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[–] bitwolf@sh.itjust.works 35 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I went to the hospital for a cough (it was ultimately pneumonia). It was a holiday so Drs weren't open.

During intake they determined I was a "threat to myself and others", detained me, and drugged me.

They tried to make me foot the bill and sent me to collections without any prior notice months later.

I disputed it with credit. And explained the situation, how I was held against my will and how they exceeded the scope of care.

The credit bureau surprisingly sided with me and cleared my credit of any wrong doing.

I later found out that several American hospitals were needlessly drugging adolescents and it was a huge problem.

[–] obsidianfoxxy7870@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

The lack of oversight for sectioning someone for anything is very scary. There is no way to fight it really and also YOU have to foot the bill. Let alone the trauma of being held against your will.

[–] bitwolf@sh.itjust.works 6 points 6 days ago

100%. I'll never ever step foot in that hospital again.

They denied me phone calls to my family for over 24hrs so they were worried and looking for me.

I'll never forget the slap in the face when I got out and they billed me 50$ for a grilled cheese sandwich and saltines.

[–] yarr@feddit.nl 24 points 6 days ago

In the USA, they care more about the health of your wallet than your health.

To any Euros reading this: yes, it's that bad. Even worse, most people call it "the best" system in the world.

[–] elbiter@lemmy.world 14 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Have you even considered public healthcare?

I mean, c'mon... No other country in in the world goes through that shit....

[–] bytesonbike@discuss.online 16 points 6 days ago

We have.

We as a collective society said we want that for the past two decades.

But then our oligarchy class decided we didn't want it so now we don't have it.

[–] scruffy@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Honestly, fuck you. You think we don't want public Healthcare? You think we have any power here at all??? You think our votes mean fucking anything?? Christ, the dude in charge of our country is so monstrously evil that his supporters have bumper stickers saying "felon for president". Rich people run our country, no matter what anyone else pretends, and there's nothing we can do because they've slowly over decades made our population not give a fuck. I voted, but ONE THIRD of our country didn't. Get real.

[–] elbiter@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

I've upvoted you despite of the *fuck you * sentence. I must recognize you have a point, and understand the anger.

The USA are a total dystopia.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 8 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

Bruh, they could just use your blood samples to identify you.

Also, the US could soon change its laws to no longer require hospitals to treat you for an empergency, so they could ask you to pre-pay, like they do in State-Capitalist PRC where I'm from.

[–] KairuByte@lemmy.dbzer0.com 6 points 6 days ago

<.< What use is a blood sample if my DNA isn’t in the system?

“Yes this appears to be an A type blood individual with high cholesterol” good luck with that.

[–] BanMe@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

It's real easy. They're gonna have a different nurse ask you every 15 minutes for your insurance information, and if that fails, they'll assign a social worker to sit with you and begin applying for medicaid benefits on your behalf. They will slowwww your treatment because they know you aren't indigent and this point, you're either crazy or playing them. They may call for a transfer to a psychiatric hospital, they'll certainly be making moves at this point you want to avoid. They know how to get their money. Charity care isn't just a pot you can freely dip in or we'd all be doing it.

But I like the spirit of the thing.

[–] TheLeadenSea@sh.itjust.works 182 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I had to think about this for an embarrassingly long time before I realise this was America and they don't have the NHS. In the UK you should absolutely provide your identity to the hospital, so it can go on your medical record.

[–] SpikesOtherDog@ani.social 48 points 1 week ago (11 children)

Out of pocket visit to the Dr, about $15-$20 Urgent care, $25 -$75 Emergency room, $100-$350

These are JUST FOR SHOWING UP AND HAVING INSURANCE, WHICH WE PAY $1000 MONTHLY. The rest of the bill is charged once you leave, mostly 50% of the remaining services.

Most people with work insurance are paying 40-50 percent, and their cost as an employee is calculated as their wages plus their benefits.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 46 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (9 children)

America is a dystopia. It's perfectly capitalist.

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[–] three@lemmy.zip 146 points 1 week ago (2 children)

When I'm having a medical emergency at home, my first step is always to get into my car and drive at least 5 miles away.

