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Children as young as 11 who demonstrate misogynistic behaviour will be taught the difference between pornography and real relationships, as part of a multimillion-pound investment to tackle misogyny in England’s schools, the Guardian understands.

On the eve of the government publishing its long-awaited strategy to halve violence against women and girls (VAWG) in a decade, David Lammy told the Guardian that the battle “begins with how we raise our boys”, adding that toxic masculinity and keeping girls and women safe were “bound together”.

As part of the government’s flagship strategy, which was initially expected in the spring, teachers will be able to send young people at risk of causing harm on behavioural courses, and will be trained to intervene if they witness disturbing or worrying behaviour.

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[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

I think the problem is not just porn...... Maybe... Also society, systemically? Maybe also the parents? Television, Internet culture, business culture, religion, oh yeah, also RELIGION.

You know what stops misogyny? Education and real leadership. Not blaming pornography and kids not knowing the difference between ~~music~~ ~~movies~~ ~~videogames~~ porn and reality.

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 3 points 6 hours ago

I thought they blocked all the kids from watching porn. How are they going to know what they're talking about in these classes?

[–] Gorilladrums@lemmy.world 28 points 11 hours ago (5 children)

This is going to backfire hard. Kids aren't stupid, they know when they're looked down upon. These classes are going to be rejected by the boys who end up taking them, and they'll resent what it stands for.

It reminds me of the US back in the 80s when schools pushed abstinence extremely hard. That didn't stop kids from having sex, and this won't stop misogyny.

The only way schools can contribute meaningfully to ending sexism is by providing a safe environment that requires young boys and girls to actually interact with each other in natural and healthy ways outside of class time.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 7 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

yep. nothing makes kids resent you more than being condescending to them or telling them something is horrible and bad and will corrupt them.

this puritanism nonsense makes zero sense. sex education should be about the facts of sex. not value judgements about waht is 'good' porn or not. and female students should be included. this notion that 'women don't watch porn' is completely nonsense.

[–] Gorilladrums@lemmy.world 4 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

The more you look into what's being planned here, the worse it gets

[–] a9249@lemmy.ca 3 points 8 hours ago

Ever been to saudi arabia? because... that.

[–] Omgpwnies@lemmy.world 9 points 10 hours ago

Kinda like how DARE taught us what all the drugs looked like, how to spot fakes, and how to find the dealers?

[–] a9249@lemmy.ca 3 points 8 hours ago

Yep, except the opposite is happening in the schools. My Neice's preschool punishes boys who pull girls hair (they're four) and apparently the girls have learned if they don't like a boy they can just start lying to get them in trouble... Wonder why misogyny is a rapidly growing movement among the youngin's?

[–] zalgotext@sh.itjust.works 5 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

After reading the article, it seems like there's a lot more to this than just classes for boys. I struggle to draw the same comparison to 80s abstinence-only sex education, and I think schools can contribute in more ways than the one you listed, like the ones mentioned in the article.

[–] Gorilladrums@lemmy.world 5 points 8 hours ago

Are we reading the same things? Here are some quotes from the article that I found problematic:

Children as young as 11 who demonstrate misogynistic behaviour will be taught the difference between pornography and real relationships

They're trying to pin porn as the cause of misogyny and that's really stupid for a variety of reasons.

As part of the government’s flagship strategy, which was initially expected in the spring, teachers will be able to send young people at risk of causing harm on behavioural courses, and will be trained to intervene if they witness disturbing or worrying behaviour.

See, these classes are not meant to be a part of the normal sex ed curriculum where they're taught to everybody because the information is valuable. They're specifically meant to be punitive. The idea is to signal out kids and force them to take these classes as a consequence.

To out of touch activists, this sounds good, but in reality the kids who are being sent there are going to feel humiliated in front of their peers, and they're going to resent both the material being taught and the system that put them through it.

Keir Starmer, announcing the strategy, said: “Every parent should be able to trust that their daughter is safe at school, online and in her relationships. But too often toxic ideas are taking hold early and going unchallenged.”

This is a theme that's echoed in the entire article, and it is also reflected in the actual strategy. I could've quoted a bunch of different statements, but I specifically chose this one because it's coming from the top. You have the PM here pushing the false idea that only girls can be victims and that boys are the problem.

The much-trailed strategy is expected to focus on three pillars:

  • Preventing young men being harmed by “manosphere” influencers such as Andrew Tate.

Are you kidding me? The "manosphere" is an online slang term, Andrew Tate is a meme. How can you possibly draft policies in general, let alone ones about education, on something so vague, unsubstantiated, and unacademic?

The point is that if the entire curriculum was taught like normal sex ed where it's apolitical, fact based, and required to be taken by all students because it contains useful information that they need to know then there wouldn't be an issue. However, that's not the case. It is narrative driven, it is not entirely fact based, and it's not applied to all students across the board. The whole thing just seems unprincipled and poorly thought out. This strategy looks like something planned by radfem weirdos on Reddit, not by people who are in charge of the education system of an entire country.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 4 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (10 children)

Schools should focus on facts. Not political narratives about the evils of pornography necessarily leading to misogyny and sexual assault or that they are all 'manosphere influenced' until prove otherwise. that kind of mentality is some witch-hunt bullshit.

Porn is also incredibly diverse its content. Like video games, or comics, it's treated as if it was this singular mass of crassness and crudeness and could never have any redemptive value. There is a vast difference between sexual assault fetish commercially produced porn and a loving couple who just wants to share tehir passion for sexual pleasure with each other with the world and make a few bucks on onlyfans. And the former is a dying breed.

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[–] entwine@programming.dev 3 points 9 hours ago (2 children)

Why so negative? I'm too lazy to read the article, but are you commenting on actual lesson plans, or on what you assume the classes will be like? It doesn't seem like a stretch to me that this could work for some kids, especially for those whose behavior is the result of exposure to porn at too young an age.

[–] exasperation@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 9 hours ago

Yeah, for those of us whose school-provided sex education was actually informative, including puberty and sexual health units in mandatory health class in multiple different grades, I don't see why this would have to be inherently badly taught.

It's a weird "oh it's impossible to teach anything properly so let's not try" attitude that applies to a lot of discussions about education, even core academic subjects like math and science and history.

[–] Gorilladrums@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago

I recommend you read the article, it's a pretty quick read. The way that this is planned sets it up for failure. This sounds more like something some politicians came up with to appease the activists in their base than something made by actual experts in the field who have the kids' best interests in mind.

[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 10 hours ago (2 children)

I doubt that the cause of misogyny in 11 year old boys is porn. I'm happy they're trying something, I just hope it doesn't backfire

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 2 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago)

yes, but if you were a unreasonable sex-negative person you would. and most people are unreasonable and have sex-negative views.

it's also loaded with sexist assumptions that boys are sex offenders by default unless they are 'corrected' by society.

[–] bytesonbike@discuss.online 1 points 8 hours ago

Same! I don't know if this is the answer. But at least it's something.

Back in my day, we had Big Brother Big Sister programs. But those programs were overwhelmed by need even when I was young.

And as kids (boys AND girls) turn to the internet and AI for direction about the opposite sex and how to treat each other, we need something to provide a another resource.

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 7 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Sad that it is required and that parents are unwilling to do it

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 4 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

"Step-bro mom and dad wanna talk to us."

(I'm so sorry. I couldn't not)

[–] lightnsfw@reddthat.com 1 points 6 hours ago

I think I saw that one.

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