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Basically what I mean is, did you also come here from reddit?

I came here after I got my Reddit account banned permanently. And the thing is, I don't exactly know why I got banned. Nor what I did wrong. I always tried to follow the rules, post and comment appropriately and nicely, but on New Year's Day last week, I got a message simply saying "Your account have been permanently banned for violating the rules.

But when I replied asking what rule or rules I unknowingly broke, they just messaged me back saying "you got banned because you violated the community guidelines". So now I'm here.

What about you? Are you also a Reddit Refugee?

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[–] Zamboni_Driver@lemmy.ca 22 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

... Every single person on Lemmy is a Reddit refugee. You're not going to find a single person here who has not used Reddit before.

[–] Sine_Fine_Belli@lemmy.world 5 points 9 hours ago

Yeah, same here

[–] SnarkoPolo@lemmy.world 9 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Same here. Permanently banned from all of Reddit, and I was never told why. I suspect it was my criticism of the Orange One. I appeal every day, just to give them a little more paperwork.

[–] Sine_Fine_Belli@lemmy.world 3 points 9 hours ago

Yeah, I’m banned from Reddit too

[–] YeahIgotskills2@lemmy.world 6 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

Truth is, regardless of how fucked that platform is, I still resent being banned and the insane extent to which they prevent you returning. The use of throwaways was entirely normal back in the day, now it's called 'ban evasion'. It's nearly impossible (or at least super-tedious) to get back on once they kick you off. It just seems like such an extreme over-reaction. Permanent bans are insane. I've seen people get barred from pubs after drunken violence, but that's usually only for a year or so. This is basically forever.

I was on there for over a decade and posted in multiple communities all the time. Had a load of karma and rarely got into any aggressive arguments. Then one day I upset a mod for complaining about a removed post, that apparently contravened some petty rule. I'm banned from the sub. I use another account, they found out it was me I'm permanently banned. 12 years of contribution just forgotten, all because of some vindictive little basement dwelling prick.

[–] itisileclerk@lemmy.world 6 points 11 hours ago (2 children)

I came here and leave Reddit forever because I am trying to use less US products and services. Right now I don't know how to bypass Microsoft and Google. Everything else is easy (like forgetting about Reddit or not drinking Coca Cola).

[–] seshcobar@sh.itjust.works 1 points 8 hours ago

If you can afford and are not relying on games get a mac. I mean it's still US but it is soooo much better and less enshitticated than windows. Regarding Google you can switch to a European cloud use duckduckgo or stuff for search, there are plenty foss alternatives to maps and for YouTube you can check out grayjay. It's a bit tedious but it's possible and as convenient as big tech products

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 1 points 9 hours ago

It's also really nice not to have a continuous doom scroll. You can really only go for like an hour on the front page here until the places start becoming really esoteric. I'm which case not interesting or very interesting. But it's not active enough to provide you with a whole day of gloom. And I kinda like that.

[–] ViperActual@sh.itjust.works 7 points 13 hours ago

I'm also here from the API thing. This scratches the itch for me and that's more than enough in this day and age.

[–] RonniePickering@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

Dozens of us!

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 5 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I got banned for low key implying there's a genocide going on in Gaza.

Not even stating it.

Just implying it.

"antisemitism, permaban"

That was in 2023 iirc

[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

one of my accounts got banned for offering an explanation of somebody else's thought process. I was "advocating violence" or some shit like that, apparently

because I offered my best take at what might have been going through this person's head for why they took a particular action.

mods & admins are all dumb cunts. not my subs, though, my mods were cool, obviously

[–] Dasus@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

because I offered my best take at what might have been going through this person's head

Empathy..?

[–] callyral@pawb.social 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

They killed 3rd party apps, I didn't wanna use their app, so I switched to something else and that something else happened to be Lemmy. Turns out, Lemmy is even better than Reddit in many ways.

[–] bluemite@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Exactly the same for me. As soon as RIF was done, I was done.

[–] Iunnrais@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago

When Reddit killed Apollo, I no longer had the means to use Reddit— I’d rather not have Reddit than use the Reddit app.

Unlike so many people here, I have nothing against centralized social media, and I actively miss it— I miss having a large user base to talk with, I GREATLY miss all the specialize niche communities I followed. But it’s not good if I can’t access them.

Yes, the centralized nature of Reddit means that one person can fuck up the entire community… but decentralization means I have no one to talk to about the things I want to.

Anyway. I’m here hoping that enough people will eventually join that I can have MY Reddit back. I’m frustrated that the place is so tankie infested though, and fear that’s greatly holding it back.

[–] Purple_drink@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

Another one here for the API exodus 👍

[–] Smokeless7048@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I quit the big R when they killed third party apps.

Would have paid them a monthly fee to use my app,but the way they killed them really soured me on Reddit. Burned my account, and moved on

[–] hapablap@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 day ago

Banning third party apps was the symptom. The root cause was Reddit going public. The lust for cash ruined Reddit for a lot of people.

