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The two I can think of are:

  • It's Not Unusual
  • Escape (The Piña Colada Song)
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[–] crank0271@lemmy.world 91 points 6 days ago (4 children)
[–] CrayonDevourer@lemmy.world 17 points 6 days ago

My (American) kids love this song. :D

[–] can@sh.itjust.works 10 points 6 days ago

This one immediately came to mind. They have a lot more good songs too.

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[–] mlfh@lemmy.sdf.org 91 points 6 days ago (8 children)

99 Luftballons is upbeat and fun, and about some balloons inadvertently kicking off a cataclysmic war that leaves the world in ruins.

[–] original_reader@lemmy.zip 14 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

It's about the cold war paranoia. Sound is all synth pop upbeat, though.

The English version is called "99 Red Balloons".

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[–] wizardbeard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 66 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (7 children)

Semi-Charmed Life by Third Eye Blind is the usual one I see brought up.

Push by Matchbox 20 and Possum Kingdom by Toadies are arguable ones.

Also, Richard Cheese covers a lot of raunchy and dark stuff in a vegas lounge singer style. Rape Me sung in a cheesy upbeat tone is a trip.

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[–] buzz86us@lemmy.world 18 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Pumped up kicks

Under the bridge Red Hot Chilli Peppers

[–] Seefoo@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

Came here to post pumped up kicks

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 54 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

Hey Ya by Outkast.

Also pretty much everything I have ever heard by Steely Dan.

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[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 23 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Pumped up kicks fits this for me.

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[–] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 19 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

90% of ska/ska punk music is like this. A few examples:

"The Science of Selling Yourself Short" - Less Than Jake

"Beer" - Reel Big Fish

"Struggler" and "I Don't Love You Anymore" - Bomb the Music Industry!

"The Last Bell I Will Ever Hear", "1-800-ALARM-ME" and "Last on my List" - The Arrogant Sons of Bitches

"Ska Dream" and "Checkerboard Ashtray" - Jeff Rosenstock

"A Better Place, a Better Time" and "As the Footsteps Die Out Forever" - Streetlight Manifesto

[–] Tehhund@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Nearly Everything by Reel Big Fish. It's all fun ska and mostly about social anxiety, broken hearts, and substance abuse. I love them.

[–] Snowpix@lemmy.ca 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I'll have to listen to that one! "I Know You Too Well to Like You Anymore" fits the bill as well. A very ugly fight between a couple who hate each other but can't live without one another.

[–] Tehhund@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Oops, I messed up my capitalization. I just meant nearly every song by them.

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[–] hopesdead@startrek.website 34 points 6 days ago (2 children)

People forget that Today by The Smashing Pumpkins is literally about suicide.

[–] KittenBiscuits@lemmy.today 14 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

But it's about the euphoria one may experience after deciding to go through with it. Ya^a^^y^^y^

/s

PS, I have witnessed the euphoria, but I didn't recognize it for what it was at the time. They were calling to say goodbye. Fuck, that still gets to me.

[–] hitmyspot@aussie.zone 10 points 6 days ago (5 children)

I wouldn't call the smashing pumpkins upbeat. Some are up tempo, .maybe, but upbeat is not their style. Their biggest album was titled Mellon Collie and the infinite sadness. Not exactly cheerful stuff.

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[–] dontbelievethis@sh.itjust.works 20 points 6 days ago

Pumped up kicks by foster the people

[–] jewbacca117@lemmy.world 30 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Rockin in the Free World by Neil Young

[–] KittenBiscuits@lemmy.today 17 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Good point. Born in the USA and Fortunate Son would probably fit in here as well.

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[–] Masktchi@feddit.fr 15 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Every Stromae's songs.
It's always funny to see non-french-speaking people being so hyped by Stromae's songs, like they think it's joyful af and all... While his songs lyrics are litterally about :

  • a man who drinks and dances a lot in order to forget his shitty life ( Alors on danse )
  • a song about his father who was killed during Rwanda's genocide ( Papaoutai )
  • other songs about suicide, cancer, breakups, addictions, depression etc... But always with an upbeat melody !
[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

I don't speak a lick of French (I know enough Spanish to recognize some words if they are slightly similar, but that's it) but still enjoy Stromae, although I've never found his music to be upbeat. I think, especially in Papaoutai, you can hear the struggle and sadness in the tone of the song and in his voice.

[–] radiouser@crazypeople.online 19 points 6 days ago (2 children)
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[–] baldingpudenda@lemmy.world 27 points 6 days ago

hey ya -- Outkast It's about relationships that aren't working out, but you still stay together.

" thank God for Mom and Dad / for sticking two together cause we don't know how"

Then later

" are we so in denial when we know we're not happy here? / y'all don't want to hear me, y'all just want to dance"

[–] SinkingLotus@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago
[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 23 points 6 days ago (1 children)
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[–] fodor@lemmy.zip 8 points 5 days ago

Semi-charmed Life

[–] GoddessGundy@lemmy.world 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

My boyfriend said he thought about me when we listen to Saturday Night by the Misfits. I'm like.... do you want to murder me?...

The lyrics always sounded very murdery to me. I think they did an amazing job of making it sound romantic but bf read through the lyrics after that and hugged me when I got home and said he definitely didn't want to murder me.

Edit: Ok this one is purely personal but I just got done with work and it came out on the playlist, Achilles Come Down by Gangs of Youth.

