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[–] CookieOfFortune@lemmy.world 2 points 14 hours ago

Definitely the wedding by a long shot. And mostly because we paid for a venue where we could house a bunch of guests coming from out of state.

[–] FrodoSpark@piefed.social 17 points 1 day ago (3 children)
[–] Omgpwnies@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

I kinda count that as house expense - if I didn't have this house, I wouldn't have had to replace the HVAC, windows, etc. so to me it just compounds on the purchase price of the property itself.

Real talk. My mom spent that much on her first new car; my grandparents spent 1/3 on buying land and building a house. I got heat for 110m2.

[–] jaybone@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I got a new one a couple years ago. Was like $25k. That wasn’t even with all the top of the line options either.

[–] halcyoncmdr@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago

And it's probably only $5000 worth of parts.

[–] nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 day ago (1 children)

A bicycle i could lift with my pinky

[–] Flagstaff@programming.dev 2 points 23 hours ago (1 children)
[–] nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

It was a carbon fiber bike that was less than 20 lbs. You could pick it up by the top tube with your pinky and balance it there. The bike with wheels and all came in around $5k. At the time i didn't have a car and used bike to go everywhere including shopping, so i wanted to have a second "nice" bike for fun riding and i used my old bike for normal commutes.

Fun fact but professional cycling regulations have a minimum bike weight of 6.8kg (14.99 lbs) so professional riders have even lighter bikes... but not too light!

[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 1 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago) (1 children)

Fun fact but professional cycling regulations have a minimum bike weight of 6.8kg (14.99 lbs) so professional riders have even lighter bikes.

They actually don't. Most pro bikes weigh closer to 20lbs. These guys descend mountains at 90 mph, sprint at 45 mph, they are not going to risk their lives over what amounts to a few sips of water. The 14.99 number is for dentists.

[–] nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 17 hours ago

Great Akctually, except, well, the answer is somewhere in the middle. It would have been more correct for me to hedge my language and say pro bikes can be lighter. This was my fatal flaw.

Also since we're going to be pedantic then bike weight is also dependent on the course. The link i gave above even talks about how bikes are optimized for the day's riding.

But great job bringing in stereotypes. Please tell me, is Tadej Pogačar a dentist?

[–] Zachariah@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago

college degree

[–] swab148@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 15 hours ago

Most expensive thing I own, my Strat!

[–] sylver_dragon@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Does a roof and windows count? Or, do those fall under the "house" heading? That was around $20k all done.
Finishing the basement was around $15k, though that's certainly under the house.
Then there's the septic tank we had to replace, that was about $10k.

The cost of a home isn't done with just the mortgage.

[–] Flagstaff@programming.dev 1 points 23 hours ago

I would say the stipulation is everything directly related to a house.

[–] sausager@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

The #2 McDonald's breakfast meal

[–] Nougat@fedia.io 7 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Motorcycle. Rode Amtrak with a backpack full of $5700 in cash to go get it and ride it home.

[–] Flagstaff@programming.dev 1 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

That's all that it had cost? How's it been?

[–] Nougat@fedia.io 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

It was used, bought from a private party. Best purchase I have ever made. I haven't had the "What bike should I get next?" thing since.

[–] Flagstaff@programming.dev 1 points 13 hours ago

Nice grab! Stay safe on the stroads!

[–] lost_faith@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 day ago

My now 5 yr old pc

[–] slakje@piefed.social 8 points 1 day ago
[–] SaveTheTuaHawk@lemmy.ca 2 points 18 hours ago

my kids educations.

[–] Spider89@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago

Sony Xperia 1 VI ($1K)

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 2 points 19 hours ago

I once built a 3000 € PC. Can't think of anything more expensive. I will never invest into SLI again. It was totally useless. Made more problems than anything.

[–] plantfanatic@sh.itjust.works 7 points 1 day ago

Buying a company.

[–] bacon_pdp@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)

a child, they cost between $200k and $1M per kid depending on what luck occurs and how much you are willing to care for them.

[–] Nougat@fedia.io 9 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Where did you buy your child?

[–] taco@anarchist.nexus 4 points 23 hours ago

Looking for a good deal?

[–] bacon_pdp@lemmy.world 0 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

At the “make a baby with my sexy husband” backroom selection.

[–] Nougat@fedia.io 1 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 3 points 18 hours ago

It was about that time she realized he was a 50 foot long Paleolithic dinosaur...

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 4 points 23 hours ago

The vacant lot next to my house.

After that... probably my wife's engagement ring. And very close after that, a number of dinners at fancy restaurants for large groups of people.

Wait, no... the catering for the wedding cost more than the ring. That's #2 after real estate.

[–] karashta@piefed.social 4 points 1 day ago
[–] BradleyUffner@lemmy.world 3 points 23 hours ago

A new HVAC system cost me about 20k, but if that falls under "house" it would go to the 12k CNC machine.

[–] n3m37h@sh.itjust.works 2 points 21 hours ago

PC or my Ebike. If it is single purchase, Ebike for sure, 2k after taxes

[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 2 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Well at work I ordered misc PC hardware for ~200k USD equivalent semi-regularly. And once I was the only one present who was an actual full time employee, so I signed the documents for chartering a survey ship for a month.

On the private I think it's my PC. Come to think of it, my three largest expenses have all been PCs. After that it's a guitar.

[–] faltryka@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago
[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 2 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

That's really tough. I think it was my water heater. It's a heat pump one so it's more expensive upfront but will heat more efficiently.

[–] bizarroland@lemmy.world 1 points 18 hours ago

I also got the heat pump water heater, and it does a lot of things. It cools your house during the summer. It saves you on electricity. For me, the saving is between 30 and 50 US dollars every month.

And my power company was offering a $500 cash rebate if you purchased one, so for me it was like $1,300 and then I spent $500 on all the parts and pieces I needed to get it installed, but I installed it myself with the help of a friend.

All of the plumbers in the area wanted two or three thousand dollars to install it, which is highway robbery.

[–] ghost_towels@sh.itjust.works 2 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

My sailboat, 20k. More than I’ve ever spent on a boat (or a car), but very worth it to us. It’s our cabin, retirement home, project, and happy place. Of course, we discovered after that the previous owner, bless his heart, hadn’t sealed a cable running through the deck properly and now the whole cabin top is rotten. So that will be a big job to fix. Luckily I can fix that myself, but my heart definitely sank when I discovered it.

[–] Someonelol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 22 hours ago

Roof rework at $28k.

[–] Ek-Hou-Van-Braai@piefed.social 1 points 22 hours ago

Bold of you to assume I can afford a house or a car... for me, it's definitely an academic degree, though I'm not sure that counts as a "purchase".