[–] Mesa@programming.dev 1 points 1 day ago

Same (I wouldn't have paid Reddit, but I did donate to boost), but this comment was funny because "The Big R" is what my friend and I call Roblox.

[–] higgsboson@piefed.social 13 points 1 day ago

They killed 3rd party apps. I left when my app stopped working and lemmy conveniently worked with some of the same clients that reddit was breaking.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

Yes, I'm a Reddit refugee.

The site changed so much over the ten years I used it. When I started, there was plenty of good discussion and the most informative comments got voted up. Then power users started playing the same games with karma that rich people play with money. Near the end the negativity and superficiality were overwhelming. Then the API business happened and I realised Reddit was in the last few stages of circling the drain. I learned about Lemmy from a comment by someone who announced they were leaving for good, and I followed them.

If you look at Reddit today... the posts and comments share the same quality regardless of whether they're human or AI slop.

[–] cheesybuddha@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

I'm here because Reddit started buying CBP adds. Fuck collaborators

[–] hanrahan@piefed.social 7 points 1 day ago

Yes and no, I was on Mastodon long ago, peaked into Lenmy, watched other Fediverse prokects with interest.

I'd not used Reddit for many years, before I actually made a Lemmy account, then when I saw Boost was available for Lemmy, I started using that.

I am odd though, old and have a differnt view of the internet based around it being a space for enthusiasts and tinkerers and corporate can and will only ever eventually enshitifiy whatever their fingers touch, so I dont use things like FB, Reddit, Apple products, Microsoft products, WhatsApp, Insta, Light room etc

[–] sheepherder@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 day ago

Same here. My reddit account kept getting banned without any warning and i didn't even do anything lol. Honestly reddit has been really weird now. If you had an account which is more than 4-5 years old, then they won't do anything. But they basically just ban all new accounts if you post or comment anything. I am still new here so i am having a hard time understanding this platform. If anyone can help mei navigate it better, i would be grateful.

[–] notsosure@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago

Leaving all US-American platforms, meta first, then Reddit, now google. No reason to support US businesses.

[–] JackDark@lemmy.world 136 points 2 days ago (14 children)

I think the majority of Lemmy users are Reddit refugees, not because they got banned, but because of the Reddit API changes that forced 99% of the third party apps to shut down.

[–] etchinghillside@reddthat.com 39 points 2 days ago (2 children)
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[–] HotDog7@feddit.online 12 points 1 day ago

I think the better question is to ask who isn't a Reddit refugee. As in, who here never had a Reddit account and just showed up on Lemmy one day?

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'm guessing most people here came from Reddit. It was a ghost town before the APIocalypse.

[–] AoxoMoxoA@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Fuck reddit !

How's it going 👋

[–] Teh@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I still consume on Reddit, but won’t post or contribute there anymore.

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 1 day ago

Yeah, so much good information is there it's unavoidable to just browse on in, from time to time.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 17 points 1 day ago

I would probably even say: Who wasnt?
You either came from Twitter, Reddit or some other major social media as a primary user.
I don't believe someone just was old enough to join the internet world and decided to just join lemmy/fediverse at first sight.

[–] tiramichu@sh.itjust.works 54 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Since the API exodus, yes.

I made a very conscious choice to leave reddit at that time, due to that particular bullshit, and I don't regret it.

Doesn't mean I don't miss reddit though, because I do. Reddit has a lot more traffic which obviously means a lot more content in the sort of niche communities I really love.

But I made the right choice. I don't want to be part of that any longer. And the more of us make this choice, the better things will be for us all.

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[–] Mothra@mander.xyz 15 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I am here from reddit but I wouldn't call myself a refugee. More like an immigrant. I wasn't banned. I just tried this, liked it better, and since I disagreed with the API changes I settled here. I still browse reddit when I can't find specific stuff on Lemmy, and very, very occasionally (like once or twice a year) I post there in subs that aren't as developed here.

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[–] frog_brawler@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

I left Reddit in 2023 when they decided to mess with third party apps. I went to kbin initially and then moved over to here.

[–] StickyDango@lemmy.world 19 points 1 day ago (4 children)

I left with the disabling of API.

Today, I went back in to my account to delete every single comment I have ever made, one by one, then deleted the entire account. Should have done it ages ago, but better now than never.

I was reading about bans and stuff and all sorts that I didn't care to understand, so instead of using a third party apps to change/delete/etc my comments, I did it manually. It felt pretty satisfying.

My last "fuck you, r/jailbait Spez". I'm not letting them use my comments or account for anything. Hopefully, I've done it right.

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[–] ThunderQueen@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago

Ive been trying to leave privatized platforms and after degoogling and leaving meta, reddit was next. It happened to coincide with the acceleration of mod fascism but it was mostly about moving to a libre internet experience

[–] T00l_shed@lemmy.world 30 points 2 days ago

I left during the api bullshit, fuck spez

[–] greatwhitebuffalo41@slrpnk.net 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'm unfortunately still on Reddit due to modding 2 subs.

No one is forcing you to continue

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