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[–] empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com 40 points 6 hours ago (5 children)

Because commercially produced lesbian porn is targeted strictly at straight dudes who think it's gay to see another man's dick.

Also because people fuck up the tags 99% of the time

[–] Holytimes@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I can think of only like 3 instances a porn side has ever had good tagging.

Ones a furry site, ones a week site and the last is a brony site.

Sfw or NSFW, doesn't matter. People can't fucking tag.

[–] LaLuzDelSol@lemmy.world 9 points 4 hours ago

https://www.intomore.com/culture/surprise-lesbian-porn-tops-the-pornhub-charts-and-women-are-the-ones-watching/

Women watch more lesbian porn then men (as a proportion of their total porn consumption). And women apparently make up 37% of the viewership on pornhub so that's a very significant amount of lesbian porn viewership, if not an outright majority.

https://www.salon.com/2017/09/17/why-does-lesbian-porn-dominate-milf-and-much-more-in-10-years-of-pornhub-data_partner/

It's not 1960 anymore

[–] fonix232@fedia.io 6 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Had a high school classmate who was "so totally not gay" he'd only watch lesbian porn so there's no dick in it.

Guess who hit my (faceless) Grindr profile up a few years after graduation for a DL hookup where he wanted to try bottoming?

[–] CarnivorousCouch@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

I had a classmate who expressed the same porn preference, although they weren't obnoxious about it, just casually mentioned it once. I remember being flabbergasted by the idea at the time, thinking that seemed like some pretty weak masculinity. Well, she came out as a trans lesbian a good few years after we graduated, and I realized I was bisexual somewhere in the same period. I guess we both figured out what we liked eventually 🤷‍♂️

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 11 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

Sometimes I want to look at two ladies

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 8 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

Me too, but I really don't want dudes to show up in my gay porn

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago (4 children)

This post made me think “if there’s lesbian porn for the male gaze, is there gay porn for the female gaze?”

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Yeah absolutely, look at fujoshis and what they're into

[–] Prime@lemmy.sdf.org 9 points 4 hours ago

Welcome to the wonderful world of yaoi

[–] baronvonj@piefed.social 2 points 4 hours ago

This post made me think “if there’s lesbian porn for the male gaze, is there gay porn for the female gaze?”

for straight women it's just the regular dude on dude gay porn. for some gay women, too.

[–] empireOfLove2@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I mean, me too, but that's beside the point

[–] KeenFlame@feddit.nu 2 points 5 hours ago

I don't think it is, i think it's right down lane

[–] DarrinBrunner@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

Gay man so deep in the closet he lives in Narnia: "Why is everything so gay?!"

[–] hayvan@piefed.world 21 points 5 hours ago

Porn terminology is from point of view of men. There are women in it = it's straight. Woman jilling = straight. Dude jacking off = gay.

[–] RickyRigatoni@retrolemmy.com 5 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

To be fair you also see man on man bisexual porn in the straight section because "it's not gay in a three-way" rule.

[–] fonix232@fedia.io 4 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Do you? I almost exclusively saw it in the gay section for some weird reason.

[–] RickyRigatoni@retrolemmy.com 2 points 3 hours ago

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