I do miss them, but at least Something Awful is still around
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I really miss the shit-talking forum on one of my old pirate BBS systems. You could just go a post something with the intent of having a mini flame war with someone… blow off steam. Good fun ☺️
Tremendously. Forums give me a social boost, social media and Reddit-alikes don't. As you say - disembodied voices.
I detest the deliberately ephemeral nature of modern platforms.
Yep I had a proper online friendship group and a real community on message boards. It's waayyy better on lemmy than Facebook or reddit but still not quite there
I loooooved online debating back in the day you used to really get interesting and diverse conversations, they'd go on for pages and have a range of perspectives. On a good board you'd have well reasoned and well sourced arguments, and really learn a lot. All that's gone and sadly I don't see it coming back
Kinda but in general, I miss when a online community wasn't a walled garden and is open to everyone. I prefer the format of Reddit/Lemmy as I find some forum thread to be difficult to read as there's few different conversation going on.
One of the things I love about forum is that I know that it can be find via online search. Something nice about finding answers from a smaller-niche website that's away from places like Reddit.
And the threads in old forums would just get longer and longer because people replied with quotes, so you'd have to scroll through walls of text of the same replies and quotes just to get to the bottom where some guy replies to all of it with "u r dumb", and then it keeps going from there. It's a bit messy.
No, I never liked the interface with all the conversations mixed so you had to copy most of the thread for context just to add half a line.
I always found them tedious and confusing.
I still mess around in some traditional forums and I do not miss them.
The time bias is much bigger. First comments are usually the only ones people read and replies. If there's a great comment in page 5 no one is going to see it. But if there's a troll comment in page one it is on everyone's faces. Karma system fixed that.
It's true the thing about usernames and avatars. But I prefer not to personalize a lot so for me that's also a plus, I can focus in the comment and not in who has written it.
Except for the fact that a lot do the "create an account to see the link". Aside from being annoying, encouraging dead accounts is a security risk, not for the forum but for the users.
I get the nostalgia, but I do like the thread format of modern forums. Sometimes I don't want to wade through subtopics that people are discussing. I'll just collapse the whole thing and focus on what I want to read. I think it's nicer this way.
I was just thinking, the optimal "reddit"-type site should have been just a big list of links to different forums, and nothing more
I miss Livejournal, the original Livejournal where you were able to tell people intimate things about yourselves and make friends for life.
there are still here, but not very prevelant as before. the problem with some is some mods are very uptight and when admonish you or ban at the slightest notion they think your violating some rule. Also other people giving you snide or condescending response might be harder to deal or report against, and sometimes you cant contradict someone who has older account who gatekeeps the subject of that forum. forum post also dont see much traffic either, usually its gets ignored pretty quickly.
I like the anonymity, though.
How are sites like lemmy or reddit or even social media less anonymous if you simply don't publish your personal information? Granted anonymity is not and has never been a guaranteed "thing" but I've seen this sentiment echoed a couple times in this post and it's confusing.
Is this in reference to how 4chan handled usernames or lack thereof?
Not OP, but I think forums were separate entities, so you could choose a different username on each one and have disconnected identities.
On Reddit, or even here, you have the same identity for all content you follow. People can easily trace out your profile.
Bodybuilding forums led to a notorious debate on the number of days in a week. I feel like a reddit format would water down the debate by not presenting replies as they are posted in real time.