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[–] MonkderVierte@lemmy.zip 4 points 4 hours ago

It eats too much time (and money).

[–] SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 7 hours ago (4 children)

Don't get into woodworking if you have a compulsion to achieve accurate, precise results because wood is fiddly as fuck.

OR

DO get into woodworking if you have a compulsion to achieve accurate, precise results because it will burn that shit right out of you If you don't die from an aneurysm first. It'll teach you to build all sorts of wiggle room into everything in life, not just furniture.

People will think what you made was amazing, that it took so much skill.

Nope.

Only you know how you put everything together loosely, then tightened screws incrementally while adjusting clamps and smacking it with a rubber mallet until it looked right. There are pilot holes they can't see that don't go anywhere. You definitely missed gluing something important. You might have weighted a piece with epoxy and cat litter because you forgot to buy weights, it was 3 am, and you were unintentionally high as balls on stain fumes, but you really wanted to finish in time to surprise your partner for their birthday.

They don't know, they'll never know, and they don't need to know.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 1 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

That's my dream, except I want to complicate it by building guitars. So it actually has to work, not just look like it might.

[–] fiendishplan@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

Don't forget the thousands of dollars in tools you'll be compelled to buy and never being able to throw out even the small piece of wood because "you might need it someday".

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 2 points 3 hours ago

"It's made outta offcuts."

[–] SoleInvictus@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

Tell me about it, and there's always something better than what you have. How to be smart about buying tools deserves its own entire comment chain.

I didn't know about these until recently, but I now recommend folks check out local tool libraries to get started and see what they want or need for low to no cost.

We have a one car garage full of maintenance and fabrication tools I've acquired over my life. They've paid for themselves multiple times over in even just the last decade, but the cost and space requirements are prohibitive for a lot of folks. It's one of those "having money saves money" situations, but tool libraries can help a lot.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 3 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

My partner complimented my new shelf recently. Then she looked closer and realised it was a few boards stacked up on the cheapest engineering bricks I could find but rotated so the holes are not visible.

Only got a folding hand saw which I suspect isn't the best for making straight cuts, I had considered cutting up a railway sleeper for blocks instead of the bricks. Bricks worked out cheaper. Wooden blocks could look nice though.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 2 points 3 hours ago

Just cut pieces of wood big enough to cover the front of the bricks, and glue them on. Wood on the front, and brick on the side, will look like a cool design choice.

[–] zakobjoa@lemmy.world 3 points 6 hours ago

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[–] Zier@fedia.io 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I want to know why I have to be naked all the time. I didn't sign up for this.

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago

We tried it clothed, but the baby oil kept getting absorbed and it's impossible to find the right place to clamp.

[–] Pika@sh.itjust.works 13 points 7 hours ago (3 children)

For coding, I wish I had known that I will need to basically relearn the entire thing every 2-4 years due to frameworks and language design changes.

[–] chunes@lemmy.world 4 points 5 hours ago

This is why I only use languages and libraries that are "finished." C, Pascal, Euphoria to name a few.

[–] yoyoyopo5@lemmy.world 3 points 5 hours ago

Yep. Redesign the entire library every few weeks because you discovered a better architecture.

[–] KeenFlame@feddit.nu 2 points 6 hours ago

Absolutely isn't true though, unless you only learned JavaScript for some reason and god help you if that is what you call programming

[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 28 points 9 hours ago

Eating all the food you cook will make you fat

[–] cattywampas@lemmy.world 26 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

The correct number of guitars to own is n+1, with n being the number of currently owned guitars.

[–] DasFaultier@sh.itjust.works 9 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Same for cameras, axes and chainsaws...

[–] treadful@lemmy.zip 5 points 7 hours ago (4 children)
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[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 7 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

That those forensics chaps can find the tiniest spatters of blood on your clothes, on your skin, and inyour hair. And people make a lot of spatter.

[–] lando55@lemmy.zip 3 points 6 hours ago

Ah, a fellow taxidermist! Pleased to meet you

[–] mannycalavera@feddit.uk 28 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

Cocaine can become addictive really quickly

[–] Saapas@piefed.zip 11 points 9 hours ago

Skill issue

[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 3 points 7 hours ago

I have a pretty addictive personality and I thank the stars that I've never enjoyed coke on the handful of occasions I've tried it. It just made me feel overly talkative to the point of being annoying.

[–] saltnotsugar@lemmy.world 22 points 10 hours ago (3 children)

Warhammer 40K is what some may call…MEGA EXPENSIVE.

I remember in college, when someone would get into MTG, we'd jokingly say coke's cheaper.

Now, when someone I know gets into 40k, I much less jokingly say "MTG's cheaper"

Then again, if you're just playing for fun against friends, a $200 3d printer is cheaper than any army I've seen. Still costs more than a $45 booster draft, but at least the printer's a one-time cost

[–] Scuzzm0nkey@lemmy.world 15 points 9 hours ago

To piggy back on this, don't chase the fucking meta. By the time you get your Exaction Squad and paint it, GW will balance it into being a total waste of your time/money/points.

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[–] couldhavebeenyou@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 hours ago

The legality

[–] Magister@lemmy.world 18 points 10 hours ago

I did astronomy like 25 years ago, yes a good telescope is kind of $$$, eyepieces, etc. I wanted to do some astro-photo but back in the days it was top$. But anyway the biggest problem, being in eastern Canada, is that you can only use it at night (hé), and in winter it is so freaking cold it's almost unusable, so you only have summer where night starts at like 10PM... When you have a life, job, house, partner, house, kids, name it, you don't have time or energy for this.

