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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/ClassroomUnable5211 on 2026-01-29 06:32:09+00:00.
I'm a teacher (for now at least) in a small K-8 school.
We have a student who is extremely difficult. Jim has constant behavior problems, and has since he started here. At this point he'd pretty much infamous for it. He has severe ADHD, poor impulse control and probably ODD along with it, and a horrible temper.
In my opinion, he needs to have someone with him 1 on 1 at all times, to protect other students from him. As it is, we don't have the staffing to do so.
He constantly harasses and picks on other kids, especially the ones younger than him (he's 8), and no amount of redirecting, coaching, etc ever makes a difference. If you redirect him from trying to punch another kid to playing with the tether ball, he just tries to smash the tether ball into someone else. If you try to calmly explain that 'we don't treat other people unkindly' he ignores it or rolls his eyes until you're done talking. If you put him in a corner or scold him he just stands there smirking at you.
To be honest, it's incredibly infuriating. And no, I am not interested in hearing about how 'he's just a baby, he doesn't know any better, you have to teach him and have patience and on and on'. He's 8. He's old enough to know his behavior is wrong, and he does. He just doesn't care.
I don't think a week has gone by without me at least hearing about him having an incident with someone.
And for some reason, he's constantly doing it around me, or throwing things (especially rocks) at me, or trying to take my things and run off with them. I am beyond tired of this, and admin is no help of course. The kids parents seem like they're trying but they have no idea what to do with him.
Today he was recess in my block and I saw Jim start to approach a kid a grade younger than him and headed over to stop whatever was about to happen. Before I could get to them, he'd grabbed this little boys braid and ripped it right out of his head.
Another teacher came running over when the boy starting wailing. I scooped up the boy who's braid was ripped out, and told Jim very flatly that it's 'no wonder you don't have any friends. No one like's a bully' and left him with the other teacher while I took the bleeding boy to the nurse.
Apparently after I left Jim started screaming and crying about how he 'does have friends' and 'isn't a bully'. That's not true. He had no friends, no one wants to hang out with him willingly, no one wants to sit next to him in class or during activities.
I'm sure I'm going to be reprimanded at the very least for losing my temper and not being kinder or more patient with neurodivergent student. And I do know better, I knew I shouldn't be saying it when I said it.
I was just tired of it.
TLDR: I told a boy that his actions are why he doesn't have any friends and I might get in serious trouble at my job for it.