Oh I'm definitely alone. And that's what that is.
this post was submitted on 27 Nov 2025
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I've spent some Christmas's alone. It's a million times better than being near my family
Yeah they're pretty baroquely terrible. Local friends would be great though.
I get that. It's not easy at all
We live in hell, its supposed to be hell, most of us work hard to keep it hell. I do enough psychedelics to not take it too personally most of the time.
We hosted a Friendsgiving today, there were 19 of us with all sorts of stories. Family friends who just didn't feel like cooking. Friends whose family has passed, another friend with a restraining order against hers. Friends who had moved far from their families and another who just does Thanksgiving with their family on the weekend instead. Everyone came and got stuffed full of turkey and mashed potatoes. I love that our home can be a place of togetherness and community for the people in our lives.
That's a really lovely thing to do! It sounds like a great day
For anyone going through tough times, I hope you can have a moment of peace to yourself❤️
I used to host friendsgivings. Now I'm eating alone in my bedroom while my sister who owns the house threatens me everyday with eviction. One step closer to homelessness, yay! I see so many people my age homeless and sleeping on the street, I'm 25 and seen more homeless kids than I ever wanted to.
It's less than ideal. Start bui)ding community for eviction defenses now.
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I spent the day playing BG3 with a friend.
Better one true friend than all the "family" in the world.