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Welcome to femcel memes. A place where anybody can post memes that fit the vibe.

Warning: We have a tendency to post things that may at times come from a self-deprecating perspective or things that are funny coming from another queer person. This space will always be a safe place for transfems, non-binary people, people with a feminine gender expression (GNC or otherwise) or anybody else in the LGBT Community to come together and share about our experiences but we truly feel that laughing about the sometimes silly and embarrassing parts the queer experience can help bring us together. We never mean offense or harm in anything posted but rather they are satirical takes coming from queer people.

A note about 'Egging': Our community is mostly made up of transfem individuals, and as such most memes posted will be posted with the intention of having a transfem perspective. However, regardless of gender identity, all feminine presenting individuals are welcome here. Whether that means you're NB, GNC, transmasc, or any other identity, you are welcome here. It is not our intention or goal to invalidate these identities. If something makes you uncomfortable, please feel free to report the post and I will address your concerns on an individual level. For more information regarding the problems with 'Egg-culture', please see Here.

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[–] Sibshops@lemmy.myserv.one 48 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I thought fetishes are things which deviate from the baseline. Maybe we've come full circle.

[–] Broadfern@lemmy.world 30 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Morticia and Gomez Addams, at least from the 60s/90s versions are iconic for being a deep opposite of tv married couples ¯\(ツ)/¯ rapturous monogamous love can totally be a kink.

I thought they were so cringe when I was younger, but the older I get the more I realize they are living the dream.

have you seen the current baseline?

[–] germanatlas@lemmy.blahaj.zone 29 points 1 week ago (3 children)
[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago

Oooh, Ao3! Yay!

[–] burntbacon@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 week ago

Okay, angst I get, but 'fluff' and angst? Are we on a porn set with conflicted morals?

[–] MentalEdge@sopuli.xyz 18 points 1 week ago
[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 1 week ago

MAXIMUM cuddle puddle 🥰

[–] sundray@lemmus.org 10 points 1 week ago
[–] FuyuhikoDate@feddit.org 7 points 1 week ago

I hate it when i tell people that those are my kinks and they put disappointed away the whip...

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Some of these, yes. But not fidelity. We love love that is free to experience it with whoever they want. Polyam and Relationship Anarchy FTW!

[–] Ruthalas 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Fidelity means not cheating, itdoesnt have anything to do with partner count, and is not synonymous with monogomay. You can be in a poly relationship, and practice fidelity by not cheating on your poly partners.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Yes and no. There's polyfidelity which means:

"Polyfidelity is a type of non-monogamous relationship in which all members are recognized as equivalent to the other partners and comply to restrict sexual and romantic relationship activities to exclusively only other members within the group."

We're not into that type of relationship personally and prefer it unrestricted/non-exclusive. That is where we were drawing our definition of fidelity from in this case. Apologies for the confusion.

[–] GalacticGrapefruit@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Poly works for some people. It doesn't work for everyone. Is it anarchy if we're expecting people who genuinely prefer monogamy to participate to be valid in their love too?

No beef here, but poly doesn't work for everybody, and that's fine.

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

Yes, which is why we were specifically talking about ourselves.

If you aren't familiar with relationship anarchy then here: https://relationship-anarchy.com/

[–] QuinnyCoded@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

i respect your opinion but personally I disagree. I be bonding for life like a penguin. Me and my little lesbian penguin gf ☃️♥️

[–] oftheair@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

We don't think we implied anything about the time we or anybody else who is polyamorous or relationship anarchist likes to be with others.

We have no deisre to give up on our current relationships of that kind, just we have more than one of them.

Edit: Nor did we imply how 'bonded' we are to any of them.

Edit 2: It seems not all penguins are bonded for life either: https://www.sciencealert.com/shock-discovery-reveals-penguins-dont-mate-for-life-after-all