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I suppose it would be mostly practical skills, cooking, fixing things. Usually had to be done by people themselves.

Maybe also mental things like navigating (with or without paper map) and remembering their daily and weekly agendas.

What other things would be a big difference with the people today?

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[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 120 points 2 weeks ago (21 children)

Navigating a paper map.

You want to drive to a suburb of a big city. You have an address. The internet doesn't exist.

How do you get there? Well. You use a map. Almost every glove box would have a local and state map, if not a full map book like a Thomas brothers.

[–] UnspecificGravity@piefed.social 26 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (7 children)

Even more scarce is the ability to navigate a city by simply understanding it's road system. Give me an address in my home city (a labyrinthine nightmare to visitors) and I can just drive there without looking at a map. It's practically a party trick now that I can tell where people live by just hearing their address. Which sounds absurd until you realize they no one ever needs to do that anymore.

[–] deadbeef79000@lemmy.nz 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Road networks in most cities in my country are like someone just dropped a pot of spaghetti. The oldest urban areas here are at most 150 years old too, so it's not like we can blame the Romans.

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[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

You should become a cabbie in London. They all have to memorise 320 routes, 25,000 streets and 20,000 places of interest, e.g. hotels, stations, tourist attractions and so on. It's called The Knowledge. There's some evidence that mastering The Knowledge actually alters the structure of the brain!

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[–] tensorpudding@lemmy.world 82 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)
[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net 15 points 2 weeks ago

I feel like it's still important to remember the numbers of some important contacts, so you can actually call them using somebody elses phone if yours dies or breaks. But I suppose not many people would bother

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Lol, not only do I memorize phone numbers of family members, I did my parents taxes so often, I can memorize the social security numbers of all my household members and all their birthdates.

Also I still remember addresses I used to live in.

[–] wreckedcarzz@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Mmmm, interesting, can you list off that data along with your mother's maiden name? It's uh for a friend...

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[–] tomselleck@sopuli.xyz 56 points 2 weeks ago (13 children)

If you knew how to drive, you most likely knew how to use a manual transmission.

[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net 25 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

This one depends on where you live, I suppose. In some european countries it's still quite common to learn to drive with a manual.

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[–] AshMan85@lemmy.world 51 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
[–] LodeMike@lemmy.today 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

This is such a good thing. Whenever I look at cursive writing it's indecipherable. It being included in school curriculums really feels like someone went "no I'm good at writing! Cursive writing is good! Children need to learn it, in fact."

[–] pelespirit@sh.itjust.works 17 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Do you mean that you can't read it at all? It's really close to lettering, it's just got swoopies attached to most letters. There are only around 4 that you have to know how they're different, but the rest are super similar.

[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net 17 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

This is definitely dependent on the person writing. Some cursive is illegible, others is totally fine.

[–] klymilark@herbicide.fallcounty.omg.lol 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I mean, some non-cursive is totally illegible. My print is pretty bad, but my cursive is fine

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[–] jet@hackertalks.com 44 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Meeting up with people, no phone. You arrange a place and a time, and you show up, if the other person isn't there... You wait.

It was super important not to leave people hanging

[–] caurvo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Recently I have started having to ask hours before a plan is meant to execute, whether the other parties are still attending. Three times out of four I've been cancelled on - forgot, too busy, whatever the reasons were.

When was I meant to find out? When I called you asking how far away you are, only to find you're not coming at all?

[–] jet@hackertalks.com 15 points 2 weeks ago

Basically, those people were not going with you. I wouldn't consider them your friends. Friends would at least tell you they are bailing so you don't go

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[–] UnityDevice@startrek.website 40 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Apparently recognizing and handling fascists.

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[–] RegularJoe@lemmy.world 40 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Using a card catalog at the library to look up books.

[–] Hamartia@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago

I worked in a private library that still had it's card catalogue up until 2005. People were always ripping out the cards (there was something like a metal knitting needle that passed through a punched hole in each card to stop idiots from destroying the catalogue, so the gobshites ripped them out instead).

The early digital catalogues weren't great so the old card system persisted.

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[–] notsosure@sh.itjust.works 34 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Idling away the time, being bored.

[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net 13 points 2 weeks ago

Doing nothing. That might be the biggest loss in the last decades.
There is just this overtone of restlessness and tension that didn't seem to be present prior.

Also connection with your local community. 50 years ago, it was basically a given. It was part of life.
Now, not so much.

[–] gigastasio@sh.itjust.works 30 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

Folks would generally have been better at mental math, or at least working it out on paper, because at the time there was some truth to the notion of “you won’t always have a calculator in your pocket.”

I personally don’t consider it bad that we rely more on this little device most of us carry everywhere now. That’s what it’s there for, and using a calculator app is going to generally give more accurate results than trying to crunch numbers in our heads anyway. At least for those of us who aren’t math wizards.

[–] bamboo@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 weeks ago

I heard an anecdote that one of the reasons older structures last longer than newer buildings was until the days of using Log Tables, engineers had to round up to the nearest values to match the values in the log table when calculating complex forces, and this rounding compounded when multiplied against other rounded values. Once computers were being used with design, you could calculate the forces exactly to minimize material costs.

