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The original was posted on /r/tifu by /u/Major-Cherry4679 on 2025-11-07 10:37:48+00:00.
Well I’m writing this past 4 am because I’m so annoyed with myself and can’t sleep. I went out with a small group of friends for a good friends birthday today. We started with around 12 people and dwindled down to 6 at the last bar, and then 3 at the very end (me, the good friend, and a girl that was in the group who I wasn’t super familiar with). Me and the good friend were invited by the girl to go back to her place afterwards and indulge in a certain substance so we took her up on it. Keep in mind I have no previous knowledge that good friend and the girl have any kind of relationship at all at this point
All of us were getting pretty tired but we were periodically hitting it and talking so I was just enjoying the vibes. It wasn’t until about an hour and a half of what I figured was a good hangout that my friend says something along the lines of “well, it’s time for bed,” says he has to go to the bathroom, and goes inside. My first thought, of course, is “well I’ll wait for him so I can walk him home”. And then after going to the bathroom the two of them walk with me to the door and say good night. I couldn’t tell exactly if they were just super tired or visibly annoyed but either way it was clear that I was quickly being ushered out, which is when the “oh shit” moment happened and I put the pieces together.
You’re telling me I didn’t pick up on any cues after almost TWO HOURS? Right after I left I texted and apologized and told him to just ask me to leave if god forbid something that happens again but Jesus Christ I feel dull. Like yeah looking back on it no shit I overstayed my welcome. I’m not usually someone who struggles to pick up on social cues, and I especially don’t want to become one of those people.
TL;DR- Went and chilled with a good friend and one of his girl-friends at her place after a birthday night out. Didn’t realize that I was third wheeling until I waited to walk him home and he didn’t leave with me. Worst homie ever 🤦♂️