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I don't care how much it costs, if I can order it on Amazon or pick it up at Costco or at a vitamin store I'm there!

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[–] msokiovt@lemmy.today 5 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

Personally speaking, just do CBD or melatonin supplementaion (due to high serotonin for the latter). I tried Rebel Zen (just CBD) and küribl (CBD/CBG). However, since I might qualify for the assistance program, there's a chance I'll be trying Lazarus Organics soon.

[–] ZeroDarkMedia@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago

I've heard of CBD having good calming effects. I'll look into that too

[–] JigglySackles@lemmy.world 6 points 20 hours ago

I know that a low dose of mmj is really helpful to a lot of people. If it's legal in your state/country I'd be inclined to look into that as an option.

Outside of that, valerian root, chamomile (celestial seasonings herbal tea has one called sleepytime which is nice), and for some people lavendar.

[–] Forester@pawb.social 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Honest question but are you aware that you slept for 8 hours?? Because 7:00 p.m. to 3:00 a.m. is 8 hours. It sounds like you're angry that you didn't sleep till 7:00 a.m. which would be 12 hours. Most adults need between 6 and 8 hours of sleep a night.

Valerian root works! But to me it sounds like what you should do is stay awake until later at night and then go to bed.

[–] Perimenopause@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I actually mean the opposite😆 I'd rather sleep at 10pm and wake up at 5am like a normal person, I try to be productive when I wake up early, do laundry, clean, etc. It's the fact that due to peri I can't workout yet until I'm on HRT, it's like I'm drained and sleeping 8 hours. When I'm in shape and training consistently I only need 6 hours. Any suggestions?

[–] Perimenopause@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Valerian root...looking that up now! Ty!

[–] Forester@pawb.social 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I'll warn you now. It smells like horse shit. I used to take one capsule a night helped me relax to fall asleep

[–] Perimenopause@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I appreciate the heads up! Good looking out! I'll be sure to see if there's a more "pleasant" version on Amazon 😆

[–] Lemmyoutofhere@lemmy.ca 3 points 16 hours ago (2 children)

Warning, a lot of stuff on Amazon is fake. I would never buy anything like that on Amazon.

[–] Perimenopause@lemmy.world 2 points 11 hours ago

I have heard of sellers putting up fake shops on Amazon, i'll be sure to shop carefully and check out some vitamin stores

[–] ZeroDarkMedia@lemmy.world 2 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Got it, thanks, may I'll check out a vitamin store.

[–] Lemmyoutofhere@lemmy.ca 2 points 11 hours ago

Good choice

[–] klemptor@startrek.website 4 points 23 hours ago

Prior to HRT, I found these pretty helpful. They do take about an hour to kick in.

But when I started progesterone I stopped using the gummies. Progesterone also takes about an hour to kick in for me. I usually take them at 9 so I'm falling asleep around 10.

[–] twinnie@feddit.uk 3 points 23 hours ago (2 children)

Melatonin is what many people use. I have some tablets that are melatonin and valerian root. Like most sleep aids though, you’ll often still feel it in the morning so it can be better to use it on a weekend. I had today off so it took one last night, I had a late night and went to bed at 1am then slept in until 10am. Stupid move but I lost track of time.

[–] ZeroDarkMedia@lemmy.world 1 points 12 hours ago

If you still feel it in the morning it must have a longer half life, I'll remember that ty

[–] Sparrow_1029@programming.dev 3 points 23 hours ago

Second this for the melatonin. I do the gummies, and not frequently. It definitely knocks you out, but YMMV when it comes to a little grogginess on waking.