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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/Glasper-Kateria on 2026-01-04 06:21:54+00:00.
i (M 24) moved to Colombia for work. Its my first job outside the US and I am definitely dealing with some cultural adjustment.
I just moved here during the Christmas break and one of my friends invited me to go to a party. Now back in the US i never went out much, I am more the stay at home type - prefer to read a book, or my comics. Even the field I work in (IT) does not require being an extrovert.
So fast forward to this party, it was at my friends house. Thought it would be a simple house party but we soon went to the club after that. This is where things get different.
One of the girls there wanted to go have a dance. She was quite attractive so I figured why not She dragged me to the dance floor and asked me to show her my favorite dance move. I panicked a bit and did the robot. This made her laugh...and she then proceeded to whisper talk with her friends, before dancing with me again...except this time she turned her back towards me and started grinding to the beat. Like, actually touching my crotch area and following the beat.
I had never danced like this before, and after about 30 seconds I felt overwhelmed. I had a raging boner and I was not sure if i could control myself.
Before things got bad, I decided to tell her I have to head out and just bolted all the way home.
This was a couple of days ago and I have not shared this story with anyone. Thought I would come to reddit to see 1) if dancing like that is normal and 2) was she into me, was she trying to make a joke?
Sorry if this is obvious to folks out there, just trying to figure things out
TL;DR - Went to a club in colombia and danced with a girl, almost busted in my shorts so had to leave immediately