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[–] davidagain@lemmy.world 39 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Sounds great, but this "New lifestyle philosophy" also sounds a lot like hedonism

[–] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 15 points 1 week ago (2 children)

We've got wine and women and wonderful vices. Come and join the cult of Dionysus.

[–] moopet@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] caseyweederman@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Okokimup@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Let's get mischievous.

trancy acoustic bridge

[–] astropenguin5@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Is hedonism just getting dopamine?

[–] davidagain@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Afaik, hedonism is about seeking pleasure. Dunno if that's a yes or a no, really.

Probably not just dopamine specifically, but general vibes yeah probably.

[–] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Why don't they just sell dopamine pills?

[–] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 week ago

From my understanding that basically heroin

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Neurotransmitters aren't as simple as that really. Dopamine is more associated with engagement, which can be distressful (hyperfocusing) (and neurotransmitters also have a bunch of different uses in the body and brain etc)

[–] davidagain@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I love when I'm hyper-focused. It's the distracted and non-starting I can't abide.

[–] SkyeStarfall@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I mean, I get you, and I agree, but being hyperfocused can definitely sometimes be distressing to me. Especially when I'm hyperfocusing on something that I don't really "want" to hyperfocus on, if that makes sense. Obviously I want to hyperfocus on the thing as that's what engaging me in the moment, but it's the forefront of my mind, the conscious part, that might disagree. Especially if there's other stuff that needs to get done, such as work

..I get if this is a bit abstract, but it's how it makes sense to me

[–] davidagain@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Ah actually that makes a lot of sense. Up until what you said, I never used the term for intense non-productive activity, so it always had positive connotations for me. Huh. Reevaluating some things.

[–] Scubus@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You might look into adderall. As someone with adhd, its the only medicine ive ever found that didnt have any major drawbacks and changed my entire world view. Its astounding what you can do when your body and mind arent fighting you.

[–] davidagain@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I don't have a diagnosis, just patterns and suspicions. Something to think about.

[–] Quetzalcutlass@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Looks more like The Eight Delights plus "none of the above".

[–] yakko@feddit.uk 14 points 1 week ago

Dude said "I've never been pleasantly surprised" holy shit

[–] moopet@sh.itjust.works 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I find delight in getting angry that someone who is happy to use words like "amelioration", "betterment", etc., still has to shorten "something" to "smth" right in the middle.

[–] AnUnusualRelic@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

I think it was "having a good laugh at Samantha "

[–] Klear@quokk.au 13 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 9 points 1 week ago

That's what I understood. If you can't do anything else be the wildcard.

Or eat an egg.

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

One of those delights isn’t for me. The other eight look good.

[–] pennomi@lemmy.world 16 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Is it goofing? Are you a serious person?

[–] tanisnikana@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Nah, I’m just asexual and very sex-repulsed. I would hope that I’m a goof; I’m paid money to be a goof into a microphone fairly often!

[–] pennomi@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

To be fair I was trying to get my daily goof in with my previous comment 😉

[–] Nindelofocho@lemmy.world 7 points 1 week ago

Thy cup runneth over

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 10 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Never heard that definition of ameliorate

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What definition have you heard?

[–] FishFace@piefed.social 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

To make something less bad

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

I'm genuinely so confused.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

"I wonder how many people will reply only to say they can't/don't want to experience one or more of the nine delights."

-- several minutes later --

"About as many as I expected."

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I only care for 3 of these.

Deliciousness, Goofing, and Coitus.

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 11 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Do not try to mix them. It is forbidden for mortals.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

laugbing at the delicious food I am fucking

[–] Klear@quokk.au 5 points 1 week ago

I'm currently listening to the new album by young scrolls and I read your comment just as Nazir said "Some seriously fucked up shit". Fit perfectly.

[–] zout@fedia.io 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Maybe I'm not a mere mortal, but how do you not mix these?

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] zout@fedia.io 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I don't know, my wife occasionally screams oh god during the mixing event?

[–] Rose_Thorne@lemmy.zip 4 points 1 week ago

You broke the rule.

If somebody asks if you're a god, YOU SAY YES!

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 4 points 1 week ago

Fair enough, proceed.

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I guess enthralment does not apply for most neurodivergents.

[–] Eq0@literature.cafe 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Really? I thought both autism and ADHD had enthrallment basically as a symptom. I admit I am not familiar with any other neurodivergency, so my knowledge is definitely limited

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 5 points 1 week ago

Yep, my point is that hyperfixation comes out of the box, and often it comes with a cost of everything else.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm (most likely) autistic, I usually have a good time when I'm "enthralled".

[–] massive_bereavement@fedia.io 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah, but I forget food, water, sleep, everything. It comes at a cost..

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

That sounds pretty extreme even by autism standards ...

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