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[–] I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world 1 points 20 minutes ago

I think I first saw this post in 2018.

[–] Gammelfisch@lemmy.world 10 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

This is why unions are usually better, especially the trade unions.

Yep. Everyone knows the other person’s pay rate. Heck, you can probably look up most union’s pay scales online even if you’re not a member.

[–] W3dd1e@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 hours ago

When I transferred to a particular department, I was very open about salary. I never asked anyone else to be too, but it got people talking and a year later half my team quit to get a 25% salary increase at a competitor. Oopsie!

I don’t regret it. 10/10 Would do it again.

[–] BilSabab@lemmy.world 8 points 3 hours ago

what's funny is that while the institutional gender pay disparity is mostly gone (at least where i work) - there's still a couple of dozen ways women get screwed out of money for doing the same work.

my favorite case from this year was with data engineer position - simple middle level position Pandas Airflow Databricks stack, 3k median. two candidates hired - same skill level, salary - male 3,5k, females 2,7k - why? if you look strictly at the skill assessment reports - you wouldn't even be able to tell where is who. so what the fuck is going on? well, if you look at the HR report - dude been showboating and oversharing about his skills all the way for the ladies and that's good thing that should be rewarded while the lady just laid down the facts as she was asked during the interviews and was deemed distant and not very personable, "she doesn't seem happy to be here" so to speak therefore she is not that good. fucking literally. and then the very same recruitment and human resources specialists wonder why people leave.

[–] ArcaneSlime@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Definitely don't disagree with the feeeeemale in the meme but also:

5991

Also it's illegal for them to stop you, talk away.

https://www.nlrb.gov/about-nlrb/rights-we-protect/your-rights/your-rights-to-discuss-wages

[–] boaratio@lemmy.world 9 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Out of college, I got my first job at a decent salary. A woman I interviewed with saw the salary offer they gave me, and then promptly went to HR to demand that she at least make as much as I was offered. She had been at this company for 3 years. It shouldn't be this hard. Women shouldn't have to fight to make as much as men. Normalize discussing salary.

[–] NikkiDimes@lemmy.world 1 points 21 minutes ago* (last edited 20 minutes ago)

It isn't just women, although it does affect us more for sure.

I used to work at a small startup making peanuts and a male colleague hired on was making even less. Thankfully, we went against the company policy of not being allowed to discuss salaries (an illegal policy in my state, btw), and managed to negotiate him up a bit.

[–] solidheron@sh.itjust.works 4 points 6 hours ago

Socialize the information

[–] stringere@sh.itjust.works 22 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

I was pulled into a meeting with my director and told we're not allowed to do this. I told her it absolutely was allowed under the law and she looked me in the eye and doubled down, stated that it has been like this at every company she's ever worked at.

My complaint to HR resulted in the HR person telling me that while it wasn't allowed, it was discouraged; which is also against the law.

My ethics report on both of them was "investigated and concluded".

My call to the NLRB resulted in an overworked federal employee telling me I could make a complaint but it was unlikely to amount to anything against a company that size.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 15 points 9 hours ago

The rule with discussing salaries is that you can do it (and you should do it), but you shouldn't let your managers know you're doing it. The law is on your side, but nobody with actual authority wants to support you doing it.

So, if you're on your way out in a contested wrongful termination case, there's definitely leverage in pointing to your employer firing you for discussing salaries with your coworkers. But in every other case, you gotta play those cards close to the chest. Nod and smile and agree with every manager who says you shouldn't discuss salaries. Then do as thou wilt.

[–] LaunchesKayaks@lemmy.world 7 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I was one of 3 people aty office who got any sort of raise this year. It was based on merit. I'm thrilled about the raise, but I feel bad for my coworkers because management sucks. I discussed the raise with my work besties and one is pissed about it and the other is hyped for me.

I'm also faced with the dilemma of being important at work.

[–] chiliedogg@lemmy.world 5 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

Being important can be tricky.

I work in a very small city, and I wear a lot of hats. I do plan review, permit processing, GIS, Open Records, vested rights determinations, some code enforcement, am the in-house IT guy, city photographer, and more.

What makes me valuable is my ability to multitask, and if I left it would be very hard to fill all those roles. But I'm also kinda a specialist in keeping plates spinning. My role is essential where I am now, but it's fulfilled my specialists in each of those duties in other cities. My skills etc isn't in high demand because there's only a few cities in the country that have the the extreme development complexity we have while also having a municipal staff of fewer than a dozen people due to the city's size.

[–] khaleer@sopuli.xyz 6 points 11 hours ago

In the same way, I discovered that everyone got paid. Except me. For a month. I left the job, best decision ever made.