[–] crank0271@lemmy.world 89 points 1 week ago (3 children)

You fool, driving your own car. You need to drive the car of someone unrelated to you.

[–] kautau@lemmy.world 36 points 1 week ago

Pretty sure the advice here is to just go anonymously suicide by cop. When you do that in GTA you wake up fully healed outside the hospital. Must work IRL too

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[–] ethaver@kbin.earth 29 points 1 week ago (2 children)

there have been several cases over the years of people plowing their car into the ER waiting room when the heat attack / stroke finally gets too severe.

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[–] peoplebeproblems@midwest.social 87 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (10 children)

In case people are missing the joke the reason is so that they can't find you to bill you.

This doesn't actually work quite like this, but it's a funny joke none the less.

Especially if you've been to that hospital before. And if you have any medical records anywhere.

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[–] jenesaisquoi@feddit.org 55 points 1 week ago (6 children)
[–] abbiistabbii@lemmy.blahaj.zone 37 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)
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[–] VirtigoMommy@sh.itjust.works 55 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I like this idea but I struggle to believe it would work.

Went to the hospital for a kidney stone a few years ago. When I was released, 3 security guards crowded the front door to the hospital and wouldn’t let me leave for an extra hour and a half because they were adamant I had to pay my bill then and there.

They had all my information, didn’t even bother trying to go through my insurance, just “no, you owe us 2400 right now” and threatening to call the cops.

Me, a 110lbs woman fucked up on dilauded was ready to tussle but ended up paying before I left cause I didn’t want to deal with the police.

They ended up charging me, and then my insurance as well. I talked to my insurance who then bullied them into paying me back. Took 6 months but I did manage to get paid back.

[–] elbiter@lemmy.world 23 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You people live a dystopia.

[–] VirtigoMommy@sh.itjust.works 18 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Don’t worry, we’re painfully aware.

[–] weeeeum@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Pfffft not enough of us. Conservatives will go "B-B-BUT CANADA WUD MAKE U WAIT A BAJILLION YEARS FOR A BRAIN EXPLOSION"

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[–] unexposedhazard@discuss.tchncs.de 52 points 1 week ago (8 children)

Does this even work? Will they even treat you or let you leave without ID?

[–] originalucifer@moist.catsweat.com 67 points 1 week ago (1 children)

theyre only required by law to stabilize you. youre not getting 'cured'.

if you lose a finger for example, they don't have to put it back on.. only prevent you from bleeding out.

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[–] unconsequential@slrpnk.net 50 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yes they will treat you. But they will harass the shit out of you. I couldn’t properly identify myself or another victim after a critical accident and the other person almost lost their arm. I was failing all the other questions too (date, president, etc) but they wouldn’t stop asking like clockwork. It took hours to get an MRI and xray. I had two broken vertebrae in my upper back and severely concussed. They just kept giving the other passenger blood transfusions but refused to operate. They finally did a temp surgery on their arm but didn’t do a full surgery until after they were identified and it was confirmed they were well insured (union). It was a mess. Hospital and medical insurance took their entire settlement as payment for that shitty service too. We were struck by a drunk driver. Oh, and we both had stellar insurance (different unions but good insurance) and neither ambulance would take it. 5k for mine and I think theirs was more. And again, the whole settlement went to the insurance to pay the hospitals for that stellar bedside manner of letting me suffer for hours confused af and them almost die and lose their arm. Second surgeon was not happy. The other guy also was checked in as a John Doe at another hospital and they lost all of their teeth and most of their lower jaw. Also horrible delayed service. They care more about figuring out who you are so they know you’re “in network” than treating you.

[–] blaze@programming.dev 2 points 6 days ago

Dam, I'm sorry you went through that. That's horrible

[–] ignotum@lemmy.world 30 points 1 week ago

These days they'll assume you're mexican and deport you to sri lanka, untreated ofcourse

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[–] Korhaka@sopuli.xyz 43 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Every time I hear about American healthcare it makes me appreciate the NHS that little bit more.

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[–] Donebrach@lemmy.world 35 points 1 week ago

This is probably a bot, but also potentially someone in psychosis doing their psychosis shit.

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