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[–] klymilark@herbicide.fallcounty.omg.lol 25 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Skill most people had:

  • Sewing, at least basic sewing. Tailors were expensive, and if you just needed to shorten a pant leg, or fix a hole, you just sewed it. Nowadays mending clothes is almost pointless, given they're basically made to get holes in them immediately.
  • Speaking quickly to avoid collect call fees. People would call home from a hospital phone, which would charge the receiver's bill if they accepted the call. The phone would ask for your name, and you'd say your message quickly, which lead to your parents at home getting a call from "Baby's a healthy boy" and then hanging up.

Difference: The whole world doesn't smell like cigarette smoke anymore. Even when I was a kid in the early 00s, it still smelled of cigarettes basically everywhere.

So y'know. We can't sew a patch on, or speed rap to avoid collect call fees, but at least drunk driving is illegal, and we have seatbelts

[–] TheRedSpade@lemmy.world 11 points 2 weeks ago

State your name:

Bob, the Adababyeetza boy.

[–] Wilco@lemmy.zip 23 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (8 children)

Still taught everywhere in Europe.

Fun fact: taking notes by hand helps you learn better than typing them.

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[–] worhui@lemmy.world 21 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Writing thank you cards and letters.

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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 21 points 2 weeks ago (10 children)

Reading card files in libraries.

Servicing and repairing many things in the house, but devices were far more easily diagnosed and repairable due to not being computerized. Really the “it’s broke and I gotta fix it” ability across age groups has really dried up. Doesn’t matter if it’s changing a tire on a car, or a kid having to fix a punctured tube on a bike tire to get to their friend’s house. They don’t ride anywhere for that matter. Changing brake pads. Changing the air filter in the home HVAC. People don’t do this stuff anymore.

Being bored.

Reading newspapers, books, magazines, etc. I don’t think people read as much anymore.

Hobbies. I think they’ve kinda died off, at least the physical ones. Model planes, trains, building stuff in your garage, cars, etc. Some of it’s been priced out of range or has gotten too technological for some, like cars, but manually creating something as a pastime has really disappeared.

Remembering a lot of phone numbers in your head.

I’m sure I’ll think of more, but it’s been a while since I was a kid and thought about pre-modern tech society.

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[–] 667@lemmy.radio 20 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] SolarBoy@slrpnk.net 16 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I, for one, have a great attention span. I can easily spend several hours browsing lemmy shitposts.

[–] 667@lemmy.radio 12 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

What was this in response to?

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[–] Tyrq@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Definitely more than 50 years ago, but this little piece of Americana is interesting

Families often had small nail-manufacturing setups in their homes; during bad weather and at night, the entire family might work at making nails for their own use and for barter. Thomas Jefferson wrote in a letter: "In our private pursuits it is a great advantage that every honest employment is deemed honorable. I am myself a nail maker."

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nail_(fastener)#History/

[–] Kobibi@sh.itjust.works 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Thomas Jefferson made nails for commercial profit in purpose-built workhouses on his estate. Or to be specific, his child slaves made the nails

https://www.monticello.org/encyclopedia/nailery

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[–] I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 20 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (8 children)

Operating a slide rule. Managing a menstruation belt. Navigating adult life without having your own bank account (if you were a woman in the US). Mending clothes, ironing clothes, making clothes.

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[–] CobblerScholar@lemmy.world 19 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)
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[–] jubilationtcornpone@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 weeks ago (8 children)

What other things would be a big difference with the people today?

The lack of cigarette smoke everywhere, at least in the US and probably most other developed nations. In 1965, around 43% of American adults smoked. Today, just over 11% do. You no longer have to sit in the "non-smoking" section of a restaurant that still smells strongly of stale cigarettes. They no longer put ash trays or cigarette lighters in vehicles, which were a standard feature up to at least the late 90's.

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[–] LuxSpark@lemmy.cafe 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Dialing in a TV station, with the different bands and antenna tweaking. Then keeping track what and when your shows come on.

Balancing your checkbook.

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[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago (6 children)

Remembering phone numbers.

[–] DampSquid@feddit.uk 12 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
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[–] gedaliyah@lemmy.world 16 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

I saw an interesting thing about textiles recently. Sewing and knitting were considered basic essential skills until a generation or two ago.

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[–] Jeeve65@ttrpg.network 14 points 2 weeks ago

cursive writing

[–] Echolynx@lemmy.zip 14 points 2 weeks ago

Reading cursive writing (especially from the 18th century or earlier).

[–] XeroxCool@lemmy.world 13 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

There is no significant loss in total skill with each newer generation. The paradigm is constantly shifting. Humans have always adapted and learned to manage whatever is readily available to them and how to maintain it. Your parents complain you don't know their vintage skills. You complain they aren't learning new skills. You complain younger people don't know your "necessary" (vintage) skills.

"The children now love luxury. They have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise" - some guy in 1907 summarizing Greek beliefs.

The generation that can navigate whatever it is kids navigate (flipper zero?) can't modify an OS. The generation that can modify an OS probably can't tune a carburetor. The generation that can tune a carburetor probably can't change a horse shoe. Your skills are based on what you have to do every day. As technology removes the need to manage those things, the skill is lost and new skills replace it.

[–] snooggums@piefed.world 11 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Sewing/mending and other forms of repairing worn items.

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