[–] plz1@lemmy.world 29 points 23 hours ago* (last edited 23 hours ago)

Yep, that's why companies try so hard to intimidate people into keeping that info secret. I think most if not every company I've ever worked for has had some version of

  • It's against company policy
  • It's illegal
  • It will just create jealousy

And of course, my responses have always been

  • Too bad, it's federally protected
  • Liar
  • No, your payroll policies do that; same job, same pay
[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 23 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

I used to work at a shitty company that banned discussing salaries. I never thought anything about it because it was a call center and I just kinda assumed we had standardised salary across the board. One time when having drinks at a friend's house who worked with me but had a higher position, I found his payslip lying around and I was making, I shit you not, about 70% more. Fucking hell.

[–] justaman123@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago

I hope you told them when you left

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 119 points 1 day ago (3 children)

In the US, not only is it completely legal to openly discuss compensation with anyone you like, it is also illegal for your employer to tell you not to, or to retaliate against you for doing so. It is a highly protected activity.

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 18 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

If you’re in an at-will state, they can fire you this without saying this is why, and it’s very hard to prove this was why.

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 12 points 20 hours ago

Montana is the only state where an employer needs "good cause" to terminate.

[–] jaybone@lemmy.zip 52 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Though everywhere I have ever worked (in tech, in the US) it was highly discouraged to talk about salary.

[–] dohpaz42@lemmy.world 48 points 1 day ago

We’ve been programmed to consider it rude to encroach the subject.

Ironically, the public sector makes salaries available to everyone to view.

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 20 points 1 day ago

Now you know that that is illegal.

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[–] unfreeradical@slrpnk.net 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Employers have all the power, though. It is they who may reliably hide behind the law for protection. Laws that protect employees are rare to be passed and rarer to be enforced.

[–] Triumph@fedia.io 17 points 1 day ago (4 children)

You're not wrong, but it's worth contacting DoL if you need to on this one.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 11 points 23 hours ago

Worked for a payroll firm and 99.75% of lemmy would be astonished at how powerful the state labor board is. And this was in Florida! Hardly a bastion of labor rights.

"waGe TheFT!"

"Have you called the state labor board and inquired?"

"NOAWW! I'm a victim and I make memes!"

Only our worst client, and only 1, wasn't scared shitless of a call from the state labor folks. And these clients were rock-bottom, minimum-wage employers like restaurants, churches and thrift stores. Part of our payroll service was protecting the employer from fucking over the employees!

While I'm on about knowing your rights, a $26 legal insurance plan can save you 10's of thousands with a single use. I call mine every few months.

"Can they do this? What about this? What are my rights? What if I do this thing? What form do I fill out and how?!" Mostly super-simple stuff, but my divorce and child custody cases alone saved me far than I will spend in the next 40 years.

The difference between rich and poor is legal representation. $26/mo.

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[–] TootSweet@lemmy.world 23 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

Serious question: how do you start that conversation with a coworker if you're not 100% certain they'll be receptive?

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 10 points 11 hours ago

"can you believe they only pay us X to do this shit?"

[–] adminofoz@lemmy.cafe 17 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (1 children)

As someone who detests small talk, this is one of the few times when it is essentially.

First step is learning if they are a snitch. Second is seeing if they can be critical of workplace. Third is bringing up your own salary. Fourth is asking for theirs if they don't immediately reciprocate on step 3.

In practice there are many ways this can happen. Here is one reasonable example:

Did you see the bosses [insert anything, tie, shoes, car, your pick] today. OmG!

[Wait a day or two for any sign that made it back to your boss. Prepare a convincing cover up story in the event he/she/it is a snitch.]

2-4

Our health insurance is terrible isnt it? I swear its like they pick the cheapest option. [Replace the above with any other unpopular opinion depending on how critical the response is of your workplace you can jump immediately to steps 3-4]

I heard a lot of employers like to pay people differently for the exact same work and I dont think thats right. Thats why I want you to know I make Y. If you make less I can help you argue for more. Do you mind sharing your salary too?

You can sometimes just jump straight to step 3 or 4 if you are feeling confident. But do be aware. You can save someone's job and the boss will corner them in an office and some of them will still rat you out. Happened to me personally. The above isnt without risk. But do not be afraid of humans, especially middle management humans. They are usually the weakest people I've ever met.

[–] justaman123@lemmy.world 7 points 17 hours ago

When you're running a place I want to work for you

[–] Horsecook@sh.itjust.works 29 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Unethical LPT: tell the colleague you find most difficult to work with, that you make far more money than you do. If they succeed in getting a raise, you’ll have an easier time getting one, too. If they fail, you know not to bother, and the difficult person will likely leave or be fired soon.

[–] damnedfurry@lemmy.world 1 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

If they succeed in getting a raise

How are you supposed to know if this is the case? Just hope they tell you?

[–] Horsecook@sh.itjust.works 3 points 5 hours ago

Just hope they tell you?

No, no. That is too unreliable. You can tell whether they got a raise by the odor of their farts. It’s unmistakable.

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[–] AntiBullyRanger@ani.social 12 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

I am terrified everyone in this community doesn't comprehend the actual problem.

