Here's my answer that works with any kind of lightbulb.
Flip switch 1 on, switch 2 off, and get switch 3 stuck in a halfway point which I've done on both lever switches and flat switches.
If it's on it's switch 1, if it's off it's switch 2, if it's flickering or dimmed it's switch 3 and you should probably turn it off to stop damaging the relay.