So I went to RC cars, cheaper!!! can be used during the day, even for 10 minutes, not requiring a setup, just take the remote and the car, make sure the battery is charged, that's it. Buy one for the kid too, bash them, take a brand like Traxxas and you can find cheap parts everywhere for 20 years.

[–] gnomesaiyan@lemmy.world 15 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

Losing Joann's has made it really difficult to find fabric locally. Michael's needs to step their game up.

Yeah, there really hasn’t been a good alternative for fabric. Lots of people were quick to jump on the “lol join the 21st century and just buy it online” side of the argument, but buying fabric is an extremely tactile experience. You need to feel it to know that it will have the correct texture, weight, see it will hang, which direction(s) it will stretch, how much it will stretch, how easy is is to stretch, etc for what you’re trying to make, because all of those qualities will heavily impact the end product. Those things are difficult to quantify, and nearly impossible to judge purely from photos on an online listing. Two fabrics that look identical online can have vastly different weights, stretch, textures, etc…

[–] roofuskit@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Move to Chicago, we have good local stores for fabric.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 10 points 9 hours ago

It's miserable. It was such a good store, Michael's doesn't compare for fabric yet. Hoping they get as much fabric as they've been sending me emails, might get a lot then lol

[–] LeapSecond@lemmy.zip 10 points 9 hours ago

Climbing is fun but climbing outdoors requires mountains. Getting to mountains requires a car, or at least people willing to drive you.

[–] Tiger@sh.itjust.works 6 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

For cycling, more expensive parts don’t really help much. Mid range everything is fine. I don’t need clip on pedals, regular ones are great. For kayaking, anything inflatable is really slower than hard sides and it matters for the enjoyment.

[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 2 points 6 hours ago

I started with inflatable as it was super cheap. Got a rigid one now. Used it a lot before but since moving house it's a longer walk to the sea and I usually cycle there to swim instead. Would like to take the kayak out again, but it's like an hour round trip walking with a kayak to get to water, I can cycle it in under 10 minutes.

[–] Rooskie91@discuss.online 18 points 10 hours ago

In cheaper and more fun to get parts from the junk yard.

[–] compostgoblin@piefed.blahaj.zone 13 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Photosensitive polymer resin is nasty stuff, and stereolithography 3D printing requires a lot more safety considerations than FDM printing does! No regrets though, it’s still a lot of fun

[–] officermike@lemmy.world 13 points 9 hours ago

My boss pushed us to research and acquire a resin printer a couple years ago. My coworker pushed the high-budget Form Labs direction due to his poor experience with resin printing in college. I had zero experience with resin (mostly only used Prusa FDM at that time) and pushed toward the relatively low budget Anycubic Photon direction, from the standpoint of "this is really not what we need to be doing with our budget, and this doesn't make sense for our use case, so I'll try to waste less money."

Now that my coworker's been gone for over a year, my boss thinks no one uses it because we don't know how. I know how, but FDM is just so much more approachable. I can swap filaments, click print, and walk away in about two minutes and trust that I'll come back to a usable part.

Changing out resin is its own special hell, and good luck if you have a print fail and have to clean off the bottom of the tray. I didn't get to a point of trusting prints to finish. Even when it does finish, you still have to wash and cure, and every part I ever made in resin seemed to be dimensionally unstable. Even the sample parts a Form Labs rep sent us were badly warped in shipping. The Photon hasn't been used in well over a year. CEO wants us to get rid of it, and I agree. Boss isn't letting go.

Meanwhile we just got two P2S printers that are cranking out parts like a champ. I would rather take a leisurely stroll across Eastern Ukraine than print with resin ever again.

[–] toomanypancakes@piefed.world 14 points 10 hours ago (8 children)

I kinda wish I considered my social anxiety and picked a better solitairy instrument than drums. They're super fun to play, but I was only ever in one band and I'm too anxious to play with strangers right now. I just jam by myself, but I suspect I'd have an easier time actually writing music if I had more experience with melody. I tried picking up guitar and violin later, but so far I haven't had the energy to really devote the time needed to learn another instrument.

[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 3 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Guitar is difficult to learn, especially if you don't know anything about music theory.

You might want to start with a basic digital piano, and learn basic keyboard skills, and music theory at the same time. As a drummer, you have good hand independence, and will probably pick up piano pretty quickly.

Music theory is a supremely elegant system, and you may find it soothing for your anxiety.

Here's your textbook

This is really intensely packed information, but EVERYTHING you need to know about music theory is on there, especially the basic stuff. You'll find lots of great explanations on YouTube. It's a lot like mathematics, one small thing leads to another, and it all develops into an elegant complex system built on logic at every step. Most of it becomes pretty intuitive once you figure out the basics.

When you get a keyboard, make sure to get one with weighted keys, so it feels like a real piano. I got a really nice Donner on sale, and it's lasted for years.

And of course practice every day. Try to get 20-30 minutes a day, either when you first get up, or before you go to bed, or preferably both. Make it a habit, and you'll get better quickly. Keep it up and you'll get fluid at reading music, and then it gets fun. You can be there in a year. You can take up the guitar next year.

And don't worry about playing with someone else, just learn to play keyboard and you can start making your own recordings on your computer, and you only have to play with yourself. That's what I do, along with guitar and bass. I wish I played drums, I have to use pads and program drum grooves.

It's a lifetime journey, have fun!

[–] GrantUsEyes@lemmy.zip 1 points 27 minutes ago* (last edited 26 minutes ago)

This resource is awesome, thanks for sharing!!

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[–] lady_maria@lemmy.world 11 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

I wish I'd known how much pot space fruits and veggies need to thrive. Indeterminate tomatoes are supposed to have at least like 20 gallons.

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