I learned this song from my daughter. I let her control the music when we'd drive to school and back but I immediately loved this song because unlike me, she has an amazing voice. This is one I only ever heard underneath her crystalline soprano while she sang along.

It was always so beautiful that I didn't focus on the song so much as her. She made a haunting, sad song a beautiful, pleasant memory for me because now she's had her license for a while, she's doing her thing being an ambitious senior. I don't get to listen to her sing anymore between my work and her school/social schedule.

I miss the days when I stayed up after a 12 hour shift to take her to school because I miss listening to her sing. I brain was fuzzy and that morning sun seared my eyeballs but I cherish every morning now because I don't have many left. I acutally miss everything about my kids needing me now that one has been independent for quite a few years and the other two are almost independent. I'm listening right now and all I can hear is her voice.

Fuck that shit hits hard. Im going to be an empty nester soon. Fucking FUCK. Fuck does it hit hard. I should be proud. I am! Jesus am I. I don't know how I was blessed with these people, bio and adopted, that's how vlessed I am, but I don't want to look the gift horse in the mouth. Fucking wow, am I proud. But really I'm sad, too.

/soliloquy

[–] Zoomboingding@lemmy.world 11 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Jonathan Coulton has a bunch of these. "I Feel Fantastic" "Betty and Me" "Blue Sunny Day" "Shop Vac" "Chiron Beta Prime" "Future Soon" off the top of my head. "Skullcrusher Mountain" and "Re: Your Brains" to a lesser degree.

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[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Rock-a-bye, baby

On the tree top

When the wind blows

The cradle will rock

When the bough breaks

The cradle will fall

And down will come baby

Cradle and all

We sing that shit to literal babies, what the fuck is wrong with us?

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

You are my sunshine

The other night dear As I lay sleeping I dreamed I held you in my arms But when I woke up I was mistaken so I held my head and I cried You are my sunshine My ONLY sunshine

It doesn't get any better from there

Edit: I will never understand how to format things the way I want them to sorry

[–] phonics@lemmy.world 17 points 6 days ago

pumped up kicks

[–] makeshiftreaper@lemmy.world 15 points 6 days ago

The Macarena I'd about a woman cheating on her BF getting drafted into the military with 2 other guys

Which is pretty intense for a song they taught to kids in grade school

[–] DarkDarkHouse@lemmy.sdf.org 14 points 6 days ago

Talking Heads - Life During Wartime and Once in a Lifetime spring to mind.

It's probably easier to list the Talking Heads songs that are not upbeat and depressing.

[–] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 14 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Bad Moon Rising by Creedence.

It's about the apocalypse, but you wouldn't know it from how upbeat it is.

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[–] FanciestPants@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Hey Jealousy by The Gin Blossoms comes to mind.

[–] DrSleepless@lemmy.world 14 points 6 days ago (2 children)
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[–] sangriaferret@sh.itjust.works 10 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Glory Days by Bruce Springsteen. It's about realizing that you've peaked and your best days are behind you.

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[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)
  • El Fusilado - Chumbawumba. A happy clappy sunshiney recounting of the life and times of one Wenceslao Moguel, a soldier of Pancho Villa's who was captured, executed by firing squad, and lived to tell the tale. Short version: He got knocked down, but he got up again.
  • Scarborough Fair - Folk; often associated with Simon and Garfunkel. I'm stretching the definition of "upbeat" here, but it baffles me that this is counted by anyone as a love song. It's a song about two ex-lovers expressing how much they hate each other by assigning each other impossible tasks as conditions for taking them back. He says "tell her I'll take her back if she sews me a shirt with no seams, washes it in a dry well and hangs it to dry on a vine with no thorns." She says "O RLY? Well you tell him that if he finds an acre of land between the ocean and the beach, sews it all with one seed and reaps it with a leather scythe, I'll take him back. And I'll even make him his damn shirt." It's a bitter song.
  • Another Day In Paradise - Phil Collins. Again I'm stretching the definition of "upbeat," it's slow in tempo, kind of heavy, but it has that big sexy hook, manages to feel kind of breezy, it feels designed for first dances at wedding receptions, and the refrain is "It's just another day for you and me in paradise." It feels like a competitor to Fields of Gold by Sting. It's not! The verses are about the humanity crushing power of abject poverty.
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[–] noughtnaut@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

Vamos a la playa - super catchy totally 80s pop song that was everywhere in amusement parks ..... and it's about nuclear hellscape.

[–] whotookkarl@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Zero 7 - Waiting to die

https://youtu.be/ge1_eVMO-mU

Snowpix mentioned lots of ska/ska punk I gotta agree, my pick is The Aquabats - chemical bomb

https://youtu.be/Y3fXdcHQY4o

Maybe a bit of a stretch but just running with the musical tone doesn't match the lyrics Ben Folds - bitches ain't shit cover

https://youtu.be/gjFRy8jQ_0U

[–] Pat_Riot@lemmy.today 2 points 4 days ago

Fast Car

Pumped Up Kicks

Flowers on the Wall

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[–] marius@feddit.org 11 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I don't like Mondays by boomtown rats

https://open.spotify.com/track/7JFoeg0arawADjGcz9gBnq

Quite a chill and happy song about a school shooting

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[–] Jhex@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago (9 children)

No Rain by Blind Melon... literally a song about deep depression with upbeat music

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David Bowie - Five Years Tennessee Ernie Ford - 16 Tons Iron Maiden - 2 Minutes to Midnight

And about half of Pink's oeuvre.

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