If you're working for a salary, you have already been robbed.

[–] gtr@programming.dev 3 points 17 hours ago (1 children)

Ah yes, Marxism. Never fails to deliver interesting but impractical concepts about value creation.

[–] AntiBullyRanger@ani.social 5 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago) (1 children)

Dividends are impractical?
Is that what they taught you at the NYSE?

[–] saltnotsugar@lemmy.world 71 points 1 day ago

Seriously discuss salaries. My coworker was making half of what I was making for doing the same job.

[–] jjjalljs@ttrpg.network 20 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have several stories on this I like to tell.

I worked at a startup in NYC that was doing job-search related stuff. Find job postings, get resume advice, that kind of stuff. Someone in the customer service department found an article online about salaries, shared it, and then people were talking about how much they got paid. Management came down hard on this, and said it was a fireable offense to talk about salary. Everyone got real quiet on the topic after that. Was it illegal for them to do that? Maybe! But laws only matter when they're enforced, and a bunch of entry level people making $30-50k a year don't have the means to launch a legal challenge. That's even if there's enough solidarity to try, and the effort won't be scuttled by scabs and bootlickers.

For extra irony, a couple years later the company launched an "Are you getting paid enough?" salary comparison tool.

I worked at a different startup in NYC. This one loved data. Data data data. They had t-shirts made that said stuff like "Data doesn't care about your feelings" or whatever.

People started agitating about salary transparency. They wanted to know how much people were being made, because there was a sense that not everyone was getting paid the same for the same work. Also, some of us had in secret started comparing notes, and found some wide gaps.

Well, the CEO wasn't having it. He said "we have salary bands", but wouldn't provide more detail on the range of the bands, who was in what band, and how it all worked. Just we have salary bands and they're fair.

People didn't like that, so he tried changing tactics. He said, "Who here thinks they're being paid too much money? No one? No one wants a pay cut. Right. So that's why we're not going to release the specifics." As if the only solution to Amy being paid too little is to lower Bob's pay.

This is the same CEO, at the same "we love data" company, that when people brought up studies about four day workweeks being more effective, just shut it down with "We're not doing that."

Management and ownership don't care. They don't care about what's legal or just. They care about power, and profit as a close second. I knew a guy that worked in a factory, and the owner reportedly would say stuff like "If you assholes unionize I will burn this place to the ground, and I don't care if you're inside or not."

There need to be institutions, with teeth, to stop these kinds of things. If ownership even whispers an anti-union sentiment, they should lose everything.

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[–] teft@piefed.social 27 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I did this once for an executive assistant. A few months after I was hired me and the assistant were talking and I told her how much I made because i was excited (it was a lot for me at the time). She mentioned she made like half the amount and had worked for 20 years for the company. I coached her on how to ask for a raise and showed her all the other people in the area making more than her and with that ammo she went and got a huuuuuuge raise. I was so happy for her.

Always talk about how much you make. The only reason it's a taboo is because the owner class don't want us to know how much everyone else makes because it's easier to rip people off when they're ignorant. Especially people who are mild mannered since they might not ask as many questions or fight back against pushback.

[–] cRazi_man@europe.pub 39 points 1 day ago (1 children)

America seems strange for this salary secrecy and individual negotiations. But in my work place in the UK, a group is negotiating higher salaries, and another group (unaffected) is actively talking shit about them and trying to undermine their efforts. This other group speaks of how terrible it is to affect a multimillion £ organisation to strain its finances. Workers holding back other workers is complete bullshit.

[–] teft@piefed.social 13 points 1 day ago (1 children)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crab_mentality

Crab mentality, also known as crab theory, crabs in a bucket mentality, or the crab-bucket effect, describes the mindset of people who try to prevent others from gaining a favorable position, even if attaining such position would not directly impact those trying to stop them. It is usually summarized with the phrase: "If I can't have it, neither can you".

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[–] TheMilk@lemdro.id 26 points 1 day ago (6 children)

Assuming your manager has the authority to increase your salary. I’m a manager and have 0 power in any say and very limited in what I can do. I’m just paid to babysit my staff to make sure the job is jobbing.

[–] fodor@lemmy.zip 10 points 1 day ago

It's all relative. Is your manager trying to get you a raise? Or, are they getting a bonus by denying you one? If you aren't sure, maybe it's the latter.

[–] altima_neo@lemmy.zip 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Same. You gotta go like 2-3 levels up in management to get someone with authority to raise wages. I think it's by design at this point.

100% by design. I know people who will say "but my manager can't get me it" as reasoning. Which is strictly correct but also like, man.

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[–] unfreeradical@slrpnk.net 21 points 1 day ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (2 children)

Discussing wages is constructive in general, but I am afraid many workplaces remain lacking in adequate solidarity for the tactic to be successful.

Beware of those who will try to bring down others instead of helping to lift everyone together.

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