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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/I_dont_know_ahhhhh on 2025-12-04 13:56:19+00:00.
Okay softly first thing is first we are both single, he is (M21) and I am (F23). So we were at Dungeon and Dragons and all of our friends flirt with each other, it's kinda how our friend group works. So much so my roommate calls me his "lesbian girlfriend" and I call him my " Gay boyfriend" ( we are both bisexual). I've known that I have been in love with my roommate since end of June, so we were all having some alcohol and I figured what's the harm in flirting with him, he doesn't like me back. So I "jokingly" started flirting with him, nothing to much no one got uncomfortable we were all just laughing, drinking playing Dungeons and Dragons and no one thought much of it. Later him and I went home after all the alcohol was out of our system and we didn't talk much on the car ride home. The next night I'm in my room reading my book and he is getting ready to leave for work, he knocks on my door and asks me " hey have you ever thought about me in a romantic since?" I immediately freaked out and responded with "no" and then said "well that's a lie, I have but I understand if you don't feel the same and I'll back off" then his alarm went off for him to leave for work before he could respond and I'm just sitting here spiralling. We have an apartment tour in the morning and I don't know how to bring up the conversation again. I don't know what to do, please help with advice if y'all have any on how I can make my TIFU better
TL:DR: if my roommate doesn't feel the same it'll make the next 6 months extremely awkward or if he does then I don't know the next steps
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