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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/I_dont_know_ahhhhh on 2025-12-04 16:02:36+00:00.
So I am referring to this post right here. I hope I'm doing this correctly. I've never posted or had to do an update before.
https://www.reddit.com/r/tifu/s/h5JeuNg04j
Anyway, along with the update, so my roommate got home he stepped into the apartment and first thing he said was " WOW this place looks amazing, you good hun?" This then lead into a conversation on how I went into a spiral and to get my mind kinda off everything I was cleaning. So he told me that he realized he was in love with me in the beginning of July when I got some really bad medical news and he said that " he needs me in his life no matter what that way it is and he can't lose me" I went speechless when he said this to be honest. We both took a deep breath and we could tell nerves were high. We talked about boundaries and everything like that, and we have agreed that we are going to try dating and we have agreed to take things slow due to past trauma on my part. Now him and I have to figure out how to tell our friend that tried setting us up 3 years ago that we are now together 🤣. Thank you for the advice and I swear my life is a movie sometimes.
TL;DR: we decide to become actually boyfriend and girlfriend lol