.

I got absolutely fed up with subscription services raising prices and removing content (I only ever had Hulu and Netflix) so I just built my own service. My only subscription now is a Tidal family plan for myself, my wife and my mom.

Also it's interesting how between these 2 servers, they're built differently. I built mine using TrueNAS and housed it in a dedicated PC case large enough for all the drives, my buddy made his as a Windows server, and has everything wall mounted with custom 3D printed brackets.

Also, when I go to Brazil for vacation, my content isn't region locked, it's at home in a box on my living room that I just access with no VPN or any bullshit needed.

[–] ultranaut@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago

I have a Plex server guy. He is one of my oldest and best friends although we don't get to hang out much anymore. I know he has other friends he shares the Plex server with but I have no idea who or how many. I've been using it since Plex was new, not sure how long exactly but more than a decade. I occasionally buy him nice hard drives because the library is ridiculously huge and always growing. As someone who loves weird and obscure shit, it's my favorite streaming service by far and he's my hero for running it.

[–] Darkassassin07@lemmy.ca 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

👋

Most of us run systems for friends, family, even a few coworkers; but there are those out there that sell access to their systems to anyone willing to pay. This is explicitly forbidden by the TOS of Plex/Emby, and I'm pretty sure Jellyfin as well (haven't checked that one), but it still happens.

There's even tools like Ombi to automatically manage requests from users passing them to Radarr/Sonarr to be retrieved.

!selfhosted@lemmy.world

[–] Anafabula@discuss.tchncs.de 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Jellyfin doesn't have a TOS, it's open source license allows using the software in any way you want

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[–] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 weeks ago

I mean, Kaity and I run a Jellyfin server for our family to access, as well as a couple of friends. But that's about as public as it gets...

[–] agavaa@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

I have a Plex guy. He runs a server and invites anyone he considers a friend, but also gives access to most who ask. He has a giant rig that costs him a lot in electricity bills. But he doesn't mind and doesn't want any money, because he's a sweet person and it's just something he does.

Edit: I'm in Europe; also he always honors requests.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I was the Plex guy until all my non-paying family members embraced being fascist dicks. Enjoy paying $200/month in shitty subscriptions, dicks.

[–] agavaa@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago

Hell yeah, ethical Plex guy!

[–] menas@lemmy.wtf 10 points 1 week ago

In a lot of countries, you could legally share copyrighted content to your "private and relative" circle. So it's not actually illegal. Your theory seems correct, even if we do have ftp-siblings too

[–] NABDad@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I run an Emby server, but just for family. Two of my kids use it, one doesn't. I posted previously that my daughter doesn't have anything that can play a DVD, but she still gets them and I add them to my server so she can watch them.

I added my parents to it, and they watched some stuff, but they can't remember how to use it. Every time I show them, my dad will watch things for a few days, then he forgets how.

I appear to be unique among the people running streaming servers in that I only add things if I own the DVD (or if they're in the public domain). I also only have about 1300 movies.

I visit thrift stores to get cheap DVDs. There's one near me that charges $1/DVD, but they have a 50% off sale on the last weekend of every month.

I'm trying to be more particular about what I add. I had started thinking that for 50¢, I can buy a shittier movie, but now I'm only getting the movie if I know it's worth it, or if it's got > 7 IMDB rating.

Today's haul included True Grit (the remake), Capote, and Ready Player One.

[–] ComradeMiao@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

Plenty of sub 7 IMDb cult classics :) you’re missing out

[–] bamboo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 weeks ago

Good on you, but I would never pirate Ready Player One, let alone pay $0.50 for it.

[–] trk@aussie.zone 10 points 2 weeks ago

I'm a Plex guy. I share my library because it's a bit of fun and scratches my IT interest itch. I actually run Plex and Jellyfin in parallel but pretty much everyone prefers the Plex interface (and most smart TVs have it ready to go, even the silly ones with off brand app stores).

Mostly it's just an excuse to play with cool toys, and a reason to work out how to run things I wouldn't otherwise bother with.

I've always downloaded stuff, since the dialup days. Originally it was for things that were region locked / "unrated" in Australia and thus not available... but now it's just so much more convenient than paid options that it's a no-brainer. Like I literally can't pay any legit service for the level of access and convenience I have now.

It's not even about money anymore. Between the purchase price and power consumption of my dual Xeon rack server and JBOD, the 1000/400Mbps fibre connection, and the time I spend on it I'm paying enough to cover half a dozen subscriptions or so with change... But the convenience! I can watch anything, anywhere, on any device. No jumping between services to find stuff, no episodes/movies going missing, no login restrictions, no player that won't work because your HDMI cable is lacking a decimal place or whatever the hell they're doing now.

Anytime someone we know in real life complains about having issues with their legitimate streaming service I offer access to Plex. I think there's 40ish users, but only a dozen or so that use it with any real frequency. Maybe 4-5 concurrent streams at peak times, outside of that is usually occasionally the work from home "workers" / the night shift people, or me streaming music at work or similar. I think the most I've had is 7 or 8 at once.

[–] remon@ani.social 9 points 2 weeks ago

I'm a plex guy and I know a bunch of other plex guys. There is dozens of us!

[–] fiendishplan@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

I'm a jellyfin guy. I share with roughly 6 friends just for fun.

[–] CallMeAl@piefed.zip 9 points 2 weeks ago

yes but usually at the family and friends distribution level

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 weeks ago

I just wanted to be able to watch my movies on the TV. And then…I have like a dozen users with only 1-3 accessing the server at any given time. Now it is something special. I seriously need to get a NAS.

[–] djdarren@piefed.social 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I've ditched all streaming services in favour of a friend's 40tb Plex server, running from the server room of the university where he works. It's rock solid and has everything I want to watch.

Anything he can't find, or that I personally want my own access to goes in my own Jellyfin server.

It's great. Better than spending £50 a month on a couple of services.

[–] bamboo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Sounds like a great way to get fired from a job. Mirror as much as you can from him while he still has it up, but also probably limit it so that the bandwidth doesn't raise any alarms.

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[–] cobwoms@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 weeks ago

i love this post

[–] GaMEChld@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

I am the Plex guy in my group of friends and family. I think there's probably a bit of confirmation bias at play. Being on Lemmy alone puts you into a niche area of Internet already, which is going to make hearing about geeky things like home labs more common.

So yes, they exist.

My ex is 'the guy' for mine and my sister hooked me up with her friend so now I have two of them. It's glorious like the old days of copying Netflix DVDs and buy-copy-resell at Hastings. I haven't paid for streaming in forever.

[–] Thoven@lemdro.id 7 points 1 week ago

Me and a relative jointly host and manage a server. Over the years we've slowly allowed in a handful of trusted friends and family. By now we probably have 20ish connected. Most use it as a supplement to their main streaming services, primarily used for exclusive content like the star wars shows. Some, like those of us hosting, have cancelled every streaming service and use it exclusively.

[–] LiveLM@lemmy.zip 6 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Yes, there's even a subreddit dedicated to people advertising their Plex servers. Lots of them are paid, it